Danmei | Consensual + Healthy Relationships (with descriptions)

Danmei | Consensual + Healthy Relationships (with descriptions)
You're at the right place if

↬You're tired of: Non-con | Major power imbalance | Romanticisation of toxic, manipulative, and controlling behaviour. 

↬And you want: Novels that put emphasis on consent | Mutual respect, trust, and understanding between the main cp | Forehead pecks | Character development | Couple growth | Misunderstandings that get resolved through proper communication. 


Please make sure to first check the tags on these novels before starting them though, as some of them talk about sensitive matters (Mistakenly Saving the Villain for example) 

Also, aside from Saye — which holds a special place in my heart, rest of the list isn't arranged by my personal preferences but rather the covers, as I like to keep my lists colour-coordinated. However, if you were to ask me, my favourite healthy relationships out of these would be — Saye, Little Mushroom, Mistakenly Saving the Villain, Restricted Area, Heaven Official’s Blessing, and To Rule in a Turbulent World.


Please let me know if there's more novels with healthy relationships or if I accidentally added a novel which doesn't have one ( ˊᵕˋ ; )
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Thousand Miles Icefield
Created: Jul 22nd, 2022, Updated: Jul 22nd, 2022
Created Jul 22nd, 2022
Updated Jul 22nd, 2022
CN (4.8)
63 Chapters Every 47.4 Day(s) 5445 Readers 55 Reviews 03-16-2022
Leave it to Wu Zhe when it comes to writing healthy relationships. ... more>>
CN (4.7)
68 Chapters Every 0.9 Day(s) 4040 Readers 66 Reviews 07-30-2021
Poor little top student was bullied by his school, so he transferred from an elite high school to an ordinary school.... more>>
CN (4.8)
0 Chapters Every 975 Day(s) 8957 Readers 258 Reviews 01-28-2020
“Until the day humanity falls.”... more>>
CN (4.8)
0 Chapters Every 2000 Day(s) 6561 Readers 184 Reviews 11-16-2020
Hyperthymesia. Those with this condition can remember every detail of their lives from something as significant as the world’s turning point to something as small and as insignificant as a minor fleeting thought. They cannot forget and their thirst for knowledge allows them to be considered a genius in some senses.... more>>
CN (4.5)
90 Chapters Every 55.3 Day(s) 5874 Readers 39 Reviews 09-03-2021
It was the best of times, it was the worst of times.... more>>
CN (4.7)
225 Chapters Every 10 Day(s) 12641 Readers 162 Reviews 09-18-2022
Chi Xiaochi: fourth-rate citizen at birth, three-time award-winning film emperor, second-rate temper, first-class looks.... more>>
CN (4.1)
89 Chapters Every 4.7 Day(s) 1990 Readers 11 Reviews 07-29-2022
Mr. Zheng (top) who stands at 186cm has liked women with fair skin and big boobs for 30 years. Out of nowhere, he found himself in love with the bronzed-skinned and flat-chested Mr. Yuan (bottom) who stands at 189cm. From then on, he started his lovey-dovey life with shoe insoles.... more>>
CN (4.6)
0 Chapters Every 171.8 Day(s) 5278 Readers 101 Reviews 12-08-2019
On the night of Xiao Ke’s thirtieth birthday, he shared a table while drinking. The person he shared the table with was a cool man who fit all of his aesthetic desires. It was practically love at first sight.... more>>
CN (4.6)
30 Chapters Every 69.9 Day(s) 6742 Readers 100 Reviews 12-16-2019
After class placements were decided, the school’s two infamous ‘problem youths’ not only shared the same class, but the same desk.... more>>
CN (4.6)
0 Chapters Every 523 Day(s) 3539 Readers 23 Reviews 04-26-2021
Qi Baicha was the last god in the world. He lived until the modern age, where he found an ordinary person to fall in love with and marry because life was too boring.... more>>
CN (4.5)
32 Chapters Every 0.3 Day(s) 2515 Readers 28 Reviews 05-12-2021
After he was differentiated into an Omega, Chen Xun was like a scrap of dirty paper. He no longer owns anything, his love and self-respect... more>>
CN (4.6)
97 Chapters Every 28.5 Day(s) 11407 Readers 124 Reviews 04-10-2022
