Transmigration of Mian [Reluctantly] Becomes His Man [Wife]

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Qin Mian opened his eyes and found himself lying in a leaky thatched room. The problem was that he was still in his family’s villa beforehand! What’s more, another man was lying next to his leg in the quilt!

“You, you, who are you?”

The man sat up quietly, his upper body exposed as looked at Qin Mian for a moment before he carried a worn-out bowl with a cracked corner from the low table at the head of the bed. The man said in a muffled voice, “Wife, drink water.”

Qin Mian’s eyes rolled backward and he passed out.

Title explanation: 勉为其男 [miǎn wéi qí nán] have the same sound as 勉为其难 [miǎn wéi qí nán] which means to do something reluctantly. 勉 [miǎn] is also part of MC’s name: Qin Mian. Also, 其[qí ] sounds the same as 妻 [qi] means wife. So, there are words plays. Basically, Qin Mian reluctantly becomes someone’s man [wife] after he transmigrated.

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TMRBHMW
Transmigrasi: Menjadi Orangnya
ข้ามเวลามาเป็นผู้ชายของเขา
穿越之勉为其男
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mariaflora1208
mariaflora1208
July 2, 2021
Status: Completed
I'm surprised I didn't drop this one. Lol. It's a good and very interesting read at first but then it got monotonous and boring. MC and ML is so OP and amazing things just keeps on popping up just for convenience's sake. It kinda got messy since things got nonsensical ... more>>
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like cultivators should meddle with the affairs of the mundane world but then whoa MC just keeps on secretly sharing his spring water left and right (or whatever his water cheat was called)

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. The story has so many golden opportunities yet so many loose ends. It's like the author just thought of something and put it in there then thought of another thing to put in there, and that's it. I as a reader just tried to rationalize even though it's nonsense lol. BUT BUT BUT, what I really love in here is the pairing, I just LOVE how ML and MC cherishes each other. AND I ALSO LOVE THE KIDS. There. Maybe I held out just for them lol. <<less
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AnOddPerson
AnOddPerson
June 29, 2021
Status: c111
I had high hopes for this because I love simple domestic bliss but it's so boring. There's really no character development after the first 10 chapters, nothing particularly interesting happens, it's just hundreds of chapters of describing things. Paragraphs on paragraphs talking about the layout of a house, how much meat they're buying and how much it costs, the cooking of a food - and it's not written in an interesting way, just "This is the thing. Then the next thing is like this."
The romance is only a tiny... more>> fraction of what's written, the characters have no real depth, and the only plotline seems to be 'getting rich easily because we're so smart and special'.
I also dislike how this modern transmigrator is just like 'yeah cool s*avery is convenient let's go with it, buy some people awesome'. <<less
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MizoreRoxy
MizoreRoxy
June 25, 2021
Status: c18
It's so tiring. I mean, it's so boring. It doesn't make me wanna continue reading. I know I'm not even 1/10 through it but come on! I guess it's just not my cup of tea. I like action. I like suspense. This is like reading about the life of a ant. Detailing every bit of food it picks up. Every detail in how it's legs move. Every second accounted for... or if the author can't account for it, they just chalk it up to magic. I'm going to force myself... more>> to continue cause I really do want to like it... but I'll probably drop it. <<less
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Fisukisuki
Fisukisuki rated it
June 23, 2021
Status: Completed
The journey of MC and ML from Poor to Rich is just so Smooth and Satisfying AF!!! This Novel is Truly The Best thing Ever!!!

MC and ML helps and believe in each other. Things get better and better, MC reveal his secret and ML reveal his knowledge. No secret between this Couple~!!!

The Faceslapping in this Novel is Also Satisfying AF!!! Everyone who get Faceslapped is Absolutely Deserve it!!!

MC and ML keep getting rich from the MC's smart idea of business and because ML's support. ML also the one who had... more>> the money first though. MC the one who has the business idea. And then they keep getting richer and richest!!!

