Why Are You So Obsessed With Rejecting Affection?


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An extra sacrificed for the main character. That is Shuelina, the princess who was abandoned by her biological father and older brother.

……And now, I will become the main character of this story.

It was fortunate that I was left in the orphanage, because once the imperial family finds me, I’m doomed.

“Have you heard? The Grand Ducal Family of Vailot came to sponsor an orphan.”

To find a way to live, I put my heart and soul into getting into the grand duke’s villain family, but–

“You are free to do whatever you want. I, the grand duke, will protect you.”

“You’re not an orphan. You’re my little sister.”

Why do they like me so much?

I decided to live well as a lady of the Grand Ducal Family of Vailot, however…

“I’ve been looking for you for a long time, my child!”

This time, my biological father, the emperor, cares for me.

What’s wrong with him? I don’t need those who didn’t listen to Shuelina.

I refuse to accept your affection!

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Why Are You Obsessed With Me Even Though I Reject Your Affection?
Why Do You Love Me When I Refuse Your Request?​
총애를 거절하는데 왜 집착하나요
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April 28, 2021
Status: --
Im gonna drop this. Mainly because first I dont like the way the dialogue works here. Mc's is also a grown up in a child's body and has no problem allowing children to be beaten. I dont like this.

I don't like it because yeah physically she's a child. But mentally she's already developed and has a mature view of her surrounding. Still she just plainly views everyone as her enemy.

Just ugh not my kind.

I don't like the story where the female protagonist always has to fight against other women. Like... more>> cant I just have a story about her bonding together to f*cking tear down the patriarchy?? <<less
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Arrange rated it
November 11, 2020
Status: c2
Wohoo~ New series!!! Thank you so much!!~

The plot sounds so interesting! I have a knack for stubborn MC that doesn't let others inside her heart easily.

And now you're telling me that she not only got one loving family but has a 2 for 1 offer?! Heck yeah! Let's go! Give me the fluff!

Our MC is a future tyrant! But she's a cute little tyrant! Cuteness is justice so it's OK! Let them repent for their past life misdeeds. Instead of a dark dark world, now they must do their best... more>> to create a fluffy pink world for our little tyrant~

How I wish I could MTL this novel.... ㅠㅠ <<less
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Rena Rain rated it
December 7, 2020
Status: c27
Well, there's something I wanna say, I LOVE THIS!!!! Thank you to the translators!! Much appreciated 💕

Review when it was chapter 9:

I gotta say, Shuelina's original family is quite s*upid! They're irresponsible, blind fools! But well, that's just how I perceive them currently. Perhaps they get redeemed later on?

The thing that got me hooked was the description that I read. This is like the third that I've read of which the theme of the story is similar like "reincarnated/transmigrated into a baby and get adopted by villains." But this has... more>> its on certain flair to it.

This has enough fluff for me!!! The MC is trying her best alright for Shuelina. I also feel bad for her.


She's stuck on the other side from what I've read in the latest chapter (the spirit realm, that's what I mean). This is getting more interesting.


Chapter 27 Review:

Alrighty, soooo, YAAAAAY!! The big moment has already arrived!!! Yush, yush, yush, I'm so happy for our dear Shushu.


She's finally adopted and we're finally going to see that scene in the promotional manhwa where there was a confrontation between the two families.


And with that happy note out of the way, time to discuss our dear Shushu's feelings.


It's sad that she still has some wounds on her heart (I don't know whether it's the OG Shuelina's feelings or hers or maybe both). That part in chapter 25 or 26, where the grand Duke was talking about adoption and she eventually accepted it after contemplating whether to trust them and make them go through possible hardships because of her, it made my chest hurt. She felt so much pain. Physically and emotionally. Getting your spirit power out of you, feels terrible according to her. It's something like a life's essence. And then the emotional wound, she lived in an orphanage where the director is such an arse, where a kid is more than just a meanie, and lived a life with no protection or love from family. (I'm talking to you, Your Royal Majesty and Highness!) I pray that she'll stay safe and loved in this new timeline.


