Danmei | Consensual + Healthy Relationships (with descriptions)

Danmei | Consensual + Healthy Relationships (with descriptions)
You're at the right place if

↬You're tired of: Non-con | Major power imbalance | Romanticisation of toxic, manipulative, and controlling behaviour. 

↬And you want: Novels that put emphasis on consent | Mutual respect, trust, and understanding between the main cp | Forehead pecks | Character development | Couple growth | Misunderstandings that get resolved through proper communication. 

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Please make sure to first check the tags on these novels before starting them though, as some of them talk about sensitive matters (Mistakenly Saving the Villain for example) 

Also, aside from Saye — which holds a special place in my heart, rest of the list isn't arranged by my personal preferences but rather the covers, as I like to keep my lists colour-coordinated. However, if you were to ask me, my favourite healthy relationships out of these would be — Saye, Mistakenly Saving the Villain, Restricted Area, Heaven Official’s Blessing, and To Rule in a Turbulent World.

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Please let me know if there's more novels with healthy relationships or if I accidentally added a novel which doesn't have one ( ˊᵕˋ ; )
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Undying Winter
Created: Jul 22nd, 2022, Updated: Nov 6th, 2023
Created Jul 22nd, 2022
Updated Nov 6th, 2023
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  1. lil-mcfile
    lil-mcfile· Jul 28, 2022 04:45 PM

    I love Saye (◍•ᴗ•◍)❤

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    • Undying Winter
      Undying Winter· Author · Jul 28, 2022 05:15 PM
      Same! it's my favourite novel. 
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  2. eetsome
    eetsome· May 25, 2023 03:51 PM
    I’m placing great trust on you right now lmao
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