The Wife is First

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The wife is first, the country is second, and the husband is of lesser importance.

All of his life was spent riding a war horse and accomplishing meritorious military services. But what was the result? In the end, he was cast aside once he had served his purpose.

Out of selfishness, he had favored his consort and neglected his wife. Ultimately, the one who stood by his side was the wife that he had neglected for 10 years…

After being reborn, Jing Shao decided to repent and turn over a new leaf…

Standing outside the door while holding a pillow, Jing Shao gazed at the sky. He must first mend his relationship with his wife. Jing Shao formed a fist and knocked on the door, “Jun Qing, I know I was wrong, let me in!”

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Qi Wei Shang
Thê Vi Thượng
Wife Above All
You Own My All (Manhua)
หนึ่งคํามั่น นิรันดร์กาล
妻为上
妻為上
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Efu-sama
Efu-sama rated it
November 29, 2019
Status: c33
It's pretty good so far! Whether the plot or the romance between MC and ML are developing nicely. Being the reborn or reincarnation troupe, the story slowly uncovering the key events in MC (gong) past life, and how now in his new life he face with those matter more calmly, and with the help of his wangfei (ML) he can see all the problems more clearly, and finally solving them skillfully. The gong here is good at war, but not good at handling politic and all of the tricks... more>> and scheming behind. And that's why at the past life he was easily framed and getting schemed on. So now with him realizing the worth of his wangfei he relies on his smart shou for that matter, while protecting his wangfei's grace and honour, not letting other people disgrace him.

I like that kind of relationship, because it shows how their strength and weakness complemented each other.

Definitely worthy for being in my reading list! <<less
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Shiyu
Shiyu rated it
March 12, 2021
Status: c78
I have to say, I'm tortured for camping so hard. This novel is very good. For all of you out there that are once like me- searching for something to fill their boring days, but is very concern to find a good read. This one is perfect! I know chapter 79 has been posted but I need to delay my read or else I'll suffer again. I miss Wang Ye and Wang Fei so much. I tried to MTL this but I can't bear to misunderstand the supposed to be... more>> perfect scenes. I'll be waiting till this will be fully translated. (づ ̄ ³ ̄) づ

All in all, I can immediately put this to my top lists. Very fluffy, heartwarming, wholesome, and devoted characters. Sending all my love to the story, the characters, the author and the translator.......... ♡ ´・ᴗ・ `♡ ➳♥ ➳♥ ➳♥ <<less
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narinim
narinim rated it
March 12, 2021
Status: --
The start is very promising and you get disappointed in the middle. I waited so long for the story to become more interesting but finally I realized this won't get any better and after I looked at the reviews at this site, I finally dropped the novel. It was a complete waste of my time.

ML is smart he knows a lot of things and is good at political scheming but he isn't that smart in other fields and he is quite weak, MC is a prince and he is powerful... more>> but he isn't smart.

MC only thinks about pampering ML, and nothing else which makes the plot quite boring.

MC has some enemies and uses ML's intelligence to revenge his enemies, but the problem is the plot is not that good. The things his enemies do or MC's counterattacks are not very well written.

and also I didn't liked the part when ML goes to some meetings with male wives, it was one of the reasons I dropped the novel, I wanted the see a cooler and stronger ML not someone who mingles with gossipy people. I guess I like more manly characters. But the way MC and ML behave is not my cup of tea. <<less
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Chichi
Chichi rated it
November 4, 2020
Status: c69
This novel is fluff incarnate and doesn't go very deep.

The novel is missing something no matter what genre one looks at it from. If it's a drama, then it lacks any sort of suspense due to the timey-wimey stuff, and all curveballs are very quickly solved. If it's a comedy, it has too many non-comedic moments. If it's a romance, which would probably be the most fitting, then it skipped the romance to dive into the smut because of the whole arranged marriage deal. It's a wish-fulfillment story that's purely... more>> feel-good and involves a practically Mary Sue-power couple that can't lose - which isn't bad, it just has no draw aside from reading fluff. (I guess I should be grateful for the lack of dumb dogblood drama?) Star docked for 'lack of suspense about anything'.

In terms of writing quality, it's mediocre. Not bad, but not ~masterfully crafted~ or any such thing. It's not very descriptive, and the occasional smut is unrealistic at best and a joke at worst, Chinese censorship meddling aside. The plot is quick-paced, but skimps on details it probably shouldn't, making important things seem small and played down. Another star docked for not being amazingly written.

