To Be A Virtuous Wife

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As a virtuous wife, does it include tolerating his cousin, enduring his concubines, bearing his mother?

If you will not let me live freely, why would I let you live in satisfaction?

Did fate let women time-travel so they could learn the three morals and four virtues?

Rather than act like a coward and live, it would be better to live in satisfaction and die.

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He Wei Xian Qi
Thế nào là hiền thê
ชายาผู้มีคุณธรรม
何为贤妻
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mysticjade01
mysticjade01
November 26, 2020
Status: Completed
This novel is amazing! I love how this is a real historical fiction instead of ancient China being used as a background for the story. This involves many historical elements and conduct. The MC is smart and seductive she was able to adapt right away. She didn’t try to revolutionize things but went along with the time period. The make lead is rational and scheming. I love how there love slowly developed from just lust! There character development as well and the story is bittersweet as well.
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Amsir
Amsir rated it
November 20, 2020
Status: Completed
This story is one of my favorite novel. I have read it again and again.

It well written and translated novel. I give thumbs up to the translator for translating it and giving us a good novel to read.
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sansukini0923
sansukini0923 rated it
October 20, 2020
Status: Completed
Such a treasure. I have seen this novel years ago when I read A SLIGHT SMILE IS DEVASTATING, but the summary was so uninteresting and I was not into transmigration. It's only now that I found out what a treasure this is. Finishing this novel gives me such a good fluffy feels. Definitely reading this one more time.

To those who wants to read this, please don't be discouraged by all the footnotes by the translator. She has used a lot of the chinese titles during the first chapters so it... more>> can be a little daunting but after that, it's such a fun and educational read. Also, I appreciate the author's POV that fighting for the throne doesn't need violence. <<less
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Emylin
Emylin rated it
October 1, 2020
Status: c123
This was plain and nice story.

Some people may think it's boring, but I liked it. The FL wasn't a genius or had some cheat, she was just a common modern woman.

She found herself in the body of an ancient woman and decided to live her life to the fullest, because she was always ready to end up dead.

... more>> The man she met there was also nothing special, he was smarter than the average ancient people and also quite black bellied.

The lives their life enjoying the goods and avoiding the bad. Specially their relationship was quite good.

Spoiler

What I love the most about this story is the women. They all have different personalities, some really annoying, but nobody is truly evil or mean, they all have desires and wishes, and they live to fulfill them, and if they need to harm someone, they will including the FL.

And my favorite part is how He Heng got the throne. It wasn't schemes or plotting, nor was he who got the throne, but his mother who won it for him. It really depicted well the power women had or could have. And why concubines and position in harem mattered.

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At the end the story was realistic. There was nothing crazy, it was just like that, and sometimes reality is just like that, it just happens with nothing really crazy. <<less
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WMROger
WMROger rated it
September 1, 2020
Status: Completed
So this is my first time writing reviews and all I can say is this is a good read. For me this FL has good control over her self, she thinks before acting and what I wanna say is this is pure love.

What I just hate is the translators using chinese words which is hard to understand luckily I understand some of it through the sentences but it is actually hard if you can't understand the words and the sentences gets destroyed. So if you're here for a good and... more>> relaxing read go and start now. <<less
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Roxasfleur
Roxasfleur rated it
August 14, 2020
Status: Completed
It's funny that this is the first chinese romance novel I've read but I've never reviewed before this.

Looking back, I've read chinese novel for maybe 5 years or more. Can't believe how many I've read.

Anyway, imo this story is still one of the best. The palace conspiracies and intrigue is the best. Every sentence made me felt kind of s*upid to not understand the underlying meaning.

I think that MC luck is really unbelievable and I love ML. He is ambitious while not unscrupulous. I think their ending was the best.... more>> They learn to trust and in turn, love each other. A truly fantasy like story. Definitely the best! <<less
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GrandmaPeach
GrandmaPeach rated it
July 30, 2020
Status: Completed
I was pretty wary of this novel because of the mixed rating it had on the reviews (I'm the type to read reviews before diving in.), but to my surprise I actually enjoyed it. The novel itself I think isn't supposed to be taken seriously because everything in the plot was just a background for the love story. There were schemes and politics but it was just there to make our protagonist shine and was pretty shallow most of the times. A pretty fluffy read in my opinion with little... more>> to no drama.

