BG/BL With Low Self-Esteem ML

BG/BL With Low Self-Esteem ML
Instead of OP CEO or arrogant and domineering ML, these precious MLs need coaxing and feel inferior to the MC (or vice versa in some cases). EVEN THOUGH THEY'RE SO PRECIOUS AND DESERVE THE WORLD!! Most of them are insecure and afraid their partner will leave or no longer like them due to their flaws/illness/background/past/etc. There is a lot of pampering, coaxing, understanding, and healing in these beautiful stories. I've tried to put similar setting/vibe stories together so the list is easier to navigate. BG in the first half and BL in the second half :)

Recently I've seen more recommendation lists on this trope and I'm SOOO HAPPY that these beautiful stories are finally getting some appreciation!! I'll do my best to also find some less popular gems for you all to read >.< Please also comment any stories you would like me to add!

*also, I know I sorta write more for some novels, less for others. It honestly depends on my mood & memory of the novel. So don't feel discouraged about the ones I write less on, they're all well written books :) I also try to only include novels that are 4 stars and above, unless I REALLY think that the story deserves wayyyy more.
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A.vera
Created: Nov 7th, 2020, Updated: Dec 15th, 2022
Created Nov 7th, 2020
Updated Dec 15th, 2022
CN (4.2)
297 Chapters Every 46.1 Day(s) 9160 Readers 137 Reviews 07-12-2022
The ML is a ger (a gender that looks male but can get pregnant) who is considered ugly because he looks too masculine. When the... more>>
CN (4.5)
98 Chapters Every 26.7 Day(s) 5166 Readers 67 Reviews 03-13-2024
The original body of the MC was absolutely sh*t to the ML and would basically abuse and r*pe him. The ML is a "ger" basically... more>>
CN (4.5)
109 Chapters Every 6.7 Day(s) 5103 Readers 58 Reviews 04-21-2024
Quite similar to TOFUH, the MC transmigrates to ancient time and gets himself a inters*x husband who he falls in love with quickly. In this... more>>
CN (4.2)
93 Chapters Every 78.7 Day(s) 10519 Readers 166 Reviews 03-13-2021
The ML has a mental illness and he doesn't think that he will be able to give the MC happiness. When the MC pursues him, he is extremely happy but always rejects the MC. After a while he realizes he can't bear to let the MC go and they work through their problems together.... more>>
CN (4.5)
13 Chapters Every 39.5 Day(s) 1708 Readers 27 Reviews 09-25-2021
Short story about a Beta that holds an unrequited love for an Omega for over a decade. One day, the Omega suddenly meets with his fated Alpha, what will they do?... more>>
CN (4.4)
98 Chapters Every 9 Day(s) 4675 Readers 47 Reviews 04-15-2024
Ok first of all, Seme MC, yummm! BTW this is ABO... more>>
CN (4.5)
57 Chapters Every 81 Day(s) 6196 Readers 138 Reviews 01-01-2021
As the tags mention, there is lots of physical exercise that happens in the book LOL. But I feel that it is very logical and sweet. The ML feels very inferior due to his family background and the fact that he is divorced with a child. I love reading the emotions of the ML and how the MC slowly builds trust and strengthens the relationship with him.... more>>
CN (4.4)
32 Chapters Every 72.2 Day(s) 3270 Readers 35 Reviews 05-12-2021
ABO Omega x Omega... more>>
CN (4.4)
6 Chapters Every 29.8 Day(s) 6435 Readers 111 Reviews 12-09-2023
This was super fluffy and quite spicy as well ;) ... more>>
CN (4.3)
102 Chapters Every 9.3 Day(s) 2073 Readers 16 Reviews 04-14-2024
SCUM ORIGINAL BODY!! Previous body owner was abusive and toxic, causing an immense amount of pain and trauma onto our ML (who is an omega).... more>>
CN (3.8)
72 Chapters Every 8.5 Day(s) 846 Readers 2 Reviews 12-23-2023
This is a quick transmigration/world-hopping book. *ps, yandere ML... more>>
CN (4.3)
66 Chapters Every 0.4 Day(s) 2115 Readers 35 Reviews 01-28-2022
The MC gets a second chance to love the ML again. I will say, it is hard to forgive the MC for what he did... more>>
CN (4.5)
10 Chapters Every 31.2 Day(s) 1623 Readers 23 Reviews 12-05-2023
The ML's family is tr*sh. Absolute garbage. The MC really pulls the ML out of the darkness and teaches him about love, compassion, and friendship.... more>>
CN (4.4)
31 Chapters Every 45.7 Day(s) 3090 Readers 42 Reviews 07-16-2022
This was a quick and sweet read. I found it funny yet distressing for our MC and ML. 
CN (4.1)
39 Chapters Every 50.7 Day(s) 1079 Readers 31 Reviews 05-06-2022
Two broken and kind souls trying their best to live. This book accurately portrays how there is no true good and evil in the world. The characters are just so complex and you can't help but feel bad for the both of them. This is an explicit read, so be prepared for that.... more>>
CN (4.5)
50 Chapters Every 5.3 Day(s) 1943 Readers 13 Reviews 03-05-2024
A very sweet and gentle romance. Both our ML and MC had a coincidentally similar experience of being cheated on and slowly grew an attraction... more>>
CN (4.6)
85 Chapters Every 5.3 Day(s) 2001 Readers 13 Reviews 04-17-2024
A QT novel ish. It's almost a collection of medium length stories where the authors transmigrate into their own stories and slowly heal and fall... more>>
CN (4.7)
51 Chapters Every 45.9 Day(s) 2286 Readers 53 Reviews 06-18-2022
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  1. MeganError
    MeganError· Nov 21, 2020 12:58 AM
    Dont get me wrong, but ML with flaw (human flaw, not the jerk one) is more attractive than the perfect one. clear.png I read some from this list and they are enjoyable clear.png so i will read the rest. Thank you for amazing list that i dont know i need. LOL.
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    • A.vera
      A.vera· Author · Feb 9, 2021 01:55 AM
      IKR I'm so obsessed with this trope rn!!
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  2. Luce94
    Luce94· Feb 1, 2021 06:14 PM

