Loving You Is Too Difficult


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An arrogant personality with no brains whatsoever, she was the typical spolit, rich child. He was the only one who could handle being her bodyguard. But how did this man manage her ? Did he use extreme and effective tyranny to counter her temper tantrums? He was so cold that even a polar bear would tremble. She didn’t have the courage to go against him. But this delicate lady stuck to him like super glue! Like a stalker, she followed him everywhere. This led to gossips flying everywhere. The most outrageous one was that he had abandoned his girlfriend to embark on a relationship with this rich girl!

But he didnt care what people thought about him. He didnt care if they criticised or made fun of him. Even if he was being ridiculed as a dedicated watchdog, it didn’t matter to him. He had no qualms being in the same room with this spoilt child. But sometimes it only took a spark to light a gigantic inferno….

This is a short story about a rich spoilt girl, Song Yu Shang and bodyguard Xiang Yu. The story starts when Xiang Yu is assigned to guard a 17 year old Song Yu Shan, a girl he detests as being a brainless bimbo only interested in the latest bags and fashion articles. So when Song Yu Shan shows an interest in him, she is ruthlessly and immediately rejected. Xiang Yu moves on .. but a few years later he is drawn back to Taiwan. But the Song Yu Shan he meets is not the same girl he knew

This is a novel about second chances, about fated love and about reinstating a girl’s belief in love once again.

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New Ainslee rated it
June 30, 2019
Status: --
This story... is so simple that's why it's rather hard to rate.

It's quite good but I think it could be better. Which is why I gave it 4 star.
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New Sheng Ling rated it
June 29, 2019
Status: Completed
If you're not picky and want to pass some time, this would be a nice read.

This a worth the read but the focus and perspective felt like it shone on the ML and FL way too much that we didn't really get any views from the other characters. Like what exactly happened to FL's family and so forth. It's alright though just don't expect too much from this novel- it's just a simple read.
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Haruna89 rated it
January 29, 2019
Status: Completed
This type of story is totally my type! Thumbs up to the translator for picking this novel up and good job for the translation.

I really like that the novel only have few chapters as it is easy to read but with a good plot. I love how the ML later on realise his feeling towards FL. Just can't get enough with the spicy romance between them.

Hope I can read more novel like this in the future.
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ElianaDiana rated it
January 18, 2019
Status: c8
As expected of author Sugar, this novel just tugs you at heartstrings! 😭😭😭 Just enough for a heartache, a lil bit for a spicy romance, and the drama inserted would make me waiting each day for translator-sama to upload the rest of the chapters.

Owh how I wish there were a mini real life sketch/movie for this novel! 😖😖😖
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KichiX rated it
May 6, 2019
Status: epilogue
Cute and everything but the characters weren't managed with subtlety but with a sledge hammer. Character arcs weren't completed satisfactorily and the ending felt like the author was saying "that's all folks, and they lived happily ever after."

The female lead suffered first from abandonment/loneliness issues - her parents never cared about her, her tantrums were to attract attention and love - and then

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when her parents truly did abandon her at the same time as her first love, a.k.a our bodyguard, broke her heart, all of these issues were amplified. She responds by creating a shell and not caring.


And then along comes our ML again and he's despondent to see she's not the same girl he left behind all those years ago. Big surprise. He tries half-heartedly to get her back, gives up, accepts her cold and detached self, loves her and then promises never to leave her again. We never get to see the FL heal. She accepts the ML in the end and we're supposed to believe that voila she is "fixed".

I recommend Same Place Not Same Bed for a story of healing through love. The characters face the same issues of fear of abandonment and self-confidence but the subtlety is much greater than this story.

Honestly, the happy ending in this one felt completely empty. <<less
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SnowdropLily rated it
March 29, 2019
Status: epilogue
This story is so my type. I just wished that the female lead could have made it harder for the male lead. Plus, the male lead hasn't really told the FL that he loves/likes her. It's like, he's obsessed with her but only for her body. Yes, the story included how the ML felt when the FL was with Mr. Jiang but ML didn't know that, that feeling was jealousy. So, I felt like it didn't really count. Was he really jealous out of love? Or only out of... more>> lust? <<less
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March 12, 2019
Status: c7
This story is quite simple, though not my cup of tea. Maybe it's because I've read a lot of other CN poking holes into white lotus characters, but the MC's actions didn't struck me as pitiable so much as manipulative.

