oh (@_@) this is actually my first bis*xual novel with the actual "wife" as one of the main party. Lol Honestly, the way they did it is really not my cup of tea. It's all my own preference, but I really dislike it when they are power playing while saying depreciative words. I can't help but feel bad and uncomfortable. Even though the husband seems to like this kind of play and enjoys it a lot, it's still very uncomfortable for me.