1. The talk about abortion. Yes, ML did ask MC if he wanted to keep the baby or not. When it comes to being a spouse, ML and MC are top quality, and when it comes to being a father, they are still top quality. Consider: you are a man. Your career is on the rise, and you have lived with the knowledge that you can't give birth to a child. And suddenly, you find yourself pregnant. It's not even an mpreg world. You are an anomaly. The doctors who did a checkup on you are trying not to look at you as if you are a freak. If your partner tells you "you must keep the baby", what would you do? MC, who never even knew what mpreg is, finds himself pregnant. Nobody would be fine with that. In fact, if ML hadn't asked MC for his opinion, I would've been so mad.

2. Talking to Qiqi about the child: children who are adopted are always more sensitive and sensible than kids who are biologically related. And Qiqi's live in the orphanage had always been like this. People really treat adopted children differently; it's not the fault of the child, but of the society and the idiots who think that blood and genes matter in the long run. Qiqi has witnessed so many kids being returned to the orphanage because their adoptive parents got children of their own. He is bound to have his insecurities. MC saying "Qiqi is my favourite, he will be my favourite forever" is a way to coax him and make him more confident. Besides, Qiqi and YanYan always say "you are our favourite daddy", does that change their relationship or love for ML? It doesn't. Asking Qiqi whether he wants a younger sib is the least they can do to make him less insecure. Also, MC has taken a huge risk giving birth to yanyan, because this world doesn't have a proper way to let men give birth. As I said before, it's an anomaly, so things could go real wrong, real fast.

3. MC drawing comics and posting it under the blog he made for Qiqi and not Yanyan: some people forget that when he started that blog, yanyan wasn't even born. For god's sake, MC and ML didn't even know whether the child was born a male or female, they didn't know what they were going to name the child. The child was barely an embryo at that time, how was MC supposed to name the blog after a child when he hadn't met him himself?! When Yanyan is born, the blog name is changed to Mr Q and Mr Y.

3. Qiqi poking yanyan: both of them enjoyed it. What's wrong? Qiqi poked and yanyan giggled. There is not much you can do when you are playing with a baby. The baby enjoys it. They keep poking each other till baby gets bored, which is when they change the game. I don't think I've ever met a 2 month baby who could actively say "hey I want to play such and such game", but I have come across plenty of babies who like attention.

4. ML not taking Yanyan when he and Qiqi go to visit MC: it's obvious why. yanyan is a newborn. It's a bad experience for all of them involved, if there is no person to pay attention to the baby 24/7. a single person travelling while taking care of two kids, and one of them is a newborn. Tell me it's not hellish. Besides, ML still has to hide from the public. A baby needs a lot of care, not to mention that they are going to sit on a plane. Of course, even at this time, they still decide to take yanyan and the entire Jiang family go on a road trip. Because it's not good for an infant below the age if 6 months to travel in an airplane. There was only one big occasion where Yanyan was not included: a family dinner at a restaurant, and they specifically discussed about it; he might not be comfortable with it, so he was left with his grandparents.

5. MC not giving Yanyan enough hugs and kisses? Are we reading the same novel? Yanyan has never had to take a single step on his own. He's always being held and hugged. He's practically pampered like a little prince. I have no idea how ppl got this notion.

6. Yanyan as extra child: I have no idea where you read this.... But he definitely wasn't treated as an extra child. What Qiqi got, he got. There was no favouritism. Yanyan had always been happy, MC and ML treated both of them equally. If his parents didn't let him get his way, yanyan had another person he could act cute to, to get his way. The only time he didn't get something that Qiqi got, was when it wasn't good for him. No matter what, every child has different needs, especially if they have age gaps. Qiqi and yanyan are two different very cute kids, and it's not called favouritism when Qiqi gets to eat burgers while Yanyan doesn't, when yanyan literally doesn't have any teeth. It's also not favouritism when qiqi gets the pet of his choice but yanyan doesn't, because qiqi asked for a puppy and yanyan asked for a freaking pony to ride. Still, his parents decided to bring him to see a pony during the weekends and promised him to let him ride one when he was older. You can pamper children, but spoiling them is just a different kind of abuse, because once kids are spoiled and don't know right from wrong, they will not be able to treat others with basic respect. This can be seen by the example of one ofthe kids in the extras, who is so spoiled that she doesn't even respect her own mother.

All in all, MC and ML are great parents. You'll die of cuteness when you read the extras.

When "white moonlight" begins to entangle himself with the ML, the ML was so quick to shut him down, talk to the MC about what happened, and avoid the white moonlight so the MC can deal with him personally

ML is responsible for his marriage to him marrying is a new start from past so he makes sure to make his marriage work with MC. At start he thinks MC is just a vase (original one was pathetic person) but here comes our transmigrated MC who is heir to his family which is more higher in status in comparison to ML family. For him he can go to any industry but tries original MC acting profession for something new. At start ML is little passive in relationship but 100% responsible even though that irritating white moonlight comes back and is like so annoying but he is indifferent to him. The fluffiest are the kids of ML n MC. ML has a son adopted prior to marriage but there is a gap in between ML and qiqi. MC was himself adopted in previous life so he understands Qiqi and tries to have him more open up and I have to say Qiqi is adorable.. their 2nd child is biological one where MC gets pregnant some may not like that part but when you see MC son it feels like mpreg tag is okay because he is a cutie. for his pregnancy ML gives MC full authority even to abort as ML always feel guilty for MC.