Despite complaints, I'm not going to stop reading it until it's done. It's engaging and cute enough to keep doing so, as well as easily digestible for when one's coming off a more emotionally draining book like 2ha. I do hope that subsequent plot threads in this novel and/or the ending help bump this novel up to a 4... but I'm not holding my breath. <<less
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mariri 199x_
mariri 199x_ rated it
December 30, 2018
Status: c5
Such a cute, doting gong!! And the shou is not a doormat :D I'm very excited to see how this story goes, but so far it's looking great!!
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Majin11
Majin11 rated it
June 18, 2023
Status: Completed
This novel is kinda special for me because it's only one of the few novels i've read that doesn't have a super OP MC and ML but just compliments each other so much..

I like how the MC was aware that he was more of a brute and doesn't think so much.
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there wasone scene where MC did some terrible things (noncon / being too harsh on the ML during sex) but he was quick to realize his mistakes. That's a big yes for me. There are also some views on wives' that might trigger other people due to the cultural setting but for me, that's understandable. It's a cultural setting, all settings have their own rainbows and shits so for me that's just how life is in that kind of setting.

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All in all, I really enjoyed this translation and thank you for Dandanmei and Chrysanthemum garden for translating this gem. Thank you so much. 💕
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ricoerrr
ricoerrr rated it
February 16, 2023
Status: c40
the translation is choppy and reads like mtl. Even after cg changed editors it did not mask the fact that the story is written very poorly. The plot is not engaging, the characters are not the brightest, and the story is as interesting as watching paint dry.

i was genuinely hoping that it was the translator's fault but lets be honest, no amount of editing and flowery writing can make a sh*t story good.

case in point:

... more>> >MC does anything

>ML gushes about how MC is soooo smart

>side characters all have low IQ

>their plans are easily foiled by mc

>ML gushes about how MC is soooo smart

rinse and repeat. For a bunch of high class nobility and royalty NONE of the characters actually behave how youd expect someone of their upbringing to behave. Its like they are got dropped on the head as babies and no one knows how to think critically except maybe MC. <<less
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Devrai
Devrai rated it
August 24, 2021
Status: c94
Though I'm still shy 10 chapters at the moment, I want to review it beforehand.

I just love it.

It is one of those novels where you feel the deep love and trust of MC and ML. Where you know that no dog blood drama is possible cause they just know each other so deep or will communicate. Wholesome and fleshed out characters.

Highly recommend.
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Hadhira
Hadhira rated it
May 25, 2021
Status: c1
By far, this has been the best novel I've ever read. It's still in the top of my list.

They're so cuteeee togetherrrrr, they trust and actually talk things out. Jing Shao waits till his wife is ready to have s*x and is just so caring. He never hurts or is rude to him as well.

Chapter 81 is cute 🤭
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starkaster
starkaster rated it
January 11, 2021
Status: c15
The start of the novel is deceptive.

Readers are introduced to a man betrayed and hunted, who miraculously travels backwards in time. But if readers are expecting a right-all-wrongs revenge story, or even a passing "gosh, I wonder how I traveled back in time?", they will be left wanting. This protagonist is completely disinterested in anything but pampering his husband.

The plot and setting are window-dressing. The story is hyper-focused on the day-to-day interactions of the romantic pairing. The conversations are largely ban*l and rarely lead anywhere interesting, plot-wise.

Does it get better... more>> later? I don't know. I got off after chapter 15. <<less
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Chinatsu
Chinatsu rated it
September 18, 2020
Status: --
I love this novel and I really like the author. I hope someone translates 'Jun Weixia' because for me it is the best novel by this author, many people will love it too!
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XxShining_HopexX
XxShining_HopexX rated it
August 2, 2020
Status: Completed
I love the MC and MLs relationship; the MC is very respectful of the MLs boundaries (especially after that disastrous first night) and tries to make the relationship as equal as possible (considering MC is royalty).
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Anyhc
Anyhc rated it
July 7, 2020
Status: c55
I am enjoying this novel immensely! The start off with how the event of rebirth happened was interesting in itself.

I wasn't sure if I had the patience for the palace intrigues and conspiracies, but surprisingly, I found myself interested in what was happening around or to the MC and ML. Plus the events do help in the progression of the two's relationship, which is lovely and sweet.

I also love that the MC and ML complements one another, creating a balance in their relationship --like two halves of a whole.

I'm really... more>> glad to have come across such a gem! <<less
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dyodaks
dyodaks rated it
May 2, 2020
Status: c51
An enjoyable read that is both interesting but still comfortable. This has a pretty progressive take on male wives in Ancient Chinese society in comparison to other BL novels. The gong is equal parts childlike, driven and sweet and the shou is reliable, determined and kind-hearted. The story is told from the gong’s point-of-view which is a rare find in this genre but I hope to see more of it. There are a couple of side characters but they don’t take away the focus from the main couple at all.... more>> The translation from CG is well done and for I can still follow along. Looking forward to finishing this novel and I highly recommend giving it a chance. <<less
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Justalittlechesspiece
Justalittlechesspiece rated it
November 7, 2019
Status: Completed
This was a great read! It was a lovely combination of comedy and romance, and I especially loved that both the MC and the ML are equally capable in their own right, but it is only when they're together that they become the definition of unbeatable.