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Maybe it's because the author frequently describes how pitiful yet ultra-attractive she looked to the ML, from her eyes/her exposed body/her skin/etc., but it really struck as more "pretending in order to win pity" than something genuine from her upbringing.

Also the MC is a legal adult (18), yet acts like an 8 year old. I could understand her desperation/loneliness and ultra spoiled naivete up to the point when she touched the ML when he was sleeping and tried to keep him with her after confessing to him--when she knew that he had a girlfriend already. That was a turning point for when she went from pitiable to manipulative.

Of course stuff like this can happen in real life. I'm not blaming the MC for trying it because she was desperate, and I'm not blaming the ML for falling for it and remembering it (since he fell for it, he definitely felt something for her and feelings can't be forced). But like I said, that's why this story is not my cup of tea and why I don't feel much pity for the MC.


In the end, this is a story about two people who I don't care much about, who will inevitably get together. So DNR at 70%. However, I do have to give the author kudos for telling a pretty realistic story with realistic outcomes for exes. Great translation! <<less
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apple227 rated it
January 31, 2019
Status: Completed
Thanks to the translator for picking up this short novel! Just finished reading it and I was touched at how the ML showed his love and dedication to the FL, especially towards the end. I also like the insight that the translator gave every few chapters, it really helped me better understand the actions of the characters.
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Ren1511 rated it
January 31, 2019
Status: Completed
This is one of the best romance novel that I ever read...

Seriously, although the story is kinda short, it still managed to deliver its plot...

There are still some unsatisfied part for example, about Song Yu Shan's family... It makes me frustrated and angry when reading that part and there is no back story about them... Well, it is understandable as this is just short story...

Anyway, both MC and ML are likeable. The story actually just narrated about their love story...

Just wish there is more~~~
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Mynbns rated it
June 27, 2019
Status: --
A good story. A happy ending.

But author-sama didnt give a "closure" about her parents and grandpa!! Atleast curse them, be bankrupt or an accident should happen to those heartless people.

And ML didnt even confess his feelings!! No I like you or I love you. Just straight to bed and be a "watchdog".

Unsatisfatory ending.
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she christine rated it
April 8, 2019
Status: Completed
very sweet short story, worth to read

It really have a good plot, so happy when everything turn back on her despite all her traumatic experience. I love how ML return all the love she gave him in the same fashion as she did before. I really wish it end when they got married and have a child. Xiang Yu would definitely spoiled the child.
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March 5, 2019
Status: epilogue
Super cute with minimal angst, perfecf when you just want a nice and uncomplicated romance story. It wasn't perfect but rating 5 stars for enjoyment ^^
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crprlnm rated it
February 25, 2019
Status: Completed
The best thing about this novel is that I completely understand Song Yu Shan, the female lead's struggle. ... more>>

Though I was not born in a rich family like her, I understand the struggle of growing up alone.

Growing up independently has it's own perks, like Song Yu Shan, you get to do anything you want and buy anything you want. But all materialistic things will lose it's value once you realize it's not you really want.


What she wanted is secure place where she belongs and give her a little bit of attention and affection and that's why she was so drawn to Xiang Yu, the male lead.


The feeling of being safe is like a paradise for someone who haven't felt that for a long time. But she knows that what they have is purely work and it's only limited.
Although Xiang Yu's rejection does not mean he doesn't love her, what I thought is that it's because Song Yu Shan is still young and thought she would forget him sooner and later—but oh how wrong he is. Not only she didn't forget, he also did not forget her for eight years. WHOLE EIGHT YEARS. If that isn't love, I don't know what it is.


I just find it so sweet when Xiang Yu realize the cause Song Yu Shan's change and asked her for a chance to prove that he will finally stay by her side and willingly devote everything to her. Kudos to the translator for giving hints on the story and their relationship ♡ <<less
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joellyanne rated it
January 31, 2019
Status: Completed
The story for me is rather too simple and boring. It is just between a bodyguard/CEO with his former charged then his lover. Nothing complex and very very predictable. Not too bad, but not that entertaining either.
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June 4, 2019
Status: --
I love a second chance story with HE but this story, not really. It was bearable, but I couldn't like the characters and the progression of the story.
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