• • The relationships between the leads was highly unbalanced- and the fault lies with both of them. The FL compromised a lot, and not in a good way, as she completely changed herself to cater to the ML's needs. The ML didn't pay attention to his wife for 3 years and despite being a buisnessman (who should be great at reading behaviour of others), couldn't even spot a single anomaly in his wife's behaviour. It either means that she is one heck of a good actor, or he didn't even pay enough attention to even understand his girlfriend/wife. Again, this is a very common trope in chinese novels, but it really doesn't make any sense in this case because they both had a love marriage.

• • At least until chapter 45, most blame is put on ML's head, but people fail to realise that the FL practically conned him. She did not only change her habits to accomodate him but practically transformed into a new personality for him. I was surprised that the ML still liked her after her 180
    change and was not angry that she played with his feelings (if he had any, which I doubt because of his actions) for 3 years. She turned into an entirely different person but he still loved her due to her MC halo.I could never wrap my mind around this major plothole.

• • The ML never bothered to explain anything to his wife about his scandals, Qi Yao, job (she is a top buisness graduate) and always took stand with his mother's opinions, but explained about his divorce thrice to Qi Yao at the party, whom he thinks is one of the reasons why his wife divorced him.

• • There were times when FL's superpowers didn't work (when she cursed her husband to fall in lake when he arrived at her doorstep) and no one noticed. She was a OP protagonist, but just like her fellow leads from other novels, she dragged a lot of things that could've been solved earlier. (She knew that her cousin was involved with th rival company, but still didn't bother to keep track on him which lead to the leakage of the ingredients/formula for her company's products-- at least respect her own R&D members who worked for months to create it.
    
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1) did not like the ML’s manhandling. Def do not enjoy when men physically drag women off to wherever.

2) Hard No to man reacting with nonconsensual physical contact in response to jealousy.
(Also just? Don’t find it cute when men who are not/are no longer in a relationship are territorial/possessive. 😣)

3) This was partially (poorly) lampshaded by FL’s observations of the ML’s chauvinism, but I didn’t appreciate the ML repeatedly questioning the FL’s abilities; assuming she had another Golden Thigh/sugar daddy instead of entertaining the idea of her being competent alone; & lecturing her on “naive” business practices.

Am well aware some might rationalize his condescending assumptions as misguided concern & accordingly pardon him. Not in this brain.

so, all these are planned by the jealous best friend of the FMC. She is reborned and tasked with the system to destroy the ML n FMC relationship.

So poor for the ML, that he is will be a widow for the next 2 years, and be the father until 3 years later.

Torturing the ML but maturing the FMC.

Oh gosh, all the Second MLs will get FMC as their wife in another parallel world, soooo happyyy

From the synopsis it looks like our Dai Dai is still in a marriage and her husband looks a tad bit overbearing. But nope. They did divorce. And the ex-wife-chasing is funny. Really.