[Gentle Control] was an urban danmei novel that was tagged with ‘sadistic love’ and ‘coercion’.The protagonist shou, Xie Sui, was a proud son of heaven. He had an illustrious family background, was cold and removed from desire, and attracted many (psychopathic) admirers. From the gentle senior to the paranoid president, to the haughty and proud arch-enemy, these big guys were all top leaders of their respective fields, yet they were all crazy about him.... more>>
CN (4.8)
66 Chapters Every 0.6 Day(s) 3088 Readers 65 Reviews 12-01-2021
You wouldn't expect it by the synopsis, but the main leads' relationship is surprisingly healthy, well-balanced, consensual and cute. ... more>>
CN (4.5)
438 Chapters Every 0.9 Day(s) 4849 Readers 32 Reviews 09-28-2022
Xu Beijin is an extra in the game ‘Escape.’ His usual role is to lie on the floor to be the corpse, while observing how the Missiontakers scratch their heads to figure out a way to survive.... more>>
CN (4)
77 Chapters Every 21.2 Day(s) 4155 Readers 21 Reviews 08-20-2022
When Qi Xingchen transmigrated, he transmigrated into a fiction book set in the entertainment industry as cannon fodder and was lucky enough to have an entire family of cannon fodder.... more>>
CN (4.7)
1 Chapters Every 481 Day(s) 8246 Readers 177 Reviews 06-04-2021
Professor System has issued a mission: to rescue the gentle, kind and tragic protagonist shou of the novel “The Exceptional Furnace”.... more>>
CN (4.4)
0 Chapters Every 426 Day(s) 1530 Readers 9 Reviews 07-31-2021
It’s midsummer, and the Emperor made all his sons sleep in the temple with peaches in their mouths to fulfill an ancient rite.... more>>
CN (4.7)
23 Chapters Every 68.3 Day(s) 17643 Readers 440 Reviews 11-29-2020
Eight hundred years ago, Xie Lian was the Crown Prince of the Xian Le kingdom. He was loved by his citizens and was considered the darling of the world. He ascended to the Heavens at a young age; however, due to unfortunate circumstances, was quickly banished back to the mortal realm. Years later, he ascends again–only to be banished again a few minutes after his ascension.... more>>
CN (4.7)
156 Chapters Every 4.1 Day(s) 8974 Readers 203 Reviews 07-18-2021
It started off peculiarly; first, his domestic cat refused to let him cuddle it.... more>>
CN (4.3)
102 Chapters Every 67.5 Day(s) 7853 Readers 73 Reviews 03-14-2020
The Special Investigations Unit is a covert organisation that no-one in the city knows about, dedicated to investigating bizarre occurrences beyond the comprehension of the living.... more>>
CN (4.6)
72 Chapters Every 18.5 Day(s) 10294 Readers 94 Reviews 06-30-2022
“The first person to dig ziliujin fuel out of the ground could never have predicted that what they dug out was the beginning of a dog-eat-dog age.... more>>
CN (4.7)
82 Chapters Every 57.3 Day(s) 10154 Readers 181 Reviews 09-22-2020
The notorious imperial court lackey and the meritorious military general were well-known for their mutual dislike, a pair of arch-enemies set in stone. Who could have foreseen the unexpected change in the winds of heaven: the general injured on the battlefield, both legs disabled, and even forced by the emperor to marry his nemesis.  ... more>>
CN (4.7)
97 Chapters Every 62 Day(s) 6934 Readers 83 Reviews 01-06-2022
On the Third-Year of Kaihuang, as the Great Sui unfolds its curtains to welcome the glorious Tang Dynasty in succession to the Northern Dynasty, Yang Jian established a secret agency, the Jiejian Bureau in preparation to unify the world.... more>>
CN (4.5)
113 Chapters Every 46.9 Day(s) 8904 Readers 71 Reviews 07-13-2021
A cultivation story about how a declining sect is restored by a narcissist, troublemaker, meanie, idiot, and wimpy kid.
CN (4.3)
35 Chapters Every 23.8 Day(s) 2348 Readers 6 Reviews 05-28-2022
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  1. lil-mcfile
    lil-mcfile· Jul 28, 2022 04:45 PM

    I love Saye (◍•ᴗ•◍)❤

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    • Thousand Miles Icefield
      Thousand Miles Icefield· Author · Jul 28, 2022 05:15 PM
      Same! it's my favourite novel. 
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