InterStellar Dad

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In the interstellar era, with the advent of artificial uteruses, women are liberated from the constraints of childbirth. Jiang Miao works hard, earns money, and pays five years of social security contributions, finally qualifying for “Gene-Optimized Parenting Program.” Surprisingly, in the first round of the lottery, she matches with a suitable parenting partner:

“Congratulations on your successful lottery! We have matched you with the most genetically compatible parenting partner!”

“Congratulations! Your parenting partner has agreed to artificial insemination!”

“Congratulations! Your parenting partner has agreed to carry the fetus and give birth!”

“Congratulations! Your parenting partner has agreed to give the child to you!”

Jiang Miao: Absolutely perfect!

That is until she meets Yan He, who wears a black military uniform and is as cold as an iceberg. Jiang Miao realizes that her plan might have taken a small deviation. Actually, natural conception wouldn’t have been a problem either. The allure of uniforms is hard to resist.

Iceberg Interstellar Colonel vs. Earth-crossing woman

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9 Reviews


starcake
New starcake
May 11, 2024
Status: c60
Can't decide if this is a 4 star or a 1.5 star (leaning toward the latter though) and here's why: Scifi story rich in worldbuilding, unusually detailed foray into Asian-taboo-for-women subjects like menstruation and female sexuality, and a cute, comedic, and so far relatively wholesome romance! But also advocating eugenics, that a person's inherent value is predetermined based on their genetics and other pseudo-science, and that people with autism or mental health disorders like depression are worthless burdens upon society who don't deserve to exist and need to be culled!... more>> (And no, this doesn't seem set up as stuff that the MC initially believes while it seems like she's going to change her mind later. This is all stuff she enthusiastically embraces and the story treats it all as positive and beneficial to society.)

EDIT: When I originally wrote this giant review, the main quote that pissed me off so much ended up way down near the end. I'm leaving the review as-is but I'm copying the quote here too and no, you're not missing context, the context makes it worse and I go into that in the original review. This is the explanation for why test-tube babies aren't a thing and all pregnancies are carried out in the human body despite the super advanced future medical technology:

"The children born from extracorporeal uterine incubation, totaling over a million over several decades, had more than two hundred thousand cases of autism, and about fifty thousand cases of depression, bipolar disorder, and similar conditions. Altogether, the rate exceeded twenty-five percent. This rate was simply unbearable. Especially for autism, with the highest incidence, patients could hardly contribute any value to society and required professional care." (Chapter 49)

Also, up front, the translation is really amazing, so none of this is knocking the translator who did an amazing job. The criticism is solely about the actual story and author. The reason it's so in-depth is because this story does SO MUCH RIGHT, the cute fluff, the comedic aspect, the wholesome romance, great writing and amazing characterization, and initial portrayals of positive femininity and gender-equality and ethnic diversity and a still-problematic but much more diverse future, and then it just slowly sets itself on fire by revealing how all of that is a front for justifying the author's own deeply sexist views, heteronormative ideals, beliefs about inherent human value, and prejudices against mental illness, neurodivergence, the lower classes, and a whole host of other problematic things.

I'm willing to eventually come back to this to see if maybe things change and make this review outdated, as there's obviously a lot of social commentary and critique going on at higher levels than usual for a Chinese novel and the writing is very good, but I'm not hopeful. At best, I think there will be a couple good critiques and messages overwhelmed by prejudices and reinforcement of stereotypes.

Back to the original review:

Let's put it this way. Have you ever eaten a dish that tasted great for the first few bites, and then in the next bite you taste something off—like there's a tiny sliver of raw onion or cilantro (or whatever thing you really hate) in that bite, and even though it's a really tiny piece and the flavor isn't overwhelming per se, you detect the flavor instantly because you hate it?

So you inspect what you're eating and realize oh, you didn't realize it came with cilantro. There doesn't seem to be that much and it's really integrated into the dish so you can't pick it out and you've been enjoying the dish so far, so you think maybe you can just ignore the cilantro or eat around it when you see it.

