P.S. It was so funny when the MC found out s/he was pregnant. Their first time with each other might be the most convoluted first time anybody could ever have... and they still made it kinda romantic, and funny. Su Jian doesn't really make a good mother but she's the best wife a man could ever ask for. (out of the few chapters that's about after they have their children, she already made them cry twice)
The mystery behind her disappearing, the most romantic aspects of the story where she meets her fated one and whatnot, it's all in the second arc.
The third and fourth arcs are some little adventures she ends up having in the other world... can't really be called adventures, but I'll go with it.
The third arc is about cleaning up the mess that the second arc created in places far away. She meets James Charles too... well, at least that's how I interpreted that new guy to be (people didn't like him very much, they saw him as a love rival for some reason...I don't get why, he was obviously joking that one time when they first met and never showed any signs of going after the MC... in fact, he seems to be very supportive of their relationship, like everyone else. And he also seems a little gay to me.) You also get some cute romantic scenes in between with the MC and ML in that arc.
The third arc is about dealing with ghosts the week before Christmas with her dead ancestors, and although people say its got a lot of plotholes and such, I found it to be one of the most fun arcs of this story, after the second arc. Also it ends with a very romantic scene.
And then finally the fourth arc which is the wedding arc. It lays the story down gently, the pace softens up and everything finally seems to be coming to a close with a nice big wedding and some happy goodbyes.
This is a really cute gender bender romance novel. Main character wakes up in this girl's body who lives with her abusive drunk father. She makes friends with a rich boy she randomly meets who ends up rescuing her from her misery. From there the romance starts.
The only bad thing about her personality is that she's bad at communicating with people so she almost never properly explains anything to the people around her, the other reincarnators and stuff... but that's just annoying, nothing more, cause if you think about it, nobody else at this point even matters right now, so her not explaining everything and leaving others dumbfounded, or telling them everything properly, or just killing them and being done with it, the end result would be the same, they are not even worth it to talk to and she never gave a f**k about them either. But I just sometimes just wish others could know about their situation and her capabilities, because she knows everything they desperately wants to know and she can help them, she just doesn't.
Like, others are worried to death about something when actually everything is resolved and the main character is there who knows about it and is standing right there in front of them, she starts thinking of random stuff and having arguments with herself (which is actually one of the best parts of this novel) while a single word from her can put the rest of the people at ease. Unless she's asked, she wont talk, and if she's asked, she would spend 30 minutes getting her thoughts together, and then explain the whole situation, in her head, then ending it with a "... that's how it is" and that part at the end would be the only thing she actually voiced out. lol
I know its hard to overlook something like rape, but if you understand the feelings of the victim, you might feel a little better about it. The person herself never really cared about her purity or anything, its just the pain that caused her to be dissatisfied with him. She used to be a man so she doesn't really think much of it. And later she agreed to become his lover because she ended up enjoying it somewhat, right? So although it was a bit forceful, it's not really as bad as people are making it out to be.
The main thing is that its a gender bender, and she used to be a man. He was in trouble and she decided to sacrifice herself to help him and he ended up falling in love with her. She did not hate it either so she agreed to go out with him too. He might have made a mistake in the spur of the moment but as long as he makes it up to her throughout his whole life, you should forgive him for it, cause she herself did too. And after that just enjoy the comedy of two unlikely people falling in love and their shenanigans.