For example, the MC doesn't spend 2342340 chapters being ignorant of her feelings towards the ML, but realistically acts about it. (Which is, passive aggression, lol.) Also her friends teasing her constantly about Mr. Jiang from downstairs lololol it's pretty fun.

No matter what, I can't help my self to hate FL's behaviour. She's so childish even after she becomes a mother. It's okay if she feels like 18 yo in her heart but to actually acts like one? Uh, I don't think so.

And that time when her friend ridicules an autistic person in group chat and FL gets along with the topic, I almost drop this novel. But I endure it because I want to see how this novel is gonna end.

I actually like ML. He learns so hard to be the best boyfriend and later husband with almost zero experience. I can see his growth thorough the story. On the other hand, FL who is more experienced that ML, get worse everytime and I seriously think that ML deserves better.

FL's highschool crush, which is also her first love, confessed to her. At that time, she already don't love the guy and she already likes ML. She immediately, without a second thought, REJECTED HIM. After the rejection, she hypothesize that if he had confessed 10 years ago, or that if he received her love letter, there would be a possibility they are already married and have a child that can already buy soy souce. This is only said to emphasize how long 10 years is.

She thought of this WITHOUT any regret or feelings, just a thought. Because, let's face it, she liked the guy back then, so it was an obvious thought, duh. Her friends also said the same thing about her and her first love, that if they confessed they would already been married, but she was the one who told her friends to stop thinking about the past bc its already in the past. Also, she only had that thought bcs, at that time, she is in unrequited love with the ML. She never has a chance with ML (she had ex bfs). They were only friends.

She is not disgusting. She knows what she likes. A little immature, but it was only because she is comfortable with the ML that she can joke around with him.

i dont think there is anything wrong with wanting a pure partner without experience if you yourself are the same, as it signifies the importance you give and the commitment to your partner, . True love comes with intense possessiveness and wanting to know everything about the significant other and it should be something that both should reciprocate. People say that, mostly in western countries that you should have your own private life and the partner should not question, if you feel that way then you do not love your partner truly and such relationships can break any time if a situation pops up, and as seen in surveys many married couples tend to cheat and divorce, f*ck some people even tolerate cheating, well they are obviously not people in love.

if you are really in love, that only happens when the other person is also really in love with you, this comes with unconditional trust and security in your relationship and lasts a lifetime with sweetness. Thats why it really rare, and its not applicable to most couples. People nowadays are selfish and their sense of morals is getting twisted, well more so than in the past, finally f*cking up any away to build harmonious relationships with others.