    I feel the need to thank you for the list.

    I'm still upset that there is no tag for this kind of novel... it's always "strong love interest" that says anything and nothing all the same. 

    This list really saves me a lot of effort in searching one by one through warped summaries and spoiling reviews.

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    • A.vera
      A.vera· Author · Feb 9, 2021 01:56 AM
      ahhhh i agree!!! these fluffy and traumatized characters need more luvclear.png
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  3. Scarletravrn
    Scarletravrn· Nov 27, 2020 10:17 AM

    Suggestion: Those Years in Quest of Honour Mine

    The ML has a lot of insecurities and everytime thinks MC may leave him but ML keeps pushing MC away to protect him. A few times ML thought that MC left him forever, he just broke... living like the living dead

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    • A.vera
      A.vera· Author · Feb 9, 2021 01:57 AM
      awwww poor mannnnn i need to read this!
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  4. Loni4ever
    Loni4ever· Feb 6, 2021 09:14 AM

    What I nice list~ owo 

    Btw I'm not 100% sure but I'm fairly certain that in the Dandere General novel, the ML actually hasn't experienced r*pe. I think it's mentioned that he somehow made it this far without having to sexually serve someone, and at one point where it seemed like he would have to, he became depressed because of it. Thankfully, the MC noticed and prevented it. Hopefully that wasn't spoilery to others xD 

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    • A.vera
      A.vera· Author · Feb 9, 2021 01:54 AM
      oooh ya i think ur right bc he says something like "I only have this clean body to offer you" AHHHH MY BABY haha but yes lemme change it.
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  5. Sky2829
    Sky2829· Jan 26, 2021 01:37 PM
    Acting spoiled in his indifferent arms, Loving you dearly, I just want to freeload on your luck, Transmigrating to become the boss’s little fairy and You’re my glory all have have MLs with low self esteem. They’re my favorites. I just love sweet and precious MLS.
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    • A.vera
      A.vera· Author · Feb 9, 2021 01:56 AM
      oh yes yes!
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  6. yesiambroke
    yesiambroke· Dec 19, 2020 02:26 PM
    «Slowly Falling For Changkong» is one my favs, the novel has a dominant FL and a ML with low self-esteem 
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    • A.vera
      A.vera· Author · Feb 9, 2021 01:57 AM
      yaaa that is a nice one >.<
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  7. Hazelia
    Hazelia· Nov 19, 2020 04:52 PM
    I recommend Golden Stage be added in this list. ML in that novel have low self esteem in which he think himself as an official with a reputation as emperor dog who attack loyalist like MC, although he did all he can to climb to high position just so he can protect MC. ML has been in love secretly with MC for seven years and before he always think he is unworthy of MC who is a general. They resolved it by the way as their misunderstanding about the past was cleared and feelings blooms..
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    • A.vera
      A.vera· Author · Feb 9, 2021 01:55 AM
      oooh yesclear.png
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