How they portrayed the ogFL and how they downplayed her r*pe (she was 16!!) and subsequently ens*avement (I mean they forced a five year hostess contract on a 16 year old who just gave birth and was basically homeless) just to book her and humiliate her. That's just vile and I hated how they acted like she wasn't a victim (ogFL/ML and their friends where older by 5-6 years so they KNEW what they were doing).

drive her out of her family, tainted her at 16 (FL drugged (resulting in her Su Han) and scared her forehead), lured her into the red light district and let others humiliate her to death.

She was 16 for goodness sakes. After they found out, they (orig. ML and 2nd ML) only apologized in their hearts despite realizing that all the things original did seemed like a child's tricks compared to FL, who had nothing done to her except being ignored by her husband all because she's his wife and mother to his children.

They realized that they bullied back against another bully, who used childish, open tricks when compared to their life ending schemes and retaliations.

she was a 15-16 yo (a child) who after some s*upid, bad decisions (made because she fell in love and wasn't taught any better!) was completely cut-off from her family, drugged and r*ped, tricked into years of prostitution and gave birth to a son - at the age of 16! It is written "she didn't know she was pregnant until it was too late for abortion" and gave birth in a bathroom! But everyone sees her first as immoral, bad and spoiled, having only love and shopping on her mind. Yes, as an adult she is materialistic, irresponsible, neglectful of her son etcetc, but again - how was she to know better when her world fell apart and she was a rich miss with no worries before? How was she meant to survive on her own, with no education (16 yo! What about her schooling?), no job qualifications and trauma (rape! Teenage pregnancy!) on top of that? Especially when we read that most of her "customers" were people she knew before, who wanted to step on her after fall from grace - even if she was s*upid, bad etc. Etc. It is just too much.

And the ML - when he finds out about having a son and her experience, his first thought is "what a bad woman" - without noticing that he had drugged, non consensual s*x with a 16yo, who later gave birth and somehow managed to survive 12 years - yes, in a dysfunctional way but seriously, in her place I'm not sure how she was meant to do better.

He showed up out of nowhere and somehow fell in love with the MC after seeing her like three times. Then he proceeded to try to get in her like by trying to act like ke was going to support her son, but was actually using it more of an excuse to get closer to the MC.

I really hate how the author wrote the interactions between father and son. He showed no care and treated him coldly. Even though their fight for the MC’s affection was supposed to be cute, IT WASN’T! The child grew up abandoned, he needed more love, and the MC was only like the cold father and cold son are getting along so well, like no b*tch.

Then the ML was forcing his love on the MC, and getting married to her even though we all knew she clearly had no feelings for him. Honestly disgusting.

Also when she got pregnant and she stared to ignore the fact that her son, which was abandoned for the first 10 years, might feel uncomfortable suddenly having a new child with a man that fought for affection with him. GOD. And the author just wrote it off by saying that Su Han didn’t actually hate his father.

Also how she was obsessed with having a daughter and was clearly written that she was disappointed that she had a son. WTF you gave birth to that f*cking baby.

She can hate her child! After birth she tries to dump him in the toilet, didn't feed him food and even ab*sed him since childhood but some people are saying it's ok cause she's young! (Like tf these nonsensical holy mother's knowledge) Being young never justifies crime! ab*se IS NEVER OKAY! IT'S A CRIME! GET THAT IN YOUR MIND!

The reason she ended up in this state cause she loved the og ml. But in her 2nd life she still couldn't hate the ml. She married a foreigner, stayed away from him but in her heart, she always loved him. She could love that og ML but not her child who tries to save her while getting r*ped and eventually gets scarred emotionally for life. She still didn't give the child a little pity even when he ended up so tragically. BUT she loves the og ML despite him being the reason for all her misery!

The one I most pitied was the child. His life is so pitiful! He suffered his mother's torture for 13 years! I'm glad the MC become his mother otherwise he would again suffer so much agony! I can't bear to think people justifying a ab*ser because she's a woman and was young. If a person still doesn't know what rejection is at the age of 15 and trying to cling to a person, it's that person's fault whatever misery will fall upon him or her. As well as still abusing her child at the age of 28, she's really not that young anymore. Even at the age of 28 she still doesn't improve!

They show the real situation of the real Su Ran and Su Han.. I swear, I almost cried.. I'm happy that the author decided to give them HE.. and about real Su Ran's complicated feeling towards his son.. that's definitely my fav part of the novel.. I wondered how can Su Han lived for so many years if Su Ran never cared for him.. it's almost impossible IMO.. and when real Su Ran protected him and told him to leave, I almost cried.. ToT and the relationship between real Su Han and his father really warm my heart..

basically ranted about the FL of the original novel.

omg the meeting between the father and son, is hilarious. the total convoluted novel's plot makes the explanation so challenging. Poor Mr. Lu. Totally misunderstood. lol.