ML has a fever. I suspect it is because he does something to help MC sleep better in winter when her body was filled with yin air (which she carelessly got when she 'accidentally' cut her finger on a dagger). The first thing MC says is he can get a fever too? Like, he is only human. What does she expect?! And then she feels sorry because she can't hold a warm hand anymore. The f*ck?! He has FEVER and she feels sorry he can't warm her up? I felt so disgusted with her then and there. I mean, she was older than him when she died so why does she behave like a 12 year old?

I know she has no experience being an elderly lady. However, when ML was 7 years old and opened his yin-yang eyes and was awkward because of seeing her 20-something self in a 70 year old body, she sent him physical and mental health books about the dangers of premature love. I mean, come on! She really believed that a 7 year old could have a premature love instead of being able to see her. Ok, I can understand if she believes that the system is more powerful and that ML not outing her is less likely in her view. But next life, he orders her favorite food, brings her melon seeds, keeps asking pointed questions and she's still oblivious. Fine. I let it go. In the third life, he told her don't you have my wechat? (His wechat was given to her in her second transmigration). She still didn't believe he recognized her! She would rather believe that she didn't get all the memories instead. WTF! Is her brain a decoration? How did she pass her exams and make a living as an orphan in her original life?

He confessed to her, great.

But the way he approached it afterwards made me feel really frustrated. The MC is someone who raised him for a time being and had seen him grow up. Although the MC did show signs of liking him, they had agreed that he would give her time to process her emotions. What did he do right after? Use the favor she asked of him to make them legally married without her knowledge or consent, and then drove her to a bridal place to buy a wedding dress. When she asked him about the married part on her documentation, he claimed that he "couldn't wait", and that "there is still a long time after marriage, so [she] can consider it slowly". The narration then went to say that divorce wasn't even an option...... So she didn't have an option to begin with?

It makes me only more infuriated when the author uses the fact that she does like him to make it seem like he's not just outright ignoring what she wants. He traumatized by her dying constantly? So what, trauma doesn't excuse it. I get that the experience was terrifying for him and I sympathize with that but that doesn't mean it's okay.

the MC reincarnates into her last life & is caught by the ML. Hes got ptsd from her dying in his arms constantly so when she asks him to help her get an id (she wasnt "born" so shes an undocumented citizen), he makes her one and registers her as his wife at the same time. He then takes her to a boutique to buy clothes and... turns out its a wedding dress. The MC kinda dissosiates at this point. INSTEAD OF TALKING TO THE ML she plays with her phone and gets distracted by a watching vids of a grizzly unsolved murder case...

im just gonna say it... NO ONE CARES about random murder XYZ or is interested in the mystery of it... and neither should the MC. Shes not a detective... she gets no reward for chasing the supernatural... she just gets killed on loop. At this point shes LOOKING for ways to die for frgn dramas sake when she could be REACTING TO THIS WHOLE WEDDING THING RIGHT IN FRONT OF HER. As a reader I feel robbed of a scene & if I was the ML I would be PISSED that I could do something so over the top and STILL not have the MCs undivided attention

this novel feels emotionally constipated

with her pseudo-grandson lol

She had a system, but the author made a point to explain that it didn't help her other than giving her information. The helplessness of the FL was a bit bearable in her 'grandma' phase but it went downhill from the next arc onwards because she constantly needs ML saving her ass.

The author did mention somewhere along the story that she didn't intend to make her a strong FL who can bulldoze her way out of tough situations - so the FL's whole character got reduced to "I'm a ghost, but I'm scared of ghosts".

Then. Here's my problem.

If she's scared of ghosts, then don't go anywhere near them? That's common sense? But no? She likes to meddle in other people's supernatural affairs while she is completely incapable of doing anything herself to help without the ML's powers.

Sis was just courting death, like she would be the typical first character to die in every horror movie if she didn't have the ML going out of his way to protect her.

At some point I just got fed up with that. Every situation seems to a repeat of "FL sees ghost problems, FL decides to stick her hand into it, FL realises she f*cked up, ML saves the day".

ML's missing mother

Ok so why did you utilize a sexual orientation, lesbian, make the lesbian character live a bullied life, and then put the MC in it? Was it to create pity for the gays? Or what? Like what did you do for the lesbian character? Just get revenge? I guess? Idk what was the point of that. Why did you need that? Author. What was the end game with that? Did you utilize a sexual orientation as a plot device in order to make the ML realize his feelings ? I just wanna know why. I think the author didn't have any bad intentions but this is the second time they have written about sad lesbians in their stories. The last book they wrote also had sad lesbians. I don't understand.i just want to know what they were trying to do with that characters point for the story? I mean it's ok if you do justice to lesbians and fully have them represented for some point for them, but if it's just to somehow move your HETEROSEXUAL story plot then homie like why. But whatever I'm not offended. I'm just confused. Maybe the representation is alll that matters so it's ok. I Just didn't understand Why and that ruined the experience for me: like why did I had to read this bullying of this poor lesbian character??

It said that the eldest son of the grandma was stronger than the system and I'm like, 'bit*h WHAT.'

The reason I freaking couldn't believe it is because one is a human with a different kind of ying yang eyes compared to the real deal, while the other is a f*cking system who should be from a higher realm than them. AND EVEN IF ITS A NEWBIE SYSTEM, it should still be very competent. Otherwise, how the f*ck was it able to get the responsibility of getting a soul/MC as its host.

If the system said that the eldest son is stronger than it when it comes to feng shui matters and etc, then okay, I'll have no problem with that, since it once mentioned how it doesn't specialize with feng shui. BUT NAH. LIKE NO.

And what is the story with the immortal mother? And the Zombie Father?

And the second brother’s ashes? And the father’s ashes (I thought he was a zombie!?

so many questions left unanswered