But as you continue to eat, you're now aware that every bite is potentially compromised, and despite your best efforts to ignore/avoid, little bits of cilantro keep coming at you and tainting your previously enjoyable experience. Some bites are delicious and some are kinda gross. And then you get a bite that has a huge chunk of hidden cilantro in it, pretty much ruining your entire experience.

That's my experience with this story. Let's start with the good-tasting parts first.

The good: This scifi-heavy interstellar story is unusually rich in worldbuilding. "Interstellar" is usually just a vague futuristic setting, but this story actually builds on scifi elements such as the medical aspects of artificial reproduction and genetics (albeit the science is often questionable), shown-as-well-as-told details of how technology is a regular part of everyday life, and the evolution of social and government changes 6000 years in the future. Some of the details are a bit hand-wavy, but in general there is far more thought, complexity, and logic around the scifi and interstellar elements than is typical for the romance genre.

The translation is also excellent, which is very necessary for this level of story, so kudos to the translator.

The budding romance is cute, well-tensioned and comedic between the MC's internal screaming over how hot her reproductive partner is and her determination not to get s**ked into a meaningless fling that is the social norm in the future, lest she fall in love with her babydaddy, which is socially frowned upon. The ML in the meantime is somewhat enigmatic and seductive (but gently and relatively wholesomely, not in a manipulative or dubcon way), even from the chapters that are from his POV, leaving the reader questioning his personal history and motives—but not in a dark or suspicious way, more like questioning if he secretly holds similar social values as the MC and if so, what led to that.

There's also the interesting subversion of the mpreg trope in that, yes, the guy is the one who becomes pregnant thanks to artificial uteruses and an interstellar emphasis on gender equality (supposedly... more on that later), and it's not like he's preggo with zero side effects—the story is all for showing him actually experiencing more realistic pregnancy instead of a time skip to birth.

Furthermore this is the ONLY Asian novel I've ever read that talks in some detail about menstruation (though the guy doesn't get a period, he's just implanted with the already-preggo uterus, but the story goes into future birth control and the MC getting her period) and a few other generally female-taboo-in-Asian-culture subjects, again with the unusual amount of thought and worldbuilding.

Now let's get into the tainted cilantro parts of the story, and YMMV—maybe you don't mind cilantro or can easily ignore it or have a totally different opinion of it.

The bad tainted ugggh parts of the story: The "gene optimization" aspect of it. Most of it consists of threads and themes woven throughout the story (sometimes skillfully, because the writing is good even if the subject matter isn't), so they may not see immediately obvious, but the more you read and put things together, it gets very disturbing.

This story glorifies inherent superiority based on genetics and it's far too similar to glorifying one race, gender, etc as inherently superior to others because of circular reasoning: superior genes make superior people and superior people have superior genes—so all good things are attributable to having genetic superiority and all bad things are because of genetic inferiority, and have nothing to do with how someone is raised, their environment, their relationships, their exposure to the world both physically and metaphorically, etc. It's one thing if it's just a typical throwaway line, but when the story digs deep into details and explanations surrounding it, I start to get... uncomfortable.

"This person is superior to others because their genes are superior, as reflected by their prime physical and mental health, physical attractiveness and physical fitness, high intelligence, conformity to society, ability to retain a prestigious job, and other beneficial attributes, thanks to a government program promoting genetic perfection for eligible elite citizens." Does that not at all sound creepy and brainwashed to you?

Add to it the fact that weird things like "being a soldier" are supposedly pre-determined by genetic analysis—the male lead explicitly tells the heroine this in one of those superficially detailed pseudo-science "factual" moments that abound in this story:

"'Based on my genetic analysis, the most suitable profession for me is a soldier. This child inherits my genes, and although you will be the caregiver, there is a high probability that he or she will lean towards choosing the military as a profession. Some things are engraved in the genes, passed down through generations, and it's challenging to change them through upbringing.'" (Chapter 24)

There's more than a whiff of "whether or not you're a 'good' person and how much 'value' you have as a member of society is pre-determined at birth by genetics" going on in the novel, and given that even the main character fully accepts and endorses this and doesn't seem like her thinking is going to ever be challenged on it, it's hard not to draw the conclusion that the author personally believes in this and is an advocate for it. (Scroll down to the boldprinted segment for a direct quote from chapter 49 for more about inherent genetic value with regards to mental health and autism.)

