• • ML's abusive behaviour towards MC when he still thought that MC loved his brother, Xu Jiamu. I know that ML was frustrated but still that's not how you treat the woman you loved. If you loved her, you won't bear to hurt her, let alone abuse and ra*e her. Later, he became henpecked husband after getting together with MC but I still couldn't forget his past behaviour towards MC.

• • MC was clearly not a pushover. She could stand up when she was bullied but I don't know why she was so meek in front of ML. Yes I know she loved him but she shouldn't let ML abused her and trampled over her dignity.

• • Xu Jiamu was no better than ML. She kept Song Xiangsi as his mistress for 8 years without any intention to make it official because he wanted to marry someone equal to his status (what a je*k). But when Song Xiangsi wanted to end their ambiguous relationship, he got angry and even slapped her. Of course later he regretted his treatment towards Song Xiangsi and it's almost too late. Fortunately he repented himself and Song Xiangsi still loved him so they could be together.

• • At first, I hate Qiao Anxia because her action led to so many unfortunate events in MC and ML's life. She misled Han Ruchu (Xu Jiamu's mother) and made her think that Jiamu loved MC so Han Ruchu would choose MC as her son's fiancee over her. Because of it, Han Ruchu sabotaged ML's confession to MC and made them missed each other for 5 years. She also sabotaged MC's pregnancy that led to her miscarriage. When ML tried to confess again, Han Ruchu pushed MC down the stairs and made ML thought that MC didn't want him. Qiao Anxia also contributed to ML's misfortune in this event because she didn't want to disclose MC's whereabout and made ML left in despair. When MC and ML finally got together, I'm so furious because Qiao Anxia actually had an audacity to be angry at MC (Qiao Anxia was once obsessed with ML but ML ruthlessly rejected her). But later after she saved MC and apologized to her, I'm not angry at her anymore. In fact, I found her very pitiful because she couldn't have a child for the rest of her life after getting stabbed by Han Ruchu. Also, her ending was so abrupt unlike other characters.

• • Han Ruchu was vicious but she's not the only one who's guilty (aside from Qiao Anxia of course) in the series of unfortunate events in our lead's life. The other guilty party was Xu Wanli (Jiamu and ML's father). He was the one who started it all by being an unfaithful husband in the beginning of his marriage. After knowing about ML's existence, he refused to take any responsibility and even treated him like a stain in his perfect life. I know Han Ruchu treated ML like an eyesore but she shouldn't blame ML because he didn't ask to be born. She should resent Xu Wanli and exact her revenge towards him instead of ML. In the end Han Ruchu got her own contribution but Xu Wanli left unpunished.

• • Why the author kept calling ML's assistant as "the assistant"? He clearly had a name (I also forgot his name because the author only mentioned his name once in a while). I don't know if this is a problem from the author or the translator.

• • Another guilty party that left unpunished was Lin Shiyi. She did many bad things to MC but she's still alive and kicking like a c*ckroach in the end of the story. Where's her retribution?

Especially when they decided to get married again. The sweetness just overflowed. I really really like their interaction when they got married again.

the two's wedding vows

but when they were young she was timid and he was “not worthy of her” and when he wanted to confess his father’s wife told him she loved someone else and what her cousin do didn’t help. Also is not like he is going to go and say I love you to his brother’s wife (not really his wife). Best part ever is when she took revenge for him and for their unborn baby and then goes and tell him what actually happen on the day they where going to meet but she ended up falling from the stairs, even better he flights all the way back from America because of how happy he was 🥰

He would spend his savings for Qiao Anhao even if he is poor. I like how he sacrifices so much for Qiao Anhao. I like how he wanted to be a rich man to dote on Qiao Anhao in the future. I like the way Qiao Anhao's face will be red when Lu Jinnian is around. Then, the misunderstandings came. Alright, it's reasonable to give up on Qiao Anhao when faced with the pressure from your family and the feeling of being indebted to his half-brother.

Really, who would go back to the dude after he rather violently r*ped her several times??

He thought she aborted their child, made a grave for the baby, and would visit the grave and cry about how much he missed both the baby and the mother. Granted, I also felt sorry for her before they even split up because of how much of a clueless jerk he was.