And that's the end of this review. Highly recommended! <<less
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Rea_Lovey rated it
March 23, 2022
Status: --
My thoughts while reading the fight between the two family:

Why won't the two Fathers just f*ck and marries??? Y'all dont need to fight ヽ (`д´;) /

The Empress is tr*sh anyway, give the MC a well deserved ONE big family 😤😤
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Banyubiru rated it
May 9, 2021
Status: --
This is one of a good story and a pretty realistic one I suppose, while the other transmigration/reincarnation story focussing more on revenge/reverse harem/affection, etc.

This story show how even an adult can be affected with an abuse and becoming more like a child (like how her body is that of a child at the time),

For those that saying she is an adult and doing nothing about child abuse around her (or just herself), just remember that she is the one that receive the worst end (not because she know... more>> about the future but because she is a normal girl).

She is not a freaking op characters that could just overthrow everything. The body she is in remember all of the abuse she's been received.

If you're searching for an avengers story, then it's better that you didn't read this story. <<less
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January 1, 2021
Status: c14
So far im heavily hooked. Cant wait to see some daddy doting and a bit of last life karma. Bad bio-dad king VS good adopted dad villian duke FIGHT

my opinion on events up to c14:

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I think, as far as her bio-family goes (they are very sympathetic but), it does not matter if they love her (harsh but true). Its sad, but theres some dark magic & conspiracies going on in the royal family. As long as the Empress is there, there is no telling when events will turn out like her first life. She has a much better chance growing to adulthood safely if she stays with the duke (where the Empress' people cant reach). She will also be safer with the duke if at some point (like her first life) people decide she is a "fake" princess, and the imposter from her first life is "real" (bc it doesnt matter to the duke if shes a royal, hes gonna protect her anyway

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shugu8rena rated it
May 6, 2022
Status: c73
I'm starting to really dislike the MC after meeting her biological family. She's weak mentally and emotionally imo. Very indecisive wether she should hate or like her biological family. She's not even the real shuelina who experienced the abuse but she acts too much of a victim.

She should use the knowledge of the original to help her and her new family to prepare for bad things instead of being wishy-washy. She's not even a real kid. I find her useless and a burden really in the last few chapters.
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June 22, 2021
Status: --
Borderline unbearable for more than 20 chapters, the baby talk of a 6 year old thankfully disappeared afterwards (even with it being translated it was really painful)

the translation might be a bit hard to follow in some places, but I got most of it - so what makes me hesitant to rate is more thee very slow pace -: there’s obviously a plot, but it’s burried under a mix of cute and pitiful things about the MC, the mox of child cruelty and fluff is hard to bear

and... more>> that’s the last awkward thing, the story is told by the MC who is both a baby (heart broken little girl) and a grown up (manipulative attempt (lying, playing cute or pitiful to be love) , conjecture about others intentions, etc) and that’s a strange bundle too

so it’s cute, potentially interesting, but slow and a bit painful to read? <<less
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krazy-fl rated it
April 18, 2022
Status: c48
I'm at chapter 48 and I am starting to dislike the MC.

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She always emphasized that some people in the mansion was jealous of her and it came to the point where those people have to be listed and get kicked out just for hating her. Let them work for their living! The heckerony! I'm fuming mad. She's not that smart since she didn't even try to understand those people's feelings, just because they hated her doesn't mean they have an ill will against her. Who dares? She's the fcking Grand Duchy's princess. There heads be flying if they dare! MCs shouldn't care about mere things like this, they're supposed to be strong and unshakable. For example the case with Franc the maid. The MC always go saying that 'You hated me, you're jealous of me.' I don't even see where were those parts that she was jealous of MC. She was just upset because she ACCIDENTALLY burned the ribbon on her pj's and got scolded and go ranting with the teacher, maybe Franc got caught up in the heat, she cursed the MC. I understand that MC can go crazy and s*upid and make a fuss because it was her very first gift from the Grand Duke. However, it was an accident ladies and gentlemen, Franc didn't mean to do it. Also, her internal age shouldn't go care about those crap. There may still be lingering attachments from the OG Shushu but completely ignoring your original self was bad.... bad writing it is. Plot holes!