Going to put some of the rest of this under spoiler tags although they're not plot twists or details, just more world building that's fine at a glance but increasingly gross as the story fleshes it out.

About the portrayal of racial/ethnic diversity in this story, which is somewhat unusual for interstellar novels where the generic interstellar empire is frequently exclusively Chinese, and on the surface it's a remarkable good thing BUT... :

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The main character Jiang Miao has coworkers of various non-Chinese descent, like her work bestie who is of Japanese ancestry, and most of the side/mob characters are actually not Chinese or Asian based on their names and descriptions. The empire is portrayed as being quite diverse in terms of ethnicities. This is unusual for a Chinese interstellar novel and for a Chinese romance novel. However, it seems like it's all on the surface as none of these characters appear to retain or express much heritage or culture based on their ancestry beyond naming conventions, and I can't tell if that's a deliberate move by the author to showcase that the future is such a melting pot that everyone ascribes to one homogenous interstellar culture, or if it's a superficial attempt at token diversity. I guess the fact that I'm questioning if it's one or the other still means that the story in general is deeper than most.

The story goes out of its way to show that Jiang Miao has her choice of superior genetic matchups, which includes men of various ethnicities. On the surface that seems great (even if she of course ultimately chooses the Chinese guy) so you might be tempted to think that the story is showcasing diversity and how the future is racism-free!

But that kind of loses its meaning when the story revolves around being bred by the government to produce genetically superior children (of which the heroine approves and is excited to be a part of!), with pity and stigma attached to being born outside this program. Like, I can't praise a story for racial diversity when it's endorsing the idea that people with health problems, neurodivergence, or mental illness have less or no value because they contribute less or not at all to society, and are a burden because they suck up resources. (I'm not exaggerating. There are several casual references to and implications of this in the story, and then an explicit paragraph about it at one point. Again, scroll down to the boldprinted segment for a direct quote from chapter 49.)

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Details about the state-run genetic optimization program (and boy if that doesn't sound dystopian, although the story doesn't treat it as such) :

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The state-run genetic optimization program is an optional "privilege" afforded to those who fulfill certain requirements like an income threshold and I forget what else, probably education level and how elite your job is (which are of course both tied to income). So, like, you don't have to do it. But if you can, most people do, and those who do are regarded with envy and excitement by those who can't. Reproduction through the program is incentivized with major financial benefits from the government based on the child's ability to score well in school and progress through higher tiers of education—which the story and the MC regard as a good thing, and the story never hints at anything negative about this, and man, I had so many thoughts about how commonly abused this system (and millions of children) must be, but the story never goes there and I'm not getting into it further here. I guess in the future, child abuse and greed and s*upidity are mostly eliminated due to the increasing genetic superiority of humankind, I speculate not at all in the least bit sarcastically.

Since this is a Chinese story and an interstellar one at that, the military is of course glamorized and glorified. And in this particular story, gene-optimized children with at least one military parent are partly owned by the state—pardon me, I mean, they are required by the state to attend special junior high military school rather than normal junior high, and when they complete military training, actually enlisting in the military is technically* optional. Most, of course, choose to enlist in the military, since the military is put on a pedestal and is afforded the highest pay and prestige of all.

* The child is forced to sign a service agreement upon enrollment and if they fail to uphold that agreement upon graduation, they are harshly punished for it: "'If the obligation period is not fulfilled after graduation, there are not only economic penalties, but the citizen rating will also be significantly reduced.'" (Chapter 24)

But a child can choose not to attend military school in the first place! In which case, the child is given a huge fine for not attending, which they are obligated to pay off unless their parent/caregiver chooses to pay it for them. Yes, an underage child will carry the burden of state-enforced economic penalties unless a parent pays it off for them, and given the way parenthood is emotionally and psychologically desensitized, distant, and financially motivated in the future, I'm pretty sure most parents would just let their child be penalized because it's none of their business.

