the only thing that I didn't like is the fact that the first son has a split personality which doesn't get cured until almost at the end of the novel. The split personality side, was a pain in the ass and an as*hole who kept hurting his siblings. I feel like about 1/3 of the novel was about MC trying to cure the son from this condition, so the novel was a bit of a drag.

The second son is a brat in the beginning and has a somewhat low IQ. You'll grow to like him later in the novel tho.
The daughter is very cute! I think that out of all the kids she is the most least troublesome one. The daughter is always watching TV dramas and this become a comedy relief in the novel as she's a 3 year old applying what she sees on TV to real life.
The novel keeps saying that the ML is cold blah blah but he is actually pretty childish to me. The MC is quick to find out that even tho he is supposed to be the big villain he is a great dad to his kids and love them.
There are a lot of parts in the novel that I like and thought that were funny but I'm getting bored so I'm stopping here.

"Jiang Tang in the past would not talk a lot like this, and wished to avoid him 24 hours a day. Even in bed, she acted like she was being r*ped, not willing, a face full of humiliation" this is from the MLS pov. Lmao he thinks she just acted like she was being r*ped. Ok then how do we know it was or wasn't consensual. Obviously how do we accept his perspective that he thinks she's just "acting". Also it's possible it wasn't consensual bc the original character was weak and didn't speak out no probably. But then again she abused her child mentally. BUT THEN, the ML kept her trapped in this marriage and possibly continued to r*pe her possibly so honestly this sh*t is really kinda dark. Especially bc you also realize why the ML is so low-key dark if the r*pe is true is bc he always had the trauma of being tortured as a child. Oh yea he also didnt care that the children abuse her until our MC came and bc PLOT lmao he changed

ok so the system exists to create a tv show people can watch to enjoy so it makes these ridiculous tasks that MC has to do to live. What if it's metaphor for us. I mean the system is obviously a plot device that forces us to see the ML to change bc anyone else would logically divorce and live happily without having to be r*ped maybe without a cond*m and have 3 children. Idk the original character was kinda weak anyway but I understand her situation. Anyways it's basically we are the reason these characters are having to even suffer each other in this marriage until they change or else there won't be an interesting tvshow/novel for the audience/readers to enjoy.

"Alright, I was talking nonsense. In fact, your life was originally bound to the big villain, Lin Suizhou, so that you can become a good wife and loving mother, but who the hell knows my assistant messed up and made a Xia Huairun. Otherwise, do you think his name is so casual because he came from blindly pregnant. When I woke up, it was already too late, my assistant had already binded both of you together. I am also very desperate, but nothing I can do, and can only bite the bullet. If you don't save him, you will really die! Papa!"

Jiang Tang: "..........""

I don't know about you but most of the the children I've encountered with this type of plot were insecure but sensible but realistically, we all know that children are clear between who's good and bad to them and they won't want anyone who's bad to them. So although I almost drop the story because I was pissed off at the beginning by the FL's children, I admit that it's more realistic.

Second, the system is not actually a golden finger which we expect from a reborn with system troupe. The system is just a system. It'll give tasks and give you rewards or punishment but there's no suddenly becoming a genius or something. Rather than the system, the so-called cheats were given by the FL's fellow transmigrators (and those cheats are more or less like a scam lol).

Third, just like what I mentioned above, there's the presence of other transmigrators with different world backgrounds and plots. This is the first time I encountered such plot and I am entertained by the members of that gc lol. Also, due to their explanations, I can imagine the world design of the story which is wider than I thought.

And lastly, let me emphasize this one, THERE'S NO WHITE LOTUS SISTER IN THIS STORY. Admit it, everyone. If you're familiar with C-Novels, there's no way you've never encountered a white lotus sister/cousin at least 5 times. I'm so done with them but what can I do? They're more popular than the presence of the scumbag fianc

nowadays sigh.

I am familiar, but not overly nor professionally familiar with DID. But at least, how the story portrayed the Chu Yi's DID is still acceptable. There's a "spiritual world" or alter world mentioned. And I am satisfied when Chu Yi only found out about his mother's abuse when he merged with Ah Wu. It's because as trauma holder and a protective alter, Ah Wu's duty is to make sure that Chu Yi will not be provoked by those traumas. Although it's indeed saddening to see Ah Wu disappeared but rather than disappearing, it's appropriate to say that he merged with the main personality which is Chu Yi. Anyway, again, I'm not professionally familiar with DID so if I make a mistake, forgive me.

I also don't like that banquet scene where he inflicted fear on the FL by dragging her and blindfolding her while assaulting her due to his jealousy

his interest with the FL disappeared after that fire incident and he just decided to be a friend (but it's not in a tragic, and unrequited way, alright?) Because he's the buddy (and mistress lol) of the ML. The two of them are hilarious together.