Transmigration of Mian [Reluctantly] Becomes His Man [Wife]

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Qin Mian opened his eyes and found himself lying in a leaky thatched room. The problem was that he was still in his family’s villa beforehand! What’s more, another man was lying next to his leg in the quilt!

“You, you, who are you?”

The man sat up quietly, his upper body exposed as looked at Qin Mian for a moment before he carried a worn-out bowl with a cracked corner from the low table at the head of the bed. The man said in a muffled voice, “Wife, drink water.”

Qin Mian’s eyes rolled backward and he passed out.

Title explanation: 勉为其男 [miǎn wéi qí nán] have the same sound as 勉为其难 [miǎn wéi qí nán] which means to do something reluctantly. 勉 [miǎn] is also part of MC’s name: Qin Mian. Also, 其[qí ] sounds the same as 妻 [qi] means wife. So, there are words plays. Basically, Qin Mian reluctantly becomes someone’s man [wife] after he transmigrated.

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TMRBHMW
Transmigrasi: Menjadi Orangnya
ข้ามเวลามาเป็นผู้ชายของเขา
穿越之勉为其男
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sketch13
sketch13 rated it
September 11, 2021
Status: c75
Beginning 3/4 was enjoyable if you're into a slice of life novel. However, the ending felt rushed and a little unsatisfactory - like the author wanted to finish quickly. Overall, an enjoyable read.
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vickypicky
vickypicky
September 7, 2021
Status: c222
Sooooo good! I rarely write reviews but I felt like this was worth it. I normally can't read such long novels, but this was just amazing and I kept coming back 💜
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I will say I wasn't a big fan of them coming to the modern world though...

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MissJo47
MissJo47
August 28, 2021
Status: c222
This one is good fun to read if u like cooking and farming like me.. Qin Mian and Lei Tie is just loving couple.. Qin Mian is full of ideas and Lei Tie is strong.. I love how the story started of them being too poor to being very rich.. Add a twins son and 3 pets its perfect. A must read!
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Tazberry
Tazberry rated it
August 25, 2021
Status: Completed
I love MC and ML but after a while the story felt half-a**ed and it felt like the author was just adding on whatever cliches they could think of. The farm life suited them best, I could read over 200 chapters of just MC and ML being a lovey dovey farm life couple without the unnecessary drama and horde of side characters that disappear often, heck, even their kids are often tossed aside later on because ~romance and drama~. By the end I almost forgot that MC was a chef... more>> and not a doctor. The story really went off the rails.

If I ever want to read this story again I’ll know to stop before it gets to the later parts. Qin Mian getting into business scene was alright but I love the beginning the best. <<less
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lavasomochi
lavasomochi rated it
August 3, 2021
Status: c222
I loved this so much! I really like anything with kids and farming. So it had everything I love and then some! I especially love the strong relationship of the MC and ML and their characters. The kids are so dang precious too! The family is so smart, strong, loving, and humble. Lol they’re goals tbh. Overall, this was an enjoyable read and really funny at times. I’m so sad it’s over. I want more!
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Kisaki_Tsubasa
Kisaki_Tsubasa rated it
June 14, 2021
Status: Completed
I enjoyed this story for the most part. I really liked how ML's family wasn't all bad, unlike a lot of other stories, when a main character is an unwanted child, they make the whole family awful, but in this story, the family had good and bad people, which was a pleasant surprise.

The interaction between the good characters was really nice and enjoyable as well.

I didn't mind the story seemingly going through a lot of different genres, because I enjoy longer stories with more details and events.

The thing I didn't... more>> like about this story is that they are too much of a pacifist. Honestly, I don't like characters who are too vengeful, but I don't like characters who are too soft either. I understand them not being able to do anything to the parents directly because in that society, filial piety is sacred, but what's up with tolerating those parents so much? They were distancing themselves from the family, but honestly, it wasn't enough. Because if they were more firm, I doubt the parents would've been audacious enough to keep demanding. And the couple still ended up giving them a lot. That really felt hard to digest.