But but but! Fees/fines/economic penalties can be avoided based on the child's "scores" and "physique" at birth and the caregiver's observation during their growth, in which case the caregiver can basically send a petition to the military for an exception for the child to opt out of military school, in which case the fine is smaller... but they're still fined.

The fact that the government shapes (and controls) so much of its population's reproduction and children, and social attitudes toward both as well as the concept of family VS "independence" is a detail that is sort of tangentially brought up a couple of times later in the story and seems like it's building toward something that is both bigger and glaringly obvious. And that sort of veiled semi-criticism and analysis of a fictional government is very rare in Chinese web novels. (I'm thinking perhaps this is a Taiwanese novel OR perhaps it gets away with it because it is more subtle/less overt, and/or the world and government are not as explicitly Chinese-coded and maybe one of the other empires or whatever out there is more explicitly Chinese with traditional Chinese values and will probably be styled as superior... I'm hedging my bets on the latter.)

(I actually have a whole lot to say about the presentation of "filial piety and traditional family relationships VERSUS super 'independence', 'selfishness', and zero filial piety with the complete erasure of family' = a very thinly-veiled criticism of Western society and its negative influence on traditional Chinese values" but this freaking review-turned-critique-essay is long enough just about the eugenics aspect.)

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About the backstory/history leading to gender equality and the dissolution of family units and familial relationships in the future:

Spoiler

There is some gruesomely heavy-handed backstory explaining the advent of artificial uteruses for male pregnancy, and it involves some kind of historical disaster that reduced that human population and/or female population and/or lowered fertility rates, I forget exactly because it was so cliché, but this meant that women became valued commodities ens*aved, r*ped, traded, and fought over, reduced to nothing but childbearing machines. Then there was some kind of revolution and blah blah blah, eventually artificial uteruses were created both out of necessity and as a means of restoring female autonomy and assuring absolute gender equality.

And that's why in the future, there are no more gender norms (supposedly) and tangentially the concept of "family" is a historical footnote that is regarded as an exotic oddity and social taboo, to the point that Jiang Miao works very hard to conceal her mindset and is ashamed/scared when others question her reaching out once a month during college and once or twice after graduating to her biological mother (who by then had pretty much cut off communication except for generic polite replies when the MC reached out), since Jiang Miao's attempting to maintain contact could be interpreted as unhealthy dependence and abnormal fixation upon a parental figure, meaning she is mentally unfit and may no longer be eligible for the gene optimization program or to hold her job.

And while I'd really love for Jiang Miao to realize how messed up that is, she instead reluctantly realizes that social norms and values are different in the future and the future is where she now lives, so her parents were simply friendly caretakers raising an infant into a productive member of society, for which they will receive government benefits based on her performance, and once she was an adult, they need no longer maintain contact as they should all be satisfied: the parents raised a good offspring, and the adult offspring is now fully independent and living their own separate life.

Considering how much of this story is both subtle and complex, the dramatically barbaric and yet still generic history involving the mass ens*avement of women for the sole purposes of reproduction comes across as a clunky, clumsy effort to justify male pregnancy via artificial uteruses. Just like the wholly unnecessary "over 25% of test tube babies were worthless because most of them had autism and the rest had depression or other mental health disorders so that's why reproduction is now solely carried out in the womb of a human, be it natural in female or artificial in male" (once again, scroll down to the boldprint for the exact quote I keep referencing), it is completely unnecessary to have this s*upid period of history as the reason for current gender equality and male pregnancy. It could have just as reasonably and easily been "there was a still-generic disaster that decimated the human population and/or fertility and so medical technology focused on means to deal with that, leading to the development of artificial uteruses and male pregnancy, and incidentally when men experienced what it's like to be pregnant, great strides were made in gender equality, leading to our modern utopian society."