FL was pretty realistic in her mindset as she was someone who prioritized herself rather than thinking of running away or scheming everyone. Gurl took the best route in this kind of situation which was being good to her husband. ML on the other hand is a loyal and devoted guy from start to end. What I liked about him was that he gradually fell for FL and not immediately, since at first he just wanted to create a good relationship as husband and wife but ended up diving in too deep (Like me in every novel).

The translation was very good, but damn there were so many untranslated words on the first few chapters that it made me totally confused what was what even though the meaning was at the bottom of the chapter (Too lazy to look). It took some time for me get used to it but I did eventually, so that's good I guess? I did finish it after all... <<less
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bluespeir
bluespeir rated it
June 30, 2020
Status: Completed
I'd say 4.5 with the beautiful world building and characters. I actually have not much to say since its already good overall~
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Felled_and_Fallen
Felled_and_Fallen rated it
June 22, 2020
Status: Completed
I completed this story a while ago and constantly go back. It was my first Chinese web novel and I've been hooked on them ever since.

Of all the stories with a modern female lead transmigrating to ancient times, TBAVW is the ideal, with a protagonist able to make the best of her circumstances without losing herself. What I love the most about the story is the pacing. Nothing feels superfluous or excessive. No drawn out misunderstandings for the sake of extending the plot. Every loose end is addressed and every... more>> character's motivations or behaviors are explored to their logical end. The content of the story was also brilliant. It's rare for a story's ideas to strike a chord with me, but every once in a while a line from the protagonist would make me pause.

Other stories of this genre either focus on the revenge, the romance, or the politics. With TBAVW it felt like the protagonist was in the midst of everything, taking things as they come, but just trying to live her life the best way she knew how. It's really refreshing. She never feels passive either and I attribute that again to the author's ability to pace things and plot things well. <<less
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tedy2004
tedy2004 rated it
June 4, 2020
Status: c36
I left it at 36 chapters I think, I and read the end spoiler... xD, because it was too slow and boring not biggie reasons but, I guess I wanted more action and decided to drop it and read it later. My opinion is that this novel is 4/5 for my liking.

I recommend reading this when you want to spend time (at school for myself).

And don't worry it skips the private scenes, thats what I saw till c36, I don't know if they will go into detail in the... more>> future chapters about their intimate privacy.. I hope not. Still what I mean in the chapters that I read it says that they will do intimate scenes but will go to next day, or at other place in the story's plots. <<less
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imhyeok
imhyeok
May 23, 2020
Status: c123
I fell in love with the way the FL lead her life. She didnt want anything. She just wanted to 'live' as this new character in the story. All the incidents that happened were dealt with realisticly, so much that you would think this novel was actually an autobiography of someone. The balance throughout the whole novel is refreshing and those twists and turns are very successful in keeping the reader engaged. The novel is straightforward, laced with humor and subtle philosophy.

I appreciate how the author depicted the characters as... more>> real people who lived. Oftentimes you see chinese novels describing characters either as too OP or too dumb to the point where you wonder "how tf did this person survive up until now?". All in all, the novel was truly 123 chapters of worth it. No useless fillers or side characters. In the end everything was tied up perfectly. Genuinely come back to reread this alot too. <<less
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Chisaki
Chisaki rated it
March 30, 2020
Status: Completed
I highly encourage to give this novel a try. This is more realistic than other stories, so no super powers or anything. They're all humans, and they could change for the better or for the worse. I love that the character development doesn't just happen between Qu Qing Ju and He Heng, but also the side characters. Plus, the ending was very satisfying <3
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mitchyangel
mitchyangel rated it
February 18, 2020
Status: c123
Wow I've got to say I was pretty impressed reading this. I've never done a review before but I really felt the need to do so. If you're hesitating about reading this please don't. This story was great. I always try to stick to stories with good writing that aren't so unrealistic so I was going to stay away from this but once I started reading I couldn't stop. Most transmigration stories I read with badass female MCs were usually soldiers, assassins, doctors, or some peerless genius in a past... more>> life, and don't get me wrong I get my kicks out of reading those every now and again, but I appreciated this story. The MC doesn't try to be who she isn't. She doesn't get all red-faced and blush or run away from her feelings. She's practical, she knows what she's capable of and doesn't step outside her boundaries to do some amazing feet. She doesn't want to be peerless she just wants to laze around, enjoy life and do whatever she wants. She quickly accepts her situation and doesn't bit*h about already being married and how life is so unfair which is what hooked me in. I hate when the MC is all unrealistic or drags on the relationship until almost the end of the story or can't admit her feelings. This MC knew life was fickle in the times she transmigrated into and she just wanted to live good. If he ML liked her and treated her fine then she would roll with it. She didn't think up elaborate schemes to make him fall in love with her. Honestly, she was just herself the whole time and that's why he liked her so much. Man, I can't even find more words. I really enjoyed this though. <<less
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Pouch
Pouch rated it
February 16, 2020
Status: Completed
·Great protagonist and ML

