1. I wanted to see more of the mc's maternal fam (then again, the story is focused on her married life and narrowed that way. Too much info might get the story broader) ; 2. I'm always looking forward to the mc's interaction with her children (especially the treasure box parts that made me sigh in adorable-ness) ; 3. With a guy's soul residing in the MC, we really get to see a somewhat fresh take of an MC living in ancient times and interacting with her husband's family including his love affairs, especially so that she/he didn't give their soul easily to the ML but still met their s*xual needs lmao (slightly shook that she easily conceives, and that celery contraceptive home remedy lol) ; 4. The ml's growth - MC got more understandable feelings towards ml's actions of mucking around due to his age and prolly bec he also experienced those, from a happy-go-lucky naive and playboy second son to a more hardworking and seasoned husband (I felt slightly like a mom fan watching my son grow up lol (like he chose to start as county magistrate and work his way up). Especially that I feel he is better than some males in that period. I like his non-cliche personality and the way he knows his standing that he asks the MC for guidance at times. I also like how unlike other ml's, he isn't totally obsessed with the MC where he also gets jealous towards his children) ; 5. The way near the end, where the monarch has decided his actions towards the power of the aristocrats by inventing that system of his (I'm somewhat happy the kids are taking the tests and not rely on their family background) ; 6. I'm happy that although they're already rich, it doesn't stop the MC from increasing her riches through buying land deeds, and also, although they are rich, it didn't stop her from guiding her husband and kids to lead a more independent life and to see through life in a more broader view (also how she doesn't force them in their career paths/things they're not interested in but let them explore) ; 7. Besides being in a female's body, it didn't stop her from still having men tendencies till the end lol (She doesn't know how women still think and prefer sons because she would know how to raise them, she also dresses her people in good clothes and she really knows how to appreciate beauty and not mind when others ogle at them (even when she became a superior old Tai Tai, she still walked around with beauties everywhere)) ; 8. The story is quick and not stretched and it's also not heavy (at first though, there's a lot of names to know (ty to the translator for helping lots) and the pacing for time skips we're huge for each chapter like we're viewing the pacing of her life slightly fast (anyways, with such a story, even the conflicts ain't that heavy nor stretched out that it really feels like a light read but still an enjoyable one. I slightly feel for concubine fang (she focused too much on love though, maybe she's a better fit for a different era. I'm also feeling for the sis-in-law for being the slightly typical main wife in that era lol) ; and many more others that I couldn't remember nor write as of the moment anymore (I'll stop making this long).

(getting an alliance with sister in law and driving out that cousin concubine, then the ML having growth)