I hate it when stories go for dramatic shock value to "justify" a development that didn't have to be dramatic or shocking. It comes across as cheapening actual violence against women by inventing a supposedly utopian future where women are "free" from being "forced" to have children while men now have the option to become pregnant, but it came at the cost of that grossly extreme yet glossed-over violence and justifying the culling of anyone with depression or other mental illness or neurodivergence. Okay, enough soapboxing about that, back to soapboxing about eugenics.

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About the heavily-emphasized supposed "gender equality" of the future and how "gender norms" are supposedly no longer a thing and how much of a superfail implosion that becomes later on, after the ML gives birth:

Spoiler

Despite the CP happily agreeing to remain ignorant about the baby's gender so they can be surprised at birth and Jiang Miao supposedly being fine with either gender, she is openly disappointed when Yan He gives birth to a boy. Yan He is upset by this and questions her about it, and she says: "'I just actually kind of wanted a daughter, to buy her little dresses, dress her up every day. Sigh, this lifestyle is gone now.'" (Chapter 59)

"Although gender equality had been achieved, and genetic optimization was reducing the differences between boys and girls, some things were inherent.

For example, most girls naturally liked dressing up and shopping, while most boys were quite impatient with that." (Chapter 59)

... look, I was trying hard to give her the benefit of the doubt that her 21st century prejudices were showing, but no, instead the author and story itself have to emphasize that stereotypical binary gender norms are genetically inherent. Wow. The story just undid 59 chapters' worth of its own progressive work in 2 sentences.

Then it goes on to not just shoot itself in the foot again but blow both legs off immediately in the next chapter, after Yan He accuses Jiang Miao of gender-based favoritism and says he ain't allowin' any of that with their child, and the story goes on to again emphasize strict gender stereotypes as genetic.

"Indeed, there was a trend of favoring girls over boys in the Gita Republic. This was mainly because caregivers found raising boys too exhausting!

Despite achieving equality and genetic enhancement, there were almost no differences between adult men and women except for a slight difference in physical strength. But when they were still children, the difference was still significant!

Most girls could really be quiet and well-behaved, while boys always caused chaos. By the time they reached seven or eight years old, it was simply a disaster." (Chapter 60)

The story goes on to say that the abandonment rate for boys is very high and many parents would just give up and dump custody on the government, forsaking those tempting financial benefits because they're fed up caring for too-energetic troublesome boys by the age of 7 or 8, and then abandonment rates spike again when the boys hit puberty.

"... [Jiang Miao] had reflected on this phenomenon of abandoning boys, which was completely opposite to her motherland in ancient Earth times.

After achieving equality, surname rights were no longer exclusively for males. Therefore, regardless of whether they were boys or girls, they could both fulfill the purpose of reproduction and continuation.

After men lost the exclusive right to surnames, when everyone was treated as independent individuals, the advantages such as delicacy, patience, gentleness, and early maturity that women possessed from childhood became more prominent, making them the preferred gender for caregivers." (Chapter 60)

Yep, you read that right. Those with two X chromosomes are from childhood naturally more delicate, patient, and gentle, with early maturity, compared to the crazy nasty exuberance and juvenile troublemaking that a Y chromosome presents.

But let me reassure you that gender equality and gender stereotypes are largely gone in the future! It's just that girls are naturally quieter, daintier, gentler, and easier to raise than boys, and so boys are frequently abandoned by their caregivers and the entire population has a preference for raising girls instead of boys. Somehow all this boy-abandonment stuff doesn't at all affect society or attitudes toward men and boys, or the men and boys themselves. But gender equality!!!!

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That is one of the major weaknesses of this novel: good ideas and the interesting subversion of tropes, but ultimately stepping backwards and undercutting its own messages by adding unnecessarily dramatic backstories and extremely off-putting details to try to justify/explain the way this particular future society came about. And claiming advancements in social awareness and gender equality only to turn right around and reinforce the very same stereotypes it's claiming to be subverting.