Not only for themselves, and not out of kindness except toward people who had helped them first, but they always include the Villagers as much as they can. And then MC has the idea to make the Village also rich. And they did it!!!

And after that there's the unexpected Royal Empire arc as the end of the main story. And then the Extras that has 2 different arcs! All three of them is are Absolutely Wonderful !!!

Seriously, everything is BEYOND any Expectations in Mind Blowing Amazing Awesome Fantastic Wonderful way EVER!!!

This Novel is Truly Perfect!!! I Love it SOOOOO MUCH!!! With All My Heart and My Soul and My Eternal Love for the Eternity and Beyond!!!! <<less
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djeeny
djeeny rated it
June 15, 2021
Status: Completed
I enjoyed this very much, I'm glad I waited until it was complete to read it, cause I couldn't imagine myself waiting for the next chapter, even while reading it I didn't feel like putting my phone down, I wanted more with every chapter I read "I still want more" their relationship was everything and the kids, the wolf... I throughly enjoyed this novel. but all good things have to come to an end just like this novel on a good note it's definitely in my top 5 favorite... more>> Novel. <<less
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LunaSolis070
LunaSolis070 rated it
May 9, 2021
Status: Completed
This is soooo cuuute

MC is rich, he thought there's an apocalypse coming so he bought everything that he thinks is important. He bought books that helps him know how to design and the function of the items. Our MC is optimistic but rational one, he is the one who schemes and uses brains while out ML uses brain and physical but mostly physical. They are compatible and I just love the twinssss they love their old dad (ml) and the ml. F*ckimg deserves it. He deserves this family with... more>> MC and twinssss. Its actually good but I dont like the palace fights. 🤷🏻‍♀️ Aug 17, 2022

I still don't like the palace arc 🙊

Nov 4, 2022

Still don't like the palace arc. 🥵 Dec 8, 2022

Rereading, still don't like the palace arc. <<less
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thebadgirl05
thebadgirl05 rated it
April 10, 2021
Status: --
I'm one of those who likes to read cultivation novels or simple farming life in ancient times. This story is wholesome and cute, not to mention the sweet and fluffy MC and ML has towards each other. It's simply gold for me.

It's somewhat similar to 'Favorite Ugly Husband' and 'Manly Husband' and it's just what I needed. I need a good sweet and wholesome novel to reduce some stress~
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Peeping Girl
Peeping Girl rated it
March 6, 2021
Status: Completed
5 star rating for me!

I love the development of the story. Qi Mian (MC) and Lei Tie (ML) are perfect for each other. Their 2 cute buns is also one of the reasons why I'm into this novel.

Well written plot and the characters have a development that you're looking in a certain novel. This is one of the best danmei I have read so far. There's farming in it, business, cultivation and even courts political intrigues.

Highly recommended!
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Ainslee
Ainslee rated it
December 19, 2020
Status: c141
MTL completed.

It's an okay story.

Nothing remarkable just an everyday life of a Gary Sue transmigrator protagonist and his cold face husband.

Overall rating is 7/10
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Caszca
Caszca rated it
October 8, 2020
Status: c92
Just caught up with the latest chapter (92 right now) and I laughed so much! "Wife said..." indeed! He's so obedient and awe struck I can totally forgive him for checking out MC's assets last chapter like a perv.

This whole story is just wholesome. It's more of a farming game than an adventure, but there are some mysteries and the character dynamics keep it interesting beyond the MC's latest scheme to get rich.

It's a distinct trait in chinese novels that the characters focus on becoming rich business moguls, I guess?... more>> Here it's quite charming, though, because no matter what he builds/grows/harvests there are always interwoven interactions with the surrounding characters that keep things interesting. And while some have a rather bad relationship, they are all ordinary people (presumably the husband might know important people somewhere, but he himself is a peasant, too), so no harem schemes or poisonings or other deadly attacks. Mostly just petty words, greedy money grabbing attempts and some beatings from the mother in law in the beginning.

And a lot of amazing feats that leave the antagonists just dying of envy, no other measures needed. Both, MC and ML, level up pretty quickly and don't have to mind the majority of people much anymore at this point though.

