What bothers me most is that after ML stalks het for years, follows het to another city, breaks into her house and forced kisses on her. She decides to believe that this world is different from the novel and starts to open up because besides what she knows from the novel "he is actualy very sweet and caring". Within a few chapters they are all lovey dovey after the ML saves her

ML never truly loves FP (Sheng Wenyang) before. He only feels good about her and like her independence and intelligent. He feels pissed that FP took his feeling for granted and flies off to abroad without any words. ML only accept FP in books as he didnt feels good with blind date his family arranged. In the middle story, MC transmigrate and ML truly falls hard for her. MC once said that even in book, ML never pursue FP like that.

MC accept ML as she realised that she is her own person and not the character in book as ML is also a person.

Though after a few—almost a hundred— chapters, ML did start lowering his ego, albeit still remaining pushy, in order to pursue the FL. (Imo, it's considered as harassment but with the way the FL is, in order for the story to keep rolling, I understand that it's the only way to keep himself attached to her) I actually appreciate his act of lowering his ego a bit because it means he's actually got a bit of brain to think things through. Though, thats the only thing I appreciate about him. Unlike the FL.

FL, —SIIIIIIGGGHHH—, she's good in all aspects, personality-wise. Except when it comes to ML. She becomes d*mb as a chicken. Somewhere around c90-100 she finally realises that things doesn't seem to be the same as the book. But as a d*mb chicken she was, who the f*ck cares right? The title's to avoid the protagonist so she should do just that, and she did. At c112/113 she has another realisation, that she has been badly prejudiced against the ML because of the book from her past life. But she decides she doesn't want to think of it and sets it aside :)

because the FL already read the whole book where she transmigrated and she knew that being in contact with the male protagonist will lead to death flags for her and to her family

1. the author of the novel also transmigrated in the novel and became the main antagonist, 2. The FL went back to her own world but she really loved the ML so she tried to look for the book and find out what happened after she delivered her baby and 3. She successfully went back to the novel world and reunited with the ML

I absolutely cannot believe how the ending brushed over the fact she forced a second child on him without his consent.

ML had made it very clear that he did not want a second child due to the trauma of having her slip into a coma the first time she gave birth. The FL pretended to by sympathetic and understanding, all the while actively deceiving and lying to him by searching online on how to get pregnant without your partner knowing.

In the end, the fact that she got pregnant without his knowledge or consent is and was never handed any sort of consequence is unbelievable to me. Imagine if the roles were switched in their situation: a wife told her husband due to the trauma of her first delivery, she didn’t want to have a second child, and her husband lied to her face, saying that he understood and supported her decision, while also forcibly impregnating her without her knowledge or consent.

If one party wants children and another doesn’t, then the adult thing to do is to have a discussion or go see a counselor, not get pregnant behind your partner’s back. By doing so, you are actively destroying the trust between you two, and I can’t believe the author didn’t address this humongous relationship red flag.

I agree with everyone, the ML is a harassing stalker that frequently kidnaps, physically manhandles, and basically assaults the FL. There is no romance, it’s a gradual and depressing wear down of the FL as everyone from her harasser to her own classmates force her to be with the ML. Listen, she switches majors, leaves the city, and makes it crystal clear to everyone that she doesn’t want anything to do with him... and we’re supposed to think it’s “cute” that he wins her?

Also, the moment where she starts changing her mind is so damn unrealistic and s*upid. It’s so forced in there and OOC for her. She basically is like “oh I was prejudiced against him from my past life, what has he done to me now?” And as a reader you are like- how about the stalking and constant harassing he’s been doing relentlessly??? Like girl you had to completely uproot your life to get away from him and you’re wondering if you’re being unfair to him??? Would have been so satisfying if she really had just stayed single and worked on her career like she clearly wanted.