I went into this story breezily, expecting it to be a typical interstellar romance consisting of largely insubstantial fluff, so I didn't think twice about the gene stuff mentioned in the summary or the initial run of chapters where it talks about an optional program to match partners based on genetic compatibility. That's a typical interstellar trope after all and when it's treated as a casual detail without any further explanation, my brain can remain blissfully shut off.

But when the story continues to bring it up, emphasize it, and go into considerable detail building upon it, my brain reactivates and starts to devote more thought and analysis to it and the tone of its presentation, and you end up with this giant critique.

There's an attitude of eugenics, inherent inferiority VS superiority being determined from birth based on genetics, and that sadly too-common-in-Chinese-novels casual prejudice, demonizing, and misunderstanding of autism and mental health. Basically, if you're born without gene optimization and so are "naturally" born of two "random" people, you're not exactly a second-class citizen, but it's far more "likely" you'll have physical and mental health problems and have a shorter lifespan and be less intelligent and psychologically stable and also ugly I mean not as attractive—which incidentally also means you're probably not going to advance as far or do as well in the compulsory education system which is the foundation of society, and of course you won't get as good a job or be as wealthy, so your standard of living will be much lower. And, incidentally, because you don't meet the elite requirements, you will not be able to participate in the gene optimization program.

Most of this information is stated in a couple of paragraphs early on, and the rest of it is heavily implied by reference. After all, if the story says that our MC Jiang Miao is blessed with good looks, perfect health, high intelligence, and did extremely well in school and landed an excellent job due to the perfect gene compatibility of her parents, and previously the story spoke pityingly about "natural-born" people being inferior and kind of poor and not up to standard, it's not hard to draw conclusions by comparison.

I will note that the story doesn't actually frequently compare natural vs genetically optimized citizens—as I recall, up to chapter 49, it's mentioned once or twice in the very early chapters and then not specifically brought up again. But the fact that the story brought it up at all, and so unfavorably, makes it hard to forget.

And here's the thing: If that were only the common social attitude of the interstellar future in general, I could maybe get past it as long as Jiang Miao had private reservations about it, because obviously she disagrees with many of the social attitudes of the future since she's a reincarnator from our era. BUT unfortunately, despite Jiang Miao longing for family relationships and closeness like in our time, she's totally 100% on board with genetic culling, I mean, not that the story calls it that buuuuut, ahem. Which is to say she not only endorses and supports genetic superiority, she's an enthusiast about it based on her own personal experience of being the product of it.

I really kind of lost it in chapter 49, where the story finally goes into detail about why humans still have to carry children to term in their bodies despite technology and medical science being advanced enough to do IVF in an artificial uterus implanted into an adult man, who is then able with monitoring, hormone injections, and supplements to carry a child to term just like a female. Until then I had been questioning why test tube babies weren't a thing.

"The children born from extracorporeal uterine incubation, totaling over a million over several decades, had more than two hundred thousand cases of autism, and about fifty thousand cases of depression, bipolar disorder, and similar conditions. Altogether, the rate exceeded twenty-five percent. This rate was simply unbearable. Especially for autism, with the highest incidence, patients could hardly contribute any value to society and required professional care." (Chapter 49)

What the cinnamon toast f*ck is this sh*t. Look, I'm already bothered every time transmigration stories use the trope that "the original body had autism and was essentially an empty shell and not a 'real' person until the transmigrating soul took over", and I hate that the depictions of neurodivergence and mental illness (two different things) are treated as the same thing and treated as making someone inferior or less than human. Generally speaking, Asian attitudes and prejudices toward these things are not very understanding or positive, which is why depictions of such in Asian literature and media tend to be negative (when depicted at all) and frequently used as convenient plot devices.

The thing is, because it's usually a throwaway line or two in those novels at the very beginning, I can usually be disgusted and off-put and then ignore it since it's never brought up again in the story and the rest of the story is fine.