Like grow up, you're supposed to be mature internally right? right?! Or not?! For pete's sake! I am starting to question the whole premise of this story. I got the feeling that this is another story with an unnecessary transmigration part. Why? She doesn't apply her age from before she transmigrated. She thinks awfully childish.


This is more of a rant than a review. I still plan to continue the story, maybe that could change my mind. <<less
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Apollo_sun rated it
January 19, 2021
Status: c17
I luv this! Super cuteeee💕

Ty translator! I will looking forward next chapter.

P.s. anyway, I do a bit pitiful of bio-daddy one... so heart breaking tears 💔 I do wish every characters have a happiness
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fireflying rated it
December 1, 2020
Status: c7
it's so cute?? way cuter than expected, I really liked it! The translation was also nice and clear, and so that was a bonus. I'm so looking forward to seeing what the summary says happen... hehe, call me biased but i'll probably never get tired of this kind of story.
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levoN18 rated it
October 28, 2021
Status: c48
It's soo cute I would recommend it to everyone who loves stories with sweet/cute reborn MC.

I love it 😍 can't wait for the next chapter.

(Thank you dear translator)
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alyssadng rated it
June 26, 2021
Status: c34
I read this for the cute/child/family moments based on the summary. I love it. It so sweet. Very heartwarming and relaxing.

I don't know why people choose to read this and then complain about the cute stuff being boring... What did you think this was about from the summary? Read something else then...

So cute <3
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ylial rated it
June 12, 2021
Status: c15
The general plot is a little cliché but the story is written well!

It's so heart warming and good to read. So far my top novel in a child+family or novel is the Baby Raising A Devil while this is 2nd. I couldn't judge this novel much since I've only read til c15. Thank you so much translator since kakao isn't mtl-able and I couldn't understand the raw Korean.
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redmuninn rated it
April 17, 2021
Status: c27
I am really enjoying the story so far. It has a really nice feel to it. Thanks for the translation.
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moonieB8908 rated it
March 16, 2021
Status: c23
This is a really cute story! I absolutely love Shushu's adoption family! Although I feel really bad for Shushu's biological family... I hope that she ends up staying with her current family. I'll definitely be waiting for updates on this series! It's the cutest one yet!
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February 11, 2022
Status: c14
Interesting concept, but I can't get past the 'baby talk' voice they give the MC (example: pwease hewlp mwe). It's really disruptive to the flow of the story, especially when they put a 'translation' into normal spelling in brackets underneath. I was kind of hoping they'd make the childhood part a bit shorter, in order to get to the meat of the plot, but they didn't and I just can't power through it. It drags on for an eternity with repetitive scenes, and while I've read and enjoyed novels with... more>> similar concepts, this one just doesn't execute it well. Other than the baby talk, the translation is excellent, so no shade to the translators, they've done excellent works, this one just isn't great. Solid 3/5, not unreadable, but best saved for a rainy day, or when other, better (in my opinion) novels have been read. <<less
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prwilliams10 rated it
October 2, 2021
Status: c45
A very intriguing and sweet story. The MC is super cute and not a pushover, determined to save her adoptive dad and brother. I'm always waiting for the next update to see what happens next.
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Poshghost rated it
May 19, 2021
Status: c30
My HEART!!!! I absolutely love doting adopted father stories and this one just tugs at your heart strings and you really feel for the MC! It's such a sweet little story so far and I hope in continues in that direction. I love how much the family loves her and I love that she really is having to work through trauma to accept it it feels very real. I also adore that even though this is a reincarnation story, the author worked it so that the child can still act... more>> like a child and I appreciate that. I can't wait for more! <<less
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Witch BRIONNE rated it
April 14, 2021
Status: c27
It's awesomely fluffy. I can't contain this much cuteness. I need mooorreee
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