Omg I'm glad someone understands me ( and understands whatever gibberish i wrote lol). It's so frustrating to see the mc get everything handed to him. After I finish my current novel, I'll definitely check out these novels. They sound really interesting I haven't really delve into world hopping stuff before but thanks for your recs!! 

The Villain Has Something to Say-a xianxia one I haven't read yet...Seizing Dreams also looks very promising.The Wife is First is,Love you till death,The White Cat’s Divine Scratching Post are with seme protagonist and MC falls first.

I’m Not Shouldering This Blame mutual attraction tho main focus isn't the relationship but plot

Peerless is also same less romance more plot and I really like it.tho shou takes a little time to accept but he's honest and always saying ML is really good looking as long as he keeps quiet lol(they're rivals as they have similar jobs with different departments.also helps each other to solve cases).they're always digging pits for each other and falling in the pit the other had dug for them.they also call each other names in mind.ML calls MC dead fox and MC calls ML Oleander(beautiful but poisonous flower)  

Devil venerable also wants to know seme protag but shou falls first.I really love this one but not enough space to write summary.also recommend Sha qin tho haven't read it yet I'm getting good vibes

Finally another one with mutual love rival(? they were not really serious as they knew officer Tao is straight as steel and they actually see him as best friend and big brother)and attraction,Silent reading.I really love love love Silent Reading the plot is just amazing.MC is bis*xual and ML is openly Gay.MC wasn't really expecting a serious relationship(never had any official relationship with anyone)but after ML made clear that he's serious about their relationship and sleeping together then running I'm not having it he also got serious about it without dilly-dallying.both of them are really intelligent ML is a police captain and MC is a not so hard working second generation CEO who doesn't work seriously that often but a good student of psychology who has a talent for crime(yes not deduction but crime.officer Tao said that).can think from the criminal's POV and also says only screwed up people(himself)and his past is just *sniff sniff*) understands other screwed up people.I highly recommend it tho it's plot heavy and the cases are dark but mind blowing but it's worth of the time.one funny thing is another officer thought that MC is the top domineering CEO who is coercing the honest police officer shou(actually kinda true tho he is the shou and they were mutually coercing and flirting.he always topped before)