In a story like this where it's heavily detailed and an inherent part of the story and styling itself as based on "science" and "facts", I just can't overlook it or turn my brain off. Yes, there are studies about genetic components and therefore inheritance regarding autism and mental illness (which again are two different things), with often very different and very controversial conclusions as well as conclusions that are basically inconclusive, but this story is... man, I can't even get into how messed up that quoted paragraph is, in so many ways.

Like, the fact that the author even went there says something. Why couldn't the story have just been that "extracorporeal uterine incubation had a miscarriage rate of over 25% in the second trimester" or something like that. After all, the story doesn't say why that 25%+ rate was a thing, it just says it was and so they stopped doing it. But no, instead the story has to insist that autism and mental illness are a burden upon society, especially those with autism, who have zero value since they can't contribute to society and also require "professional care". Never mind that autism is a spectrum and... Man, I don't even think I'm a SJW or particularly knowledgeable about autism and this story just... wow.

Then you tie this info back with the emphasis, praise, positivity, and pursuit of genetic optimization and...

Then you tie this to the fact that our heroine Jiang Miao enthusiastically endorses all this and...

... yeah.

I do not have the feeling that this story is going to do a complete 180 as if this were a western novel, wherein Jiang Miao would gradually begin to realize with growing horror how the supposed utopia she lives in is actually a twisted dystopia, her beliefs and world "facts" have been manipulated by the government, and that her privileged life has been built upon the trampled lives of the less genetically optimized whom she used to pity for being less fortunate without truly understanding how she (and everyone else) was treating them.

Instead, I think Jiang Miao is going to leave the empire for a different empire (at best, fleeing pursuit in some scifi adventure way, or perhaps a more low key having to circumscribe a lot of red tape and secure secret passage to smuggle herself out, or maybe just literally booking a one-way ticket) where the concept of family relationships and filial piety is still a thing, and live there happily as a family unit with her hot possibly ex-general and certainly new husband and their beautifully genetically optimized child.

However, I don't know if I can stomach reading much further. I really do hate cilantro, you know? <<less
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Pretty_Ivy
New Pretty_Ivy
May 06, 2024
Status: c72
I absolutely love this story. I've never felt the need to review on NU before but I couldn't leave this book without reviewing.

The author really wrote this book well addressing issues that we take for granted like familial attachment, emotional trauma and societal norms and how they affect our views on things.

Although the book is set to the Interstellar Era, it shows an extreme form of our current society which makes it relatable.

... more>> Also, of course, there is fluff, which makes me go 'Awwn' and 'Ah Ah Ah' throughout the book.

It's a very good read. I totally recommend. <<less
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Gumamela
Gumamela
Dec 02, 2023
Status: Completed
It's an mpreg story but not ABO. The man got pregnant due to advancement of technology as shared in the book.

It's a good read. The most important is that I didn't get bored reading it. 😅 I understand that there are some areas that are similar to the other novels I read, but I don’t mind. As long as the overall storytelling is fine, I am willing to read it.

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It's not a reverse harem. But the MC definitely had some pursuers. Before the ending, I thought she would accept the original Yan He but she still chose the ML. This is 1vs1.

Even if it's like that, she did allow to get her egg fertilized with Yan He's sperm. Very confusing so better read. In summary, by the end of the novel, the ML and orig Yan He became close in the war that the ML suggested to the MC to let his sperm fertilize her egg because they thought he died in the war. The ML will be the one who will get pregnant (it's like the ML became the surrogate) It was funny because when the ML was pregnant, Yan He came back. He was so happy to know he has a baby with the MC while the ML is miserable because of his mood swings and nausea and vomiting due to pregnancy. 😅

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Overall, I like this story. 😆 <<less
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sansukini0923
sansukini092
Dec 07, 2023
Status: c1
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First off, I really like this author because she does have the ability to shake my emotions with her writing. This novel is not very emotional at all compared to "After Rebirth, I was Entangled by a Second Generation Rich Guy Again", but the story gives a perspective of what the future could potentially be in terms of human connections. It's already happening now, like the internet is brainwashing women that you don't need a man and children.

