BG/BL With Low Self-Esteem ML

BG/BL With Low Self-Esteem ML
Instead of OP CEO or arrogant and domineering ML, these precious MLs need coaxing and feel inferior to the MC (or vice versa in some cases). EVEN THOUGH THEY'RE SO PRECIOUS AND DESERVE THE WORLD!! Most of them are insecure and afraid their partner will leave or no longer like them due to their flaws/illness/background/past/etc. There is a lot of pampering, coaxing, understanding, and healing in these beautiful stories. I've tried to put similar setting/vibe stories together so the list is easier to navigate. BG in the first half and BL in the second half :)

Recently I've seen more recommendation lists on this trope and I'm SOOO HAPPY that these beautiful stories are finally getting some appreciation!! I'll do my best to also find some less popular gems for you all to read >.< Please also comment any stories you would like me to add!

*also, I know I sorta write more for some novels, less for others. It honestly depends on my mood & memory of the novel. So don't feel discouraged about the ones I write less on, they're all well written books :) I also try to only include novels that are 4 stars and above, unless I REALLY think that the story deserves wayyyy more.
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A.vera
Created: Nov 7th, 2020, Updated: Dec 15th, 2022
Created Nov 7th, 2020
Updated Dec 15th, 2022
CN (3.8)
69 Chapters Every 2.3 Day(s) 910 Readers 11 Reviews 04-14-2024
The FL pulls our ML out of the dark and gives him the love and attention that he deserves, and has been lacking since he... more>>
CN (4.6)
169 Chapters Every 71.3 Day(s) 6982 Readers 154 Reviews 05-27-2021
The FL transmigrates back in time and is determined to reunite with her husband from her previous life. At this time, her husband is still... more>>
CN (4.3)
121 Chapters Every 3.7 Day(s) 3494 Readers 45 Reviews 03-25-2024
The MC has a system and transmigrates back to the economic reform period where she meets the ML. The ML suffered a serious leg injury... more>>
CN (4.1)
14 Chapters Every 85.9 Day(s) 1573 Readers 14 Reviews 11-05-2021
This is a second chance novel where the MC wants to correct her wrongs and properly cherish the ML in her new life. However, the... more>>
CN (4.5)
22 Chapters Every 60.7 Day(s) 1538 Readers 16 Reviews 07-23-2023
This is a Quick Transmigration, but rather short and FULL of sweet interactions. The ML is the villain in every world and he has a tragic past that causes him to "blacken". The MC brings light into his world and he is willing to do anything for her. I love how the ML can appear as a ruthless and cold killer, but in fact, is just a huge puppy yearning for the MC's love and attention. ... more>>
CN (4.6)
116 Chapters Every 92.9 Day(s) 8800 Readers 204 Reviews 07-03-2020
MC is a very optimistic person and can be easily satisfied by food. The ML has a mental illness and doesn't want to confine the MC with him.... more>>
CN (4.3)
14 Chapters Every 62.1 Day(s) 1179 Readers 13 Reviews 08-31-2022
This is pretty interesting bc the FL is the ALPHA, and a SSS-level too! The ML felt a bit bad the whole time because he... more>>
CN (4.5)
27 Chapters Every 113.1 Day(s) 4341 Readers 54 Reviews 05-19-2022
The ML kept an unrequited love for the MC for many years because he felt like he couldn't match up with the MC. ML has... more>>
CN (4.6)
52 Chapters Every 26.6 Day(s) 6409 Readers 110 Reviews 03-24-2023
The ML has trauma left over from his ex and he feels like he can't match up with the MC. The MC coaxed and gave him a lot of time to consider his feelings. LOVE THE COMMUNICATIONNN!!!... more>>
CN (4.6)
175 Chapters Every 79.2 Day(s) 14625 Readers 349 Reviews 02-11-2021
As the title says, the ML has a terminal illness and is ready to give up. The MC decided to nurse him back to health after discovering his feelings for him.... more>>
CN (4.5)
24 Chapters Every 80 Day(s) 3332 Readers 11 Reviews 12-04-2023
This one was very fun to read because both characters had lots of personality and different values. The MC is actually the one that struggles... more>>
CN (4.6)
60 Chapters Every 58 Day(s) 3483 Readers 27 Reviews 01-28-2022
SUPER cute and fluffy. This book is written in third person from both perspectives so I don't actually know who is MC and ML. But basically A is an anti-social and traumatized boi and B slides into his world with his rays of sunshine. A and B both didn't know each other was gay and their romance progressed very nicely.... more>>
CN (4.8)
#38SAYE
223 Chapters Every 5.7 Day(s) 6941 Readers 72 Reviews 04-18-2024
~ I haven't finished this one yet ~... more>>
CN (4)
82 Chapters Every 3.9 Day(s) 1786 Readers 37 Reviews 04-17-2024
Tragedy indeed. I honestly rarely cry when I read books but at one point I realized tears were rolling down my face. The MC is the one that feels inferior and believes everything bad that happens to him is something he deserves. He has PTSD from his family and his unrequited love doesn't help. The ML hates the MC because he was forced into this marriage which made him separate from his childhood sweetheart. The mother-in-law also treat him poorly and I've honestly haven't read a book with a character with such low self-esteem.... more>>
CN (4.6)
12 Chapters Every 73.8 Day(s) 1603 Readers 25 Reviews 01-10-2021
The MC is older than ML and he has a problem with his hearing. He feels like the ML decided to date him out of... more>>
CN (4.6)
53 Chapters Every 67.5 Day(s) 4345 Readers 63 Reviews 08-09-2021
This one made me quite sad for the MC in the beginning because he wasn't even sure if the ML was real. The MC suffers... more>>
CN (4.1)
47 Chapters Every 57.5 Day(s) 2555 Readers 40 Reviews 01-03-2022
The MC is the one with an inferiority complex due to years of abuse from his unrequited love and "bedmate/(golden master?)". I really like this... more>>
CN (4.5)
51 Chapters Every 2.3 Day(s) 1654 Readers 22 Reviews 11-29-2021
The ML suffered a lot from bullying, rumours, and isolation until he met the MC. The MC is a bit older than the ML so... more>>
CN (4.1)
314 Chapters Every 23.1 Day(s) 3793 Readers 22 Reviews 04-15-2024
The ML has been chasing the MC for EIGHT YEARS. I know a lot of other novels also show unrequited love but this one really... more>>
CN (4.3)
40 Chapters Every 27.4 Day(s) 7041 Readers 78 Reviews 03-22-2024
*ABO* The ML has a physical and mental disability due to a war situation years ago, giving him a notorious reputation. The MC has suffered... more>>
CN (4.2)
64 Chapters Every 43.5 Day(s) 4258 Readers 87 Reviews 08-08-2022
MC transmigrates into a book and knows that the ML was switched at birth. The ML grew up with an abusive drunk father and a... more>>
CN (4.3)
56 Chapters Every 45.6 Day(s) 1556 Readers 14 Reviews 12-25-2022
I'm really really really hoping the ratings on this one will go up quickly! I honestly enjoyed reading this novel very much. Both our MC... more>>
CN (4.6)
140 Chapters Every 34.5 Day(s) 12299 Readers 246 Reviews 09-23-2023
Absolutely everything I was looking for. The ML was so abused and tormented (physically and mentally) that he felt like he wasn't fit to touch the MC at all. His past made him feel very "dirty" while the MC had a very clean and abstinent reputation. The ML was kind of similar to Dandere General and his Lord in this list^ but I felt like he had it worse because there was a lot of r*pe that happened to him. Ahhhh my heart aches for him, this poor baby!!! The amount they mutually sacrificed for one another also really touched me.... more>>
CN (4.6)
0 Chapters Every 95.2 Day(s) 12615 Readers 192 Reviews 09-22-2020
~I haven't finished reading yet~... more>>
CN (4.6)
1 Chapters Every 1885 Day(s) 7416 Readers 125 Reviews 01-25-2019
~I didn't read this but this comment makes me wanna check it out hehe~... more>>
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  1. MeganError
    MeganError· Nov 21, 2020 12:58 AM
    Dont get me wrong, but ML with flaw (human flaw, not the jerk one) is more attractive than the perfect one. clear.png I read some from this list and they are enjoyable clear.png so i will read the rest. Thank you for amazing list that i dont know i need. LOL.
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    • A.vera
      A.vera· Author · Feb 9, 2021 01:55 AM
      IKR I'm so obsessed with this trope rn!!
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  2. Luce94
    Luce94· Feb 1, 2021 06:14 PM