A leisurely read if you just want something happy and simple. The translation is fairly amazing, take a look at the footnotes explaining all the obscure and cultural references that would have flown right over my head otherwise! =) <<less
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Kei-Em03
Kei-Em03 rated it
March 29, 2020
Status: Completed
OMGGG, Iam so excited to read the TL for this. Ive read a very rough MTL (but readable) of this somewhere and it was quite nice to read. The MTL wasnt finished then

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(tried it via googletrans and its just painful by the time it move to the 2nd half of the arc, so I stopped)

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so I dont know what happens next but Im very much looking forward to this TL.

Spoiler

Its about MC transmigrating to a man who was just married to ML.

MC of course, starts building his wealth, making sure ML is not being bullied by the rest of the family. MC has a golden finger space here.

ML has a mysterious background.

They will have kids (awww ?)

**And Ive read somewhere that theres more (lol) Iam looking forward to this more they are talking about ???

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Done MTL ~

Spoiler

Found a raw website that google translate worked well ❤

MTL: 3-4☆ (about 50-60% easy to understand so dont worry ?)

Still one of the best ones Ive read ❤❤❤

I love all the adventures, the family love and specially the relationship between MC and ML

A must read ❤

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Ayy0299 rated it
December 23, 2023
Status: Completed
The first part of the story is very entertaining, but when nearing the end, the author start losing their mind. Imo, the story can end with their peaceful life back in the village, maybe with some interesting fluff and a bit of twist for closure. But nope, yeah the author decided to write some sh*t like transmigrate back and fort between the modern world and ancient world, like what? Dude, I was so confused. Maybe you can put that in the extra, and I can compromised but the author decided... more>> to mix that up with the main story. Duh.

I like the plot, the world building and the story itself if the author decide to write it without adding like fantasy componen inside (like space and what not), but I get it, maybe the author need that to build and justify where the kid came from, I get that it's a part of world building, but the execution is very bad, and the writing becoming more and more messy :')

anyway here you go I give it 3/5

partially recommended, if you want braindead and light read lol <<less
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Toads-on-the-Road
Toads-on-the-Road
August 25, 2023
Status: c95
Status Ch. 95

Good read for a chill time. No Anxiety inducing drama, but more of the family drama that doesn't really have any effect on MC and ML.

I've been really enjoying the development of their relationship and their plans for the future.

... more>> As other people have said I'm a little sad about ML's passed being completely skipped, even though it's a big focus in his overall character design.

If there is no drama/excitement in the plot itself then I was hoping for at least a little more in the bedroom department. It's a slow burn in that area and I don't mind it but when we finally get some it's a short sentence of "Tossing in the sheets" and that's basically it.

I'm not saying that a good novel needs to have smut, but when the rest is lacking you would at least hope for a little of that.

I'm for the first time going to start reading something else and come back to this later. I want to know how it ends but it gets old really quick. I've never read something so slowly. <<less
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AiharuX
AiharuX rated it
May 13, 2023
Status: Completed
It was okay in the beginning but the story become boring real quick. The story has so much potential but the author just quickly gloss over some of the plot. If this is something you picked up just to get over your reading slump than you’ve come to the right place.

It was an easy read, no dramatic plot and the minor inconvenience is not enough to cause real problem to the MC.
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MongMongMonaLi
MongMongMonaLi rated it
December 12, 2022
Status: Completed
I wasn't 'thrilling' but I couldn't stop reading anyway.

It was verry realxing, and it made me hungry 75% of the time.

I liked their relationship. Especially in the beginning as they grew together.

I would have liked some xx action... but one can't have it all.

The kids were cute, the animals too.

It was a satisfying fluffy novel.
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shinichilove
shinichilove rated it
December 4, 2022
Status: Completed
I had a lot of expectations just based on the number of 5 star ratings and I'm glad it didn't disappoint. I really enjoyed MC and ML romance. ML's mysterious past was also an unexpected surprise.

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When it was revealed that ML was previously a grand general I felt the same way as the villagers 😂.

