"you only realize my worth when you lost me" trope

"you only realize my worth when you lost me" trope
the best type of revenge is when they start to regret what they did. making them suffer from self-blame and self-loathing. making them guilty for the rest of their lives that they can't even bear to look at you in the eyes without being ashame of their selves.
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xkryptonx
Created: Nov 23rd, 2021, Updated: Oct 3rd, 2022
Created Nov 23rd, 2021
Updated Oct 3rd, 2022
CN (4.5)
113 Chapters Every 34.1 Day(s) 8264 Readers 212 Reviews 04-17-2023
She spent her first life pleasing her family and fiancé but they continue to favor the fake daughter until MC died of illness. That's when... more>>
CN (3.3)
0 Chapters Every 79.8 Day(s) 3710 Readers 104 Reviews 07-10-2021
She pursued him from childhood until they got married but still, her husband only neglected her and chose to favor the og fl instead. Then... more>>
CN (4.5)
408 Chapters Every 27.4 Day(s) 11207 Readers 186 Reviews 05-04-2023
Her ex-fiance regretted marrying her younger sister instead of her.
CN (4.3)
89 Chapters Every 46.2 Day(s) 5640 Readers 70 Reviews 03-07-2024
The emperor male lead turned into a literal puppy and got adopted by the concubine that he treats as a scapegoat. He then discovered that... more>>
CN (4.5)
111 Chapters Every 25.9 Day(s) 4237 Readers 82 Reviews 12-25-2023
MC fullfills her role as the villainess to continue the plot and only when she died did the male leads realized how important were she... more>>
CN (3.7)
39 Chapters Every 216.5 Day(s) 890 Readers 17 Reviews 08-14-2020
This is similar to "I Just Want to Freeload on Your Luck." MC is wrongly accuse by her family bc of an incident, that's the time where MC transmigrated to the body of the host. MC's personality was impassive and quite indifferent. She didn't cut off her ties with her fam even tho they've wrong her because she simply doesn't care. When they learned the truth tho it was too late, even if they regretted and tried to win MC back, MC just really doesn't care. ... more>>
CN (3.8)
81 Chapters Every 80.9 Day(s) 1710 Readers 37 Reviews 01-22-2023
Another QT but MC is a heartless b*tch. She did it for a purpose tho. She was the ex-girlfriend of the male leads, to change... more>>
CN (3.8)
164 Chapters Every 16.1 Day(s) 2245 Readers 34 Reviews 04-07-2024
As u can read in the description, u can already tell that this is a "you only love me when you've lost me" trope. although... more>>
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  1. helicoptersoundsinww3
    helicoptersoundsinww3· Dec 8, 2021 04:48 PM
    Woah!!! I really love these kinds of stories and thank you so much for compiling a list of them. Thanks. clear.png
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  2. SleepyMintii
    SleepyMintii· Dec 8, 2021 06:27 PM
    This is my favorite trope lol so I rlly hope this list keeps growing! Ty for the list!
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    • xkryptonx
      xkryptonx· Author · Dec 12, 2021 03:12 PM
      welcome! if u have any books that have the same trope u can tell me so that i can add them here! 
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  3. PsychoZombie
    PsychoZombie· Dec 20, 2021 08:15 AM

    I think "My Groom Ran Away" definitely fit this troupe. 

    On their wedding day the FL's groom didn't come to their wedding to take care of his childhood friend (which is also his ex), thus FL decided to keep the wedding going but with different man as her new groom (our ML). Later the og groom regrets his decision and tried to get backwith FL, but FL already had enough with him.

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    • xkryptonx
      xkryptonx· Author · Dec 21, 2021 02:57 PM
      thank you sm for this I'll def check it out!
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  4. Stripedhatbecomesgay
    Stripedhatbecomesgay· Jan 23, 2022 11:05 PM
    Yes! I'm so happy I finally found a list for this trope! Thank you very much!!!clear.pngclear.pngclear.png
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  5. Klaruza
    Klaruza· Mar 26, 2022 01:09 PM

    I think "The Tragedy of The Villainess" also fot this trope. 

    The fiance is missing to take care of a certain saintess so FL marry another male (unconsciously). The ex fiance regret his decision. 

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  6. X1I1
    X1I1· Mar 2, 2022 12:02 AM
    Would "I Won’t Go Back to My Family Who Abandoned Me" fit into this list? I personally think so, they definitely feel regret, but don't feel much guilt. either way, a solid read, and its completed which is nice!clear.png
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    • xkryptonx
      xkryptonx· Author · Mar 3, 2022 08:02 AM
      thank you for the suggestion <3
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  7. Fictionaddiction
    Fictionaddiction· Feb 20, 2022 11:44 PM

    Love your list, here's a recommendation

    Get Rid Of The Male God And Marry The Rich

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    • xkryptonx
      xkryptonx· Author · Feb 21, 2022 05:52 AM
      i've actually read that already but decided to dropped it after a few chapters bc it's a bit bland for me :( but i'll add this to the list anyways!
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