Those that love dragged out melodramas probably wouldn't like this. The focus is on how the relationship between the two develops and how they deal with the situations that life throws their way. So it starts off slow and frustrating with the lack of communication,... more>> but the pace picks up pretty significantly soon so it all works out.

And well, not everything needs to have a conspiracy plot to drive the plot forward.
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although there is a secret conspiracy in this. Squint and you'll see it. I think the author dropped hints early in the beginning. But again, not a major major plot point. It's still good without it :P

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Bonus point to the MC that respects the ML's boundaries, and while he does gets handsy, he doesn't push the ML too far.

Just. The characters alone, from the MC and the ml, to the emperor and random family members and supporting characters that turn up, would be enough to guarantee an enjoyable read. Sure some plot points are predictable and cliche, but it's not meant to be a serious read. <<less
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Fanya
Fanya rated it
December 16, 2018
Status: c5 part2
So far enjoying it. The overall plot is similar to many others. Prince was betrayed, then realized his male wife that was neglected is the only royal one, goes back in time to correct his wrongs and chase his love. What I like about it is that the Prince is not all-powerful with everything in the palm of his hand, he's a good general but he knows he's a musclehead and needs the wife's brain/help. And secondly, he's not controlling/secretive/manipulative and is open with his wife, so there's not much... more>> dragged out misunderstanding or implicit understanding at one glance despite being strangers or something. It's rather refreshing so far and I look forward to seeing them working together to navigate the complicated/hidden political scene. :) <<less
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Klimintina
Klimintina
September 18, 2022
Status: c105
I was so reluctant to read this novel because I hate reading novels with consorts and stuff. I don't like harem. But still, mustered the courage to read this and was not disatisfied!

There's no harem! It's a one on one love story. MC (seme) was very doting. In the end though, he wasn't able to share about his rebirth and I could understand that. If I were in his shoes, I would also feel uncomfortable talking about it. It might also be a reason of disharmony between the husbands.

Anyway, the... more>> ML (shou) was also the brain in this novel. He was a literati so basically, he did like majority of the decisions when it concerns the MC. He was a decisive person, he's somewhat shy with the MC wants to do that DEED. But nevertheless, he loves the MC.

There's also a catch between the MC's brother Jing Chen and a certain King, it's funny 🤣

It's a H.E and no stress between the couple's relationship ❤️ <<less
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sparklingmote
sparklingmote rated it
August 12, 2022
Status: Completed
Super cute story. Plot has substance but doesn't drag on.

MTL has some problems. JS is very devoted and there isn't a r*pe scene in the second life.
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EUGEO SYNTHESIS
EUGEO SYNTHESIS rated it
April 11, 2022
Status: --
This story suprisingly good, personally I like the whole content of this story...

They are all delivered in a simple and unhurried way, besides that the plot is also consistent and doesn't spread anywhere (well this often happens in stories with reborn themes, where instead of solving the conflict that causes MC death, they are running around and looking for other/new problems)

So yeah this novel is great... ... more>>
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I mean yeah of course there are still a little plot hole, and the ending itself is still a little bit lacking (about ML Mother and how the poison things comes and work) but it is still within acceptable limits, so...

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Lea168
Lea168 rated it
November 24, 2021
Status: Completed
5/5*

Really enjoyed this story!

I thought this story is like those typical extreme tyrant pampering story (eg 'I didn't love you enough' and similar) but it wasn't:

... more>> 1. This story actually has decent plot and smart court politics.

2. Great side characters that are sufficiently fleshed out and made sense to have them. I particularly like the 2nd prince. His Extra side story was great too and gave me a pleasant surprise! Also, love the relationship the 2nd prince has with the gong.

3. The gong (forgot whether gong is ML or MC, I read this a while ago) is not the typical OP gong. He is only OP in terms of fighting. He is actually not super smart when it comes to scheming and court politics. He really needs his 2nd brother and his shou in this respect. And I loved this premise. It makes the gong more cute and likeable. I do get fed up typical omnipotent tyrant who always becomes the emperor. At least I will still remember this gong after a year.

4. The shou is smart, but modest. He eventually gets his dream fulfilled and becomes successful but it is not the typical OP road. It was a normal jouney. Only once or twice I thought the author made it too easy for the shou (too OP, when the shou investigated the army of the gong), but besides that the shou actually has worked hard to get there.

5. Very likeable couple! Shou has all the brains and the gong is all brawns. The gong listens to the shou's planning. They really make a super cute and successful couple. <<less
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