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In the end, the parents and the family of the second brother do get their awful ending, but that's only because of external forces. And they happened so suddenly and so quickly we don't even get any satisfaction out of it. The only one who actually got punished as a direct result from his actions was the second brother. All the other ones just dropped dead or got shocked into mental ret*rdation from random incidents. So they didn't get taught a lesson, they just happened to randomly drop dead.

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Another thing that didn't align with my preferences was how Qin Mian kept feeding his spiritual spring water to pretty much everybody out of convenience. I would've rather he kept it to himself, his family, their animals and their close servants. But the author just made Qin Mian feed that to everybody whenever it was more convenient to do so, but then changed facts saying that people with their capabilities shouldn't use their abilities to interfere with the affairs of the world. WTF. I really hate it when authors change things however they want for the sake convenience or for the sake of how they want the story to go.

Another reason why I say that Qin Mian is too soft is because towards the end of the story:

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Qin Mian decided to cure his half brother's infertility. His half brother was the one who pushed him down the stairs and killed him. He might've done that for his father, so the Qin family had someone to inherit the family's business. But honestly, Qin Mian doesn't owe that family crap. His father only found out about his existence at 15 and even though his father treated him well ever since, Qin Mian never needed the help of his father growing up and never touched the Qin family's money. Plus, I really don't get the point of why Qin Mian decided to tell his father the truth. That actually pissed me off.

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So yeah, the story was quite interesting, with lots and lots of dog food, but also with quite a few things here and there that would make readers a bit upset. Especially that ending was really not that great. But oh well... <<less
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MeineMeow
MeineMeow
June 10, 2021
Status: Completed
This is not a solid 5 star story, but I enjoy the slow pace so much. The couple start from marriage, arrange marriage. But they slowly cultivate their feeling toward each other, and its so sweet of them.

Even though MC want to be rich and have his own golden finger, but it didn’t mean he use his money to live wantonly. He help people who help him back, he could be cold to people who despise him, but he’s not that bad to punish them severely.

MC is lovely boy smart... more>> and wicked, ML is cold man but smart and strong. I especially like early book when describing their hard life of hunting and farming while slowly build their nest. Until the end, they choose to live in low key manner, that’s what I like from the book.

If you like warm story with minimal drama and enough sweet romance, this is the right one for you. <<less
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The_yiling_patriach
The_yiling_patriach rated it
June 6, 2021
Status: Completed
Sweeeet and heart warming story I love this novel so much there are no angst parts and it feels like u have become one of the part in their life journey and love between MC and ML is on another level and those twinsss uwwuuuuuuuu now iam kinda feeling lil bit sad n I wish there are more chapters in the modern era. Overall everything is good worth it❤️
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izayaYY
izayaYY rated it
June 4, 2021
Status: Completed
I loved this novel. It is mainly slice-of-life type story, a character-driven story, without major plot or melodrama. The story follows MC as he starts his business in the ancient era and sorts out his life (past and present). The first hundred chapters is all about business management, how MC and ML literally build their house and business from scratch, how MC and ML interacts and fall in love and how they slowly settled in the village and bring prosperity to that village. I enjoyed their daily interactions very much.... more>> Author gives us a lot of fluff and heartfelt moments with this couple, their children and their pets. As the story progresses, the couple gets more OP as they get a better understanding of their powers and slowly solve the mysteries of their past and their origins. The world-building, the setting, the cultivation, the business model, the palace drama, the family drama, the modern arc are all well integrated in the story, coherent, with very little plotholes.

A reader complained about the mix of genres being too much, and that this suddenly turned into a cultivation book. No. The cultivation elements has been present right from the very beginning but only a little bit. The focus of the first half was on the business management and farming. The second half of the novel has more cultivation elements. But again I would not call the second half a wuxia/xanxia as they barely talk about the details of pill refining or martial arts levels or daoism or cultivation heroes etc... <<less
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Cham
Cham rated it
June 2, 2021
Status: Completed
I felt a tinge of sadness when I was done, however it was nice that it ended there. It wouldn’t be good if it dragged on for longer. Nice read, round characters and not too much plot holes.
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Jammyyyyxx
Jammyyyyxx rated it
May 31, 2021
Status: Completed
Love it, love it, love it!!!!