    I feel the need to thank you for the list.

    I'm still upset that there is no tag for this kind of novel... it's always "strong love interest" that says anything and nothing all the same. 

    This list really saves me a lot of effort in searching one by one through warped summaries and spoiling reviews.

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    • A.vera
      A.vera· Author · Feb 9, 2021 01:56 AM
      ahhhh i agree!!! these fluffy and traumatized characters need more luvclear.png
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  3. Scarletravrn
    Scarletravrn· Nov 27, 2020 10:17 AM

    Suggestion: Those Years in Quest of Honour Mine

    The ML has a lot of insecurities and everytime thinks MC may leave him but ML keeps pushing MC away to protect him. A few times ML thought that MC left him forever, he just broke... living like the living dead

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    • A.vera
      A.vera· Author · Feb 9, 2021 01:57 AM
      awwww poor mannnnn i need to read this!
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  4. Loni4ever
    Loni4ever· Feb 6, 2021 09:14 AM

    What I nice list~ owo 

    Btw I'm not 100% sure but I'm fairly certain that in the Dandere General novel, the ML actually hasn't experienced r*pe. I think it's mentioned that he somehow made it this far without having to sexually serve someone, and at one point where it seemed like he would have to, he became depressed because of it. Thankfully, the MC noticed and prevented it. Hopefully that wasn't spoilery to others xD 

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    • A.vera
      A.vera· Author · Feb 9, 2021 01:54 AM
      oooh ya i think ur right bc he says something like "I only have this clean body to offer you" AHHHH MY BABY haha but yes lemme change it.
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  5. Sky2829
    Sky2829· Jan 26, 2021 01:37 PM
    Acting spoiled in his indifferent arms, Loving you dearly, I just want to freeload on your luck, Transmigrating to become the boss’s little fairy and You’re my glory all have have MLs with low self esteem. They’re my favorites. I just love sweet and precious MLS.
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    • A.vera
      A.vera· Author · Feb 9, 2021 01:56 AM
      oh yes yes!
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  6. yesiambroke
    yesiambroke· Dec 19, 2020 02:26 PM
    «Slowly Falling For Changkong» is one my favs, the novel has a dominant FL and a ML with low self-esteem 
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    • A.vera
      A.vera· Author · Feb 9, 2021 01:57 AM
      yaaa that is a nice one >.<
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  7. Hazelia
    Hazelia· Nov 19, 2020 04:52 PM
    I recommend Golden Stage be added in this list. ML in that novel have low self esteem in which he think himself as an official with a reputation as emperor dog who attack loyalist like MC, although he did all he can to climb to high position just so he can protect MC. ML has been in love secretly with MC for seven years and before he always think he is unworthy of MC who is a general. They resolved it by the way as their misunderstanding about the past was cleared and feelings blooms..
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    • A.vera
      A.vera· Author · Feb 9, 2021 01:55 AM
      oooh yesclear.png
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