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“Because strait is the gate, and narrow is the way, which leadeth unto life, and few there be that find it.” -Matthew 7:14

Guomen, 過門/过门, meaning marriage in Chinese. If explained literally, it means going past the gates/door-a reference to the Bible(see above).

“Through the Strait Gates”: to me, it’s the best way to explain it.

The gate’s narrow, the road small for them.

Their past and future interwoven into a tangled, messed up web.

Thirteen years of sour and bittersweet memories. And seven years in between that washed out everything they had like water, leaving only stark, plain, throbbing dullness.

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Guomen
过门
過門
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Cocole
Cocole rated it
January 11, 2021
Status: Completed
A coming of age story that is very well written. Each word and sentence carries with it meaning that can only be sensed through the lens and filter of the experience of the reader. I haven’t laughed so hard and cried so miserably reading a novel for such a long time. The CP and the side characters’ lives reminds me of my own growing up. Although our issues were different but our thought process were the same. Issues that I thought were so difficult to overcome, so important seems ‘eh’... more>> many years later. Thank you so much author and the wonderful translation work. Really appreciate all their hard work and dedication. Love ❤️ <<less
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Kaylee
Kaylee rated it
November 8, 2020
Status: Completed
This is superb! Emotionally invested like 100%.

A real life reality check that choosing a man man relationship is the same as f*cking your life, your family, your friends, and him too. It's a difficult, scary decision.

Reading this is like being showered with reality check. Sometimes it's suck, sometimes it's sweet, but everyday can get worse if we give up.

Go read it friends.
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goobsjie
goobsjie rated it
October 17, 2022
Status: Completed
Brilliantly written bit of slice of life featuring teenage boys in the spring of their youth, grappling with growing pains, identity, and the transient nature of life. This is a novel I couldn't stop thinking about long after I finished. There's a quiet bleakness to it that crept up on me and wrenched my heart in the most painful of ways.

A lot of themes to unpack but ultimately it's about how sometimes, no matter how much you want something or how hard you try, the way forward is simply not... more>> straight. Sometimes you are bound by fate, other times you're limited by your own mind.

Through the trials of life, MC finds the courage to be free from society while ML learns to compromise and be a part of it, and they eventually find their way back to each other.

Some of the pop references (such as Jay Chou's old hit) brought about a nostalgia factor that really hit home for me.

For a novel that felt quite painful and quite real, the only bit of criticism I have is that Dou Xun's possessiveness and derision is over the top and takes away from that realism, but thankfully he becomes self-aware and much more normal by the end.

Lastly, kudos to the translator. The translation was a pleasure to read.

Some quotes that stuck with me:

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You make me hurt but I still can't bear to shoot you dead the way I shot the other things that made me hurt, so I can only endure even if it kills me.

He wanted Dou Xun but he didn't want to be gay.

Cai Jing's crush was like the moss at the corner of the wall, quiet and hidden, meticulous and fretful. It would never flower and once the light shone on it, it would die.

When he was young, Xu Jin had joked that he rejected his bed and instead preferred to sleep in a coffin. After he had grown up, he rejected his bed and lay in the coffin with the boy he loved, both kissing and caressing the other.

Every day that we can be together is one more day I can spend loving him.

This time, let me be the one to give way to you, the one to say sorry, the one to knock on your door. This time, I would rather swallow my tongue than say the words break up or sever ties.

When you go, I won't see you off; when you come, no matter how strong the wind or heavy the rain, I will welcome you (this quote is from an essay and not actually written by Priest but I loved it so I'm including it)

