FL thinks about wrangling up some delicious spiders and scorpions to eat with the ML for dinner.

Me: Well it says she's poor. She has to make do with what she can get, spiders probably taste better than starving to death right? What? She has a river full of fish, a full vegetable garden, lots of fruit trees, and a bear ready and able to hunt her up some venison? O-okay that is a little odd...

FL contemplates """accidentally""" letting the ML die so she can preserve his corpse.

Me: That sounds pretty bad, yeah. But she doesn't do it! Everybody has weird thoughts sometimes, so long as nothing comes of it, it's fine... right?

FL pushes past the weakened, bed ridden ML's puny struggles and forcibly licks his eyeball.

Me:... wut?

FL ignores ML's clear unwillingness (as well as all common sense on how someone who is partially paralyzed with three broken ribs, among other bones, aught to be treated) and ties him to her back to take him to climb a tree.

Me: Uhhhhh.

After coming down from the tree the FL has trouble undoing the knot binding the ML to her back. Realizing he wants down, she punishes the clean freak ML for being reluctant to be strapped to her back by pressing his hand into the mud.

Me: This is kind of awful, actually.

While washing the ML to cheer him up after the mud incident, FL (without permission) shaves his body and tries to apply some sort of permanent hair loss solution to him to "mark" him as hers. Proceeds to lie about this being for the sake of his medical treatment.

Me: Scratch that, this is definitely horrific, actually.

ML hunger strikes after the shaving incident. FL is indignant, how dare he express his anger in the only way available to him as a bed ridden patient. Doesn't he know how hard she works for him!

Me: Oh man, I've known people who get mad at you for being upset about how they've mistreated you. It's the worst. Run ML!

FL leaves for a couple days to get something to help with ML's treatment. Comes back to a no longer angry ML, and a warm meal. FL is happy and doesn't want to re-anger the ML.

Me: Alright, maybe this is just what they needed. ML asserted himself, FL seems to have resolved herself to be more considerate. There's still hope for this-

FL immediately turns around and fries up a plate of spiders and scorpions for the picky eater ML.

Me: And dropped.

I was caught of guard when he asked ML's maid whether she loved him. She told the maid that she would give her time to make ML fall in love with her and she would leave ML to her. I think this happened after FL's realization that Ghost Valley -her sect- didn't allow it's members or disciples to fall in love. They could fool around and things, but falling in love with someone would make them expelled.

proposes to him and thinks about how to essentially trap him with her and even thinking about deflowering him

when she cleans his hands meticulously, but that could read as endearing in some ways. Or when she had asked to kiss his eyes even though she had asked her master and another man before this very same question and got a very very negative response.