I love the relationship between Mian and Tie, as well as their 2 boysss gaddhhh familial love💖

Binge read it for 4 days, totally worth it! Although there was challenges happening around them I love how their relationship stay strong all the way and so glad that there was 3rd parties involve, and misunderstanding betweem the couple that will lead to endless dramas. Thank god, this is the kind of novel I like to read, I don't really like to read dog-blooded angsty novel. Like, we... more>> read to be happy not to let ourselves suffer. Lol tho that's just personal opinion.

Anyways recommended!!!

5/5 stars! <<less
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beans8leaf
beans8leaf rated it
May 30, 2021
Status: c222
Its not bad. It is very slice of life and the development of the romance is organic enough. But it is boring as it goes on, the plot gets very convoluted for no reason and the royal arc just sucks. Its not bad and it was a relaxing read but after chapter 80 its drags.
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loussi
loussi rated it
May 25, 2021
Status: Completed
I love this story, in the slice of life genre it is one of my favorites

There is shameless relatives, slowly making money with cooking/ farming and making modern instruments. There are kids without mpreg or gers or abo setting/ There is conflict but not a lot just enough to make it interesting.

So if you don't like slow types of stories where no action happens this novel is not for you.
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Chipmunkch33k5
Chipmunkch33k5 rated it
April 7, 2021
Status: c204
Yes, I love the main CP, the clap backs, food, farming, growth of their relationship, etc BUT I AM ABSOLUTELY IN LOVE WITH THEIR PETS♪ (^ω^) They're so adorable and fierce and more (^∇^) ノ♪ Now if I don't find out in the future novels that any of the CPs don't have pets, especially like the ones from this novel, Imma flip!

(ノ ̄皿 ̄) ノ ⌒== ┫

Well no, not really, lol but I will be sad😅
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Goodreadsonly
Goodreadsonly
March 15, 2021
Status: c194
I read this so fast. I love how it doesn't just end as farming and fall in love = babies. There's a lot of court intrigue in the later chapters but MC and ML in the end still want a calm life.

Some parts are quickly covered and never mentioned again, like MC's space. But the story doesn't drag and moves fairly quickly.
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Piggychan
Piggychan
January 10, 2021
Status: Completed
To me the ending seemed too rushed, in some parts it’s almost as if I was reading a summary. Actually the ending of most of the villains seemed like a summary too.

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Especially the modern arc. I don’t know the purpose of it tbh, there’s not even one good faceslapping. Like, MC cured his half brother who caused his death??

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Erudite.Cielo
Erudite.Cielo rated it
January 9, 2021
Status: Completed
I love this story! I love the MC and ML and the twins. o (〃^▽^〃) o there are also twists and turns that makes the story interesting.

Their family transferred to MC's orig world and I'm glad that they were able to be together. (⌒▽⌒)and... went back to the time and space where MC transmigrated.

P.s. the twins are sooo kawaii. (●♡∀♡)

The only negative part for me of the story is that MC and ML are already OP, and then they became 'super' OP...
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Tetra
Tetra rated it
December 5, 2020
Status: c129
I am not good at giving reviews but this one is absolutely one of the best. The romance, the fluff, the doting plus the slice of life so far is definitely what I was looking for.
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Fullname
Fullname rated it
November 11, 2020
Status: c107
The comment below from Kaylee should have been under Spoiler tag... now that I know the ending before reading I am a bit disappointed. (Update: thanks for putting spoiler tag)

however, up until chapter 107, I absolutely love this novel. MC and ML complement and trust each other. I have reread this novel from start whenever I want some fluff
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