I've always loved characters that are level-headed and reasonable. The FL is a character that thinks before she acts and is also self-aware. She knows her strengths and limitations and is not a character that is driven by emotions. Qu Qing Ju is one of the few FL leads in romance novels that I actually love. As for the ML, honestly, the bar is so low for MLs for me that as long as they're not total a**holes towards their FLs, then that's good enough but He... more>> Heng is actually a well-written character. He's cunning and can be quite hyprocritical at times but he has always been respectful of QQJ and has never forced himself on her. He admires her intelligence and capabilities and is not a raging misogynist (the bar is six feet under lol).

·Well-written romance

I love that the romance wasn't instant and that there was never a grand declaration of love in this novel. The love the two main characters had for each was shown and not spoken so to speak, especially He Heng's. QQJ's belief that actions speak louder than words with regards to love is actually quite reasonable, especially considering the era that she transmigrated to. It's understandable why she took a long time to believe in HH. I also love that there wasn't any s*upid misunderstandings between them. A lot of the times, romance writers use that to create unnecessary drama and angst. It can be quite annoying.

·Writing style is good. Generic plot. Translator did a great job.

I love the way this novel was written. It has a very calm and slice of life kind of feel. The plot is kind of generic but the author was able make it up for it with a good supporting cast. There was suprisingly not a lot of s*upid one-dimensional characters in this novel. A good feat considering the genre. I was able to understand the " villains' " motivations and actions.

·The last few chapters dragged the story a bit but it's not a big deal, still a good 4.5 for me. <<less
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shuuenka
shuuenka
January 6, 2020
Status: Completed
Simply one of the best novels of this type.

Main chacacter time-travelled to ancient times to become wife to a prince. I found this novel very refreshing; main character tried her best in circumstances she was given, without going over the top - she didn't became OP doctor, CEO, didn't start her business, didn't get deux ex machina magical or martial arts skills. She is proactive, but fist and foremost thinks of herself as she knows what does it mean to live in times when a man can have multiple woman... more>> and feelings are fleeting. She isn't trembling willow, innocent and too kind.

I also apptriciate only 123 chapters, the plot doesn't stretch with boring fillers. Political side of the story is in balance to the romece. Side characters who are relevant to the plot have their depth enough for us to see their motivation.

Male Lead, behold!, has some characteristics other than calm and collected. I found their love story interesting, so if people prefer romance that doesn't resolves around much drama and anguish and love triangles and what not, but one that also involves MC on more than "she was a beauty therefore he loves her'' level, I think you'll find this novel up to your tastes.

10/10 recommended. <<less
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nevelvir
nevelvir rated it
September 25, 2019
Status: Completed
Honestly, I was reading with zero expectation. But, in the end, this is such a beautiful story.

The story is about the life of FL after her transmigration. It's more of slice of life kind of story; with little bit of palace politics. Just a tiny bit.

What I love about this story is, the FL is not an OP woman who schemed a grand revenge on her family or enemies. She is just an ordinary woman who knows her position and what she's good at. Managing people and how to grasp... more>> the heart of others. She knows where to step, what to talk, how to make others happy, but also never takes sh*t from others. She tried to live to the fullest. As long as the ML still favor her, she will do everything she could to live an enjoyable life; and never bother with others that didn't come to provoke her.