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When the little ones turned up I thought the story would get a little boring but surprisingly they added quite a lot more fluff. I really love their family interactions ☺️❤️.

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I just wish the extras were a little longer 😩. Especially when they got transported to Qin Mian's old world. But I also think that was a good point for the author to end on, otherwise it would just drag on and ruin the story imo.

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Story: 4.5

Translation: 4

Characters/Relationships: 5

This is one of those stories that make me feel reluctant to part. 😣 But I'm also happy to have finished reading it. Definitely recommend this. 5/5 <<less
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oushna
oushna rated it
November 15, 2022
Status: Completed
One of the best-EST BL novels on NU ! ❤ "Transmigration of Mian [Reluctantly] Becomes His Man [Wife]" is an amazing novel that was complete with rollercoaster rides of numerous emotions and feelings.

The fact that I have had this novel bookmarked for two years and stalled reading it until two days ago makes me feel like knocking myself on the head in reprimand. Goodness! I almost missed out on such an awesome novel. A pity I took two years, but most of all, great relief that I finally read it. Lol... more>> me! 😅 Anyways, a big big Thank You to the author-sama for this mind-blowing novel. The storyline had me hooked on, line and sinker once I dived into reading. I'm quite the fan of reading novels with tags such as business management, poor to rich, childcare, ancient china, transmigration etc, so it's needless to say how much this novel's storyline hooked me on so bad.

I'll keep it short, and just say that this novel is so much worthy of a try! Cause if you're a fan reader of BLs with a good slow romance, slice of life, childcare, business management, cooking qnd farming etc, you're in for a guaranteed (atleast imo) mind-blowing time with this novel.

The MC (Qin Mian) and ML (Lei Tie) and their twin sons (Qin Ruiqi and Lei Ruilin) and their pets (White Spot, Golden Fur and Golden Eagle) are such a joy to read. I enjoyed Ch 1 to Ch 222 to its fullest. I even wished there were more chapters to it, but hey, all's well that ends well! 😊 Another big Thank You to the translator-sama and Foxaholic team. They did such a fabulous job with the translation that it's praiseworthy! I enjoy the novel so much more thanks to the magnificent translation work. It was such a smooth reading! Hats off ! 👏 Highly Recommended ! 💯 Wishing everyone a Happy Reading ! <<less
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LeniSnow
LeniSnow
November 7, 2022
Status: --
It was entertaining the first time I read it although there has been a lot of dragging and unecessary events that just appears to remind you that there are villains in the story that needs face slapping. I absolutely not into that. I reread this for the second time after a year but I couldn't finish it and it is amazing for me right now that I finished reading this before. I was depressed that time and this probably was a good distraction just seeing everything doing well.

Everything is dragging,... more>> from the relationship to their businesses, to the face slapping. I mean MC got a space so of course he is going to be a Mary Sue. He thought of this one thing and sells it and everyone just clamoring to buy it. In the first place how the f did he know how to make a blueprint in the first place. Damn so many hidden skills that it didn't made it fun the second time. <<less
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Pezwitch
Pezwitch rated it
September 21, 2022
Status: c1
I liked the beginning of the story, when they were struggling, but then they turned Mary Sue and everything they did was perfect, they were wealthy, golden fingers and cheats showed up whenever there was a shadow of a conflict, and it became boring
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Yumeru
Yumeru rated it
April 1, 2022
Status: Completed
Should be 5 stars but sometimes there's too much nonsense/description so less 1 star

MC is not op of course some modern knowledge here and there. It was not love at first sight and you can see the couple how they slowly attracts to each other. Many world building and friendship along the way.

Fluff and dog food from our main leads. ML is husband material same with MC. They treat each other equally. The buns are also loveable +the pets.

Actually it's ok until the end? Like both couple are very calm... more>> and they can face any hardship together. Just about the ring, thoughh there's a lil bit intro hahaha anyways life is sometimes based on luck and coinsidences. Story is good for a slow burn/world building novel <<less
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