best thing of this novel is equal relationship between leads (in all author novels) and MC telling ML about transmigration even though ML always feel there is difference between original MC and transmigrated MC but he never forced MC as he believes when they have more years with each other MC would tell him. At start ML was like MC is vase after knowing him ML was like MC is a fox. MC is very strong type, he has a habit of recording which he uses as evidences. He even records his n ML first meeting where ML tells him he wont fall in love with him and have ML listen to it after ML proposes MC and that proposal was something to look forward...

he is so disgusting you just feel like taking him out of novel and beat him. he is more pathetic than a female white lotus. after falling in love with MC, ML realizes that he may have never loved that white lotus (well plot god) . to that white lotus world should revolve around him and marriage has no value in his eyes. HE is like ML should care for him even though he is married and treat MC with indifference. For him ML should be his sparetyre. He specifically looks for MC in a show (because ML has stopped his contacts with him) to tell him that ML likes him and he shouldnt stop ML from meeting him and breaks his friendship with him. MC is like go tell him why are you coming to me but WL is like a c*ckroach who wont go away. but when same thing happens to him he is like to that scum gong like how could you do this to me blah blah.. He even sends goons for beating up MC when MC was pregnant and with Qiqi even though MC beats up those goons as he had previous heir training but then MC took off his gentleness and have white lotus beat up by his friend contacts Wei lan (who is lovable character and always protects MC when comes to white lotus even the only friend who knows about MC pregnancy). that white lotus got his fair retribution..

well he just has few chapters like 10 so dont worry most novel is filled with fluff. even though it is entertainment novel but it isnt like other novels where most novel is about acting skills, it rather revolves around relationships. It is like a career not more than rather that focus is on relationship and fluff..

As far for that white moonlight he just is disgusting to the core. Even with his end I never felt any pity for him. He even has the adacity to tell MC he is the third party but MC is like showing him the meaning of third party at baidu. MC tells him directly that he left ML feelings for chasing scum gong and was never in relationship with ML and to him ML was like a sparetyre.

There was an specially sweet part near the end where ML wanted the son MC gave birth to to have MC's surname because their other son already had ML's name (ML was especially distressed by how the pregnancy affected MC professionally, physically and emotionally). MC declined ML's offer because he didn't want their adopted son to think he was left out or that MC loved him less. It found it sweet how ML was more aggrieved about the fact than MC.

before meeting MC, ML did some research on him so after he (ML) gets to know him (MC) , he was really curious about the differences but he still wait for MC to tell him (ML) himself (MC)

Like some people said, the mpreg was a strange thing to add. I'd say it didn't have much impact on the story and would be the same if the main couple had just adopted again. I felt uncomfortable reading it since there's no real explanation aside from Jaing Mochen being the MC in a novel.

Here's a warning and spoiler about the mpreg:

Yuan Mingxu gets pregnant as well but miscarries. He was abused by Zhao Yixing and it also suggests that YMX was r*ped. I can't remember the chaps and I'm too uncomfortable to look for it but it's definitely a part you can skip.

The ending also felt a bit rushed? Yan Qingchi 100% deserved the best male actor award considering how the roles he's played have very different vibes (jumping from an idol story to a military story then a martial arts) but having them announce their relationship then in like 2 chapters announce their wedding was very off-putting.

The amount of trust between Jiang Mochen and Yan Qingchi is raising the bars. JMC has done a bg check on YQC before meeting and can immediately notice that there's a stark contrast between the YQC he's seen in reports and the YQC he's met. Luckily that's around mid to late parts of the story so by the point he's suspicious/curious, he has complete trust in YQC.

YQC also has a lot of trust in JMC. There's a part where YMX (JMC's "white moonlight") is trying to insinuate that JMC likes him (YMX) more than YQC (legal spouse) but completely fails. Even when YQC finds out that JMC met w/YMX privately (just to tell YMX to stop harrassing them but YQC doesn't know) he's more upset that JMC didn't tell him that he was going to see YMX.

On the topic of YMX-

He doesn't last for more than 30 to 45 chapters. He's really a minor villain that's jumping like a clown. Same thing w/ZYX.

I also like how they raised QiQi and YanYan. Although they don't have much time in the story, you can tell how much YQC and JMC try to be part of their children's lives. When they're separates during holidays, one side wil bring the kids to the other parent to celebrate. For New Years and birthdays.

There's also YQC's past life. It's sprinkled around enough and coherant enough for you to understand why he's so talented. He's an orphan adopted by a rich family and gets along with them very well even after his younger brother was born. His mother liked playing the piano so he learned how to play for her. He had a bad time once in the orphanage and developed a habit to record things so he wouldn't be wronged. He's skilled at hand to hand combat for self defense purposes.

And I just got started on the extras. 100% recommend to read. The second extra is making me green with envy at just how adorable their family is.

It feels like the author was held to a gunpoint and forced to make this story mpreg because literally nobody gave a flying fck about MC’s pregnancy, sure they were pleasantly surprised but thats about it, I even pity the baby, MC literally said, since its here already why not just go through with it, and, Qiqi you’ll always be daddy’s favorite kid even if you have a baby brother or sister, ML was also like, if one day something happens to you and your child and you can only choose one between you two I’ll choose you without hesitation, anf YES they did say these, like, DAMN they really don’t care, they don’t deserve the baby tbh poor him/her. I know he only said that to Qiqi to comfort him but at least limit it to “I’ll still love you just the same” or something, the baby IN YOUR BELLY is also your kid, a biological one even, and its like they’re treating that unborn baby as a stranger, an outsider, like what the fck? Thats YOUR kid! I’d hate to say this but make it make sense, you love your adopted kid more than your own baby? You favor him more? I know you don’t want Qiqi to feel like he’s going to be left out because you’re gonna have a kid, but at this rate YOU’LL be making YOUR baby feel like he’s/she’s unwanted.