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bunnydesuuu
bunnydesuuu rated it
December 28, 2021
Status: Completed
4/5 Heavy and depressing novel. It's your classic "what happens when 2 teenagers who don't get along are forced to live under one roof, with shitty, divorced, and/or dead parent (s) ", but with a realistic tone to it that borderlines on "life is never fair and bad things will definitely happen". I read this novel expecting the angst that comes with the lack of acceptance of homosexuality in society, but end up with a bitter pill about life misgivings stuffed down my throat. It's definitely a well written novel,... more>> especially considering how well the depressing feelings was brought across. But not my cup of tea. MC and ML relationship was also not very romantic. Somewhat in between emotional dependence and "at my lowest, there was no one else but you". They did have a happy ending, but the overall story is a pretty depressing one. <<less
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The_yiling_patriach
The_yiling_patriach rated it
May 25, 2021
Status: Completed
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ahhhh I can't even count how many times I cried...... this story is not like cliche school life where everyone around CP are either gay or supporters and this story portrays the true color of life from family, friends, love, homophobic etc even though there is only 65+ chapters but it covers every emotions and struggles of ppl living in this society and I cried a lot when xu jin died like in one paragraph they are happily chatting and in next few paragraphs she died😭

Now our MC and ML I love how their character grown from childish brats to hardworking man overall this novel is beautiful bitter sweet story like a rainbow after the heavy rain

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Andcro
Andcro rated it
March 3, 2021
Status: Completed
A beautiful story of growing up, learning to embrace your true self and overcome obstacles. It’s such a bittersweet story, I feel like I grew up with them, that in a way I lived their lives and felt their pains. It en captured the pains of lost friendship through time, being young and having both the world at your feet and the pressure of finding a path and a purpose.

And the romance is to die for. It’s immature, the characters have misunderstandings that you can accept because life throws them... more>> so much and they’re so young they can’t manage it all. As always priest portrays the themes of her stories beautifully.

I try to avoid stories where the conflict is coming out and social pressure against queer people, due to personal experiences. But in this book, is not only realistic, it tacked in my opinion the issues very well. It gives hope that at the end of the day, you can find happiness even when the world is against you.
loved it, cried a lot and this story will stay with me forever. <<less
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Awu Wang rated it
December 18, 2023
Status: Completed
Y'll if you are really taking seriously the reviews with 1 star because the novel would be racist, just please take a look and judge yourself because the alleged big deal is not as they are saying just to discredit the author.

Anyway the story tells a lot about heavy topics, with sensitive but raw style: internalized h*mophobia, h*mophobia, abusive parents/family, childhood trauma, failed school system, failment, depression, death, pet death, a lot of life issues, destructive romance... yeah it's not at all a sweetned slice of life. But racist? At... more>> best the character (who is immature, inexperienced and can't deal with his mom's death) babbles according to old and useless stereotypes to make his grandma happy in just one quote, with no intentional harm (blink and you won't notice) and it ends there. There is no consistent depiction about domestic workers, they are just there doing their work and it's enough, there is nothing dancing around there. They are not at all represented like they are s*aves or inferior or something disrespectful O_o the beloved protagonist's auntie is a maid and she is chinese. Maybe people are reading too much into the lines but that's on you to judge. Don't misinterpret please a good and realistic and well written novel just for out of context reviews <<less
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forget_me_not
forget_me_not rated it
August 21, 2023
Status: Completed
4/5

A good read that displays the uncertainty and insecurity of youth—right person, wrong time kinda thing. The story was was interesting and the characters likable (though I found Dou Xun a bit exasperating at times).

However, I'm a bit confused about Cai Jing's character as it kinda felt like the author had something else planned for him and then scrapped it part way through. His plot twist was random and anticlimactic and his character was suddenly downplayed afterward. Also wish that they'd gone more in depth about their careers and success... more>> later in life as they were always talking about how much potential Dou Xun had but didn't really go into whether he fulfilled it or not.

march edit: I APPARENTLY READ THIS 6 MONTHS AGO AND SOMEHOW HAVE NO MEMORY; would've thought it was a mistake if I hadn't literally reviewed it <<less
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Sesgy
Sesgy rated it
February 6, 2023
Status: Completed
I love this novel so much.

I really adore the characters and their development towards the end.

It's the story of two teenagers finding solace in the other and even though they bicker a lot they're so lonely happy together that it breaks my heart. However something happens which leads them to separate but they reunite and try to make up for their past's mistakes. Their flaws are so humanly relatable that you can't hate them for that (especially Dou Xu he's so relatable). It's a beautiful coming of age novel, definitely... more>> recommending it. <<less
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Ponponponuts rated it
January 7, 2023
Status: Completed
An amazing tale of growth and learning the painful but completely realistic aspects of life, its ups and downs, and the unforgiving fate of everything coming to an end, with the things and memories being left behind as the people move on with time.