The FL, Jiang Miao transmigrated to the Interstellar Era from the Modern... more>> Era. The plot is dated because in the modern era, she was against marriage and children, but after travelling to the Interstellar, she realized how the values of the Interstellar people are similar with her values in the modern era, but instead of rejoicing in it, she missed the emotional connections, thus prompting her to apply for the genetic parenting program to build her own family, and this sets off the story.

I'm not really good with words without spoiling the whole plot, but the story is filled with romance, mystery, espionage and some domestic doting, like the ML is the wifey. I hope you guys enjoy it like I did. <<less
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miomiao
miomiao
Nov 30, 2023
Status: Completed
For me this story is very unique, it is said to be a harem but it is not harem, because of the setting of the story that makes sense. A story that shows the side of marriage and family in today's era. This story presents some of the views of a woman today.
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theshanebright
theshanebrig
May 06, 2024
Status: Completed
Haven't finished yet but the worldbuilding is spectacular. People think feminism and capitalism/socialism are complex topics ultimately dismissed to personal preference and understanding. While in truth, its always been about power and class interest. I was worried before when I read some reviews and some just picked on and praised criticisms the novel's (seemingly) on feminism and family life when it actually is a commentary on ignorance and historical revisions and censorships and its resulting to people being blindly socially engineered and subjected to working for, as what Ye Han... more>> said, the benefit of the upper echlons. This character of the male lead and his views are already telling, and might I say, very bold in a chinese webnovel where sometimes, patriotism is a sticker badge pasted on the book cover designed to entice.

Still have to see if the true audacity and courage would lead to an interesting ending. So far, dare to imagine, and did so carefully. 4.75 so far. (C.50)

Edit: (c.101)

only click spoiler if uve read until this chapter, or ull get upset both if you enjoyed it or not
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Unlike their previous relationship development based on mutual will, this progression where you manipulated a person, put them in a situation where they lost all their assets and power, and "compensate", I'm raging so hard I wish this wasn't a HEA lololol. I only feel pity for Jiang Miao and Jiang Rui. At the end, they made the ML OP where the protag couldn't ever see a genuine standing on equal grounds despite the better political background of the "new world". If Jiang Miao was truly rational and pursued material and social class, I could accept it. But from beginning to end, she only did her best to be able to accept new life from her timetraveling with positivity and sincerity. Now, all she was is pulled into a new worldview by the (more morally upright but still) manipulative upper classes lololol. I feel so betrayed. I hope she never get with him, but that won't happen. 2 stars, for the invested feelings.

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They fixed it lololol. I completed the story but didn't read the side stories. 3.8stars. Because adult angst. It's not as happy as they were in the beginning. <<less
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Pristine Xia
Pristine Xia
Feb 26, 2024
Status: Completed
For me, this novel is such a gem.
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It was quite a thrilling emotional ride, especially when starting the searching-for-the-baby arc because Jiang Miao is such a badass. She makes full use of her intelligence and acting so decisive through her predicament. I admire how she can still be so rational despite her vulnerable situation when entering foreign place. Overall, all the way she fought to get her citizenship back is just so *chef's kiss*

I appreciate the male lead more after he experienced something similar to what Jiang Miao went through and came to understand her better.

Although I put spoiler tag in this review, I try to not put much details so future readers might have general idea of the plot with some sense of anticipation.

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Overall, I fell in love with how the author wrote the leads in the story.

Thank you translator team for bringing this novel to light :)
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MeimeiXgreetsXNiangniang
MeimeiXgreet
Dec 13, 2023
Status: Completed
Because of the different societal values and beliefs, the family dynamic of the MC can be confusing but like what the previous reviewer said it makes sense. I actually kinda like their society's set up. The novel world the author set up is close to what I want irl.
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Pochoclo
Pochoclo
Mar 29, 2024
Status: Completed
Loved it. Loved the twist and turnos. ML, MC, 2nd ML all of them, superb.

I cried a lot, was mad at some time un the middle but took my time, and when calmed down continued reading.

You have to read it until the end! You will not regret it.
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