Guomen has flawed yet utterly lovable characters with experiences that will relate with you. The themes in this book are effectively conveyed and it's a story that stuck to me even after having read it a year ago. I never re-read novels but this was an unexpected... more>> exception. No one is really a villain and it doesn't impose the kind of simplistic and redundant black and white narrative like other novels. I dont mean to say that stories of that sort are bad but with Guomen's setting, the characters complexity make this narrative's absence more appreciated. No person is unreasonably horrible to the MC just to have a smidge of conflict. If you're looking for a story with impactful themes and bittersweet romance, this is for you.

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Dou Xun and Xu Xilin are people that if they had met at any other time of their life, they probably wouldn't end up as what they are by the end of the book. Being together with the other person makes their flaws starkly obvious. Their growth at the end, especially Xu Xilin's, is always a good tearjerker.

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I love how the side characters actually mean something to the story and are written well. Angst is good. Characters are sensible. Plot is great. Made me cry. <<less
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Hellish
Hellish rated it
September 6, 2022
Status: Completed
This was my first Priest novel that I've read. I loved the characters, I loved the buildup. It was very realistic and I feel that a lot of us can relate to what Xu Xilin and Dou Xun go through. What I do not like is the racist remark targeted towards Filipinos. Having read Guomen, I can already tell that Priest is very talented at writing and doesn't fail to meet the exceptions; but instead proceeds to exceed them. Yet, the racist comment should not be allowed to slide past... more>> everyone. <<less
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Anissia
Anissia rated it
January 27, 2022
Status: Completed
I really loved this story. I got attached to the protagonists, as both of them each have their personnalities, each well described and shaped by the author. They are realistic as can be. It starts out in their youth, young love sprouts, they have their doubts, each their flaws and views, one hesistating still and the other going all in, you can see and understand each of their struggles and points of view, their youthful personnalities, still not mature, and the harsh impact of society, their family's expectations, and reality,... more>> on their decisions.
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At the end, they mature, try to change for the best still, and mend things.

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Youarehappy
Youarehappy rated it
November 29, 2021
Status: --
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Overall, enjoyed the novel but don't think I will reread it again. But it was a nice experience!
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angelstar1000
angelstar1000 rated it
October 8, 2021
Status: Completed
I enjoyed it, but don't think I will reread it. 3, 5 stars!
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Rimamr
Rimamr rated it
August 5, 2021
Status: Completed
Simply masterpiece it's one of the greatest novel I ever read and believe me I read soooo many the greatest thing about this novel that it's so realistic and from our daily life
The MC character so funny and beautiful and I don't blame him to be coward in some situation we all have our weak moment but I only blame him for one thing
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I really hated when he break up with Dou Xun he was so heartless and I hate him the most when I found that he called DX father to take him out of his life, first his mother who fight for the custody and take him from his father home and let him live in strangers house then his lover do the same and choose for him where to live they both was unfair with him

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The ML character so difficult and I don't blame him too because he lived so hard life in his past and don't know how to be social and act around people he tried his best to change but in the end he forced to get back to be lonely and have miserable life and that really break my heart

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The angst in this novel unbearable First Xu Jin death was so sorrowful I cried my eyes out Second Cai jing every thing about him so sad and make me cry so hard Third and the most important the break up OMG I only remember cried so hard like this while reading 2HA and YUWU I even had headache from trying to hold my tears for most of the time, and when I finally felt happy for their happy ending come the airport accident really so so so much angst

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Elly2306
Elly2306
June 19, 2021
Status: Completed
Did they end up living in their old childhood house?
If you enjoyed this book do read, lovely allergen and the heart of a smith. Both lovely books. With the best of stories.
This book was all about the uncertainty of life. Something that terrifies me and reading through that fear was a bit of a cruel journey. It’s a beautiful story but I wish there could’ve been more vigor. And a brighter tone set out. But I’m sure that’s what the author wanted. That’s the essence in there. So yes, do give it a read. I’d give it a 3.5/5
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Elyurias
Elyurias rated it
February 12, 2021
Status: Completed
It's a great story, you won't regret read it. I could spent hours making a review of Guomen but I can describe it in just one world: magnificent.

It's totally worth your time.
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xscape
xscape rated it
December 14, 2020
Status: Completed
The other reviewers have written how good and realistic this story is. I agree with them and won't elaborate on it myself. However, I want to emphasize the beauty of how the story is written and translated, it's almost, at the least, artistic. I sometimes repeat reading some paragraphs over and over again to savour the beauty in them. Also, I want to add that I'm happy with the fact that in book 3, the secret insecurities of the MC and ML are almost always mentioned sided to side because... more>> if only one of them is insecure, I'd feel insecure for his sake too, lol. <<less
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ifhecatchesme_i
ifhecatchesme_i rated it
April 1, 2023
Status: Completed
overall a really good and atmospheric novel, it was really well written and had a profound sense of gravity and maturity to it.

what I liked:

    • the writing style was beautifully descriptive, and was very good at creating a living breathing atmosphere, and immersing the reader into it. Even though I've never been to Beijing (or China in general for that matter) I could really grasp and vividly imagine the scenery, and even feel nostalgic for it like the story is.
    • The characters are the highlight of the story. They are very well rounded and feel and act real people, and are very realistically flawed. The character development is also fantastic, and is very delicately done and subtle. It's heartwarming to see stuff they struggle with so much as teens and young adults become nothing more than a nuisance when they get older, and learning to separate and then reconnect. The main romance is similarly heartwarming.
    • I have to say, there's a level of professionalism to this novel I haven't seen in other webnovels I've read (which is, admittedly not a lot), even those by the same author. I can't really put my finger on it, and it might just be because it's my first non-fantasy webnovel I've read, but it really feels like a published book.
what I didn't like:

    • with all the realism oozing out of the novel, some of the major plot twists felt really jarring and out of place, especially
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      Xu Jin's death and Xu Xilin's life threatening accident at the end of the novel.

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      compared to how subdued most of the novel was, those really felt like cliche plot twists from an entirely different story.
    • like with other priest novels I've read, there's a certain emotional distance between the reader and the characters. This seems intentional on her part, and isn't necessarily bad writing (nor does it make her stories/main couple less romantic in my opinion like I've seen other people claim). This is a "what I didn't like" section though, so I have to admit it did affect how emotionally invested I was in the novel and my general opinion of it.
overall this is a really really good novel, and definitely set my expectations for modern danmei novels really high. 8.5/10 from me when it comes to how much I loved it, definitely worth reading!
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2013722 rated it
November 14, 2022
Status: Completed
What killed me was that many times could I deeply understand what they felt, for moments it was soul turning. So many of the specific and unique yet universal feelings are involved, so to experience it all again I have no regrets that I read this (despite feeling as though everything else in the story meant nothing to me).

Characters individually and their relationships with each other were authentic. There were all sorts problems you could easily see others in real life having. It was to an extent you would normally... more>> see in stories and naturally expect. For most. The one that really stood out was, of course, the main characters.

Dou Xun and Xu Xilin are both different, seemingly in all traits. I was really looking forward to how they would come together, and my expectations for that process has been fulfilled. I had a rough idea of how things would play out into trouble, they went as I thought. The specific circumstances I could never guess and I find that Priest explained well with those life situations.

However, I wasn't as sure how Priest would resume afterwards. In the end, there were inexplicit factors that explained more deeply into how things got to be resolved between the two. You could really only understand if you've experienced yourself. But I think to be able to personally relate as a person myself was what made the portrayal and experience especially humane.

It's ironic to call it humane. There's the offensive comment made towards Filipinos. Many are surprised, and I can understand. But the Filipino maids are something common and normalized in China's culture, and Priest seems to have the tendency to think more of a group / universal sort of point of view. Seeing her adapt that prejudiced view that's so common in her own nation isn't surprising. But this isn't defend her. It's that everyone's gonna have their flaws, whether or not you should to continue consuming her work should be totally on what you feel would be best for your own good. But seeing so many people surprised, I encourage you think more about the author when consuming their works <<less
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