Anw, I can't say too much or it will spoil more. This is a treasure; glad to find this story in some reading list. Thank you for the translator's hardwork! It's not perfect, but still wonderful. <<less
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mielru
mielru rated it
August 20, 2019
Status: Completed
I am not really interested in story like this but a lot of readers gives great reviews. So I tried to read this up. Overall, the story is flowing nicely. Towards the end, the story is getting interesting. Conclusion: great story, but definitely not in my re-reading list.
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potating
potating rated it
July 18, 2019
Status: --
This remains to this day one of my favourite novels to go back to while I’m waiting for the novels I’m following to get updated.

A modern woman who knows exactly what she wants and how to play her cards right gets thrown back in time to be the wife of an equally smart and capable prince of an older Chinese dynasty.

The growing relationship between Qing Ju and He Heng is satisfying to watch and the novel describes a beautiful romance that isn’t overly idealistic.
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ike_00000
ike_00000
July 15, 2019
Status: Completed
Ok, even I as a slice of life enthusiast got bored at one point. But damn, I'm too much of a romantic, Rui Wang's love story at the end just blew me over to put this at 5 stars.

Characters: 5/5

The character development in this story is great. Honestly speaking, a lot of key points were "overnight realization" but it was still very potent and had a thorough buildup. I love the languid yet insightful personality of the MC; she knows her place and makes the best of what she got.... more>> She's the perfect mix of strong and powerful just merciful and magnanimous!! Most Chinese stories have a weak female or too aggressive female, so this was a delight. Although she loves appearances and eating well, her happiness doesn't come from any of that. Being Empress is something that all the women looked up to, but for her, happiness would have been the same even if she were just a peasant if it meant she had the fidelity of her husband. My main criticism is that there's no real reason she had to be a time traveller; I like that there's not the typical "introduce new things and become glorified", but this way it feels unnecessary other than just being a golden finger.

The other characters are also all very established. They all have nuances in their personality, as expected of a story of Imperials. Tbh a lot of the conversations were tedious because you had to dig 2 meters into every sentence to find its meaning. I have no real thoughts about ML, he's decent I guess. I wonder if MC knew, even before her love was actually true, other people (Cheng Wang) modeled their ideal after hers haha.

Spoiler

And oh man, Rui Wang. I wish there was more of an insight into his affections earlier on as well, instead of just at the last few chapters. There was a little foreshadowing, but too slight. He's the perfect example of what ML was saying about "emperors just looking for their ONE"; in his own way, he was loyal to MC to the end. Except he couldn't get her herself, so he was loyal to the "replacement" her.

Of course, there's the question of whether he actually liked her or just the idea of her; the idea of that glorious person he almost could have had, had he not been too greedy. And he knows that greediness is what drove him to the end since he woke up too late. Perhaps she represents all he could have had, all he once felt entitled to. Although his "fell in love" moment was early, if he actually liked her then he would have favoured Qu Yue Su more. It feels more like he wrapped up all his discontentment into his idea of "her" after he lost the throne and matured, and idolized it until it became more obsession than love.

His ending is honestly perfect for him. Yes he grew up and matured, but he can't escape the mistakes of his past. His life and ending, peaceful yet bittersweet with the dull ache of nostalgia, is perfect for him. Really shows that he grew up since he kept all that in his heart until his death, except for that one quiet profession of love in the form of that winter snow and red plums painting.

Dang I felt so bad for him when archaeologists thought his painting wasn't actually for her, but thank goodness they realized it haha. I wish she had hung up the painting of white snow and plum blossoms though.. I went back to CH26 to read about that encounter and DAMN my heart hurt for him. He probably didn't even realize he fell in love. I'd love to read a side story about if he went back in time and had her or something along that line.

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Plot: 5/5

It's okay. Heavy focus on the household and the women's affairs, which are the social customs required of the culture at the time. It's a very artful criticism of the time, fully exploring the circumstances before giving the author's stance. I personally got bored a bit, but the story is definitely true to itself so those that enjoy this genre would enjoy this novel.

Writing / Translation: 5/5

No complaints. <<less
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ShampooBear19
ShampooBear19 rated it
July 12, 2019
Status: Completed
This was the first book that I read from this author. There is no major conflict in this novel so if that's what you're looking for, you will be hugely disappointed.

I read this last year and I have re-read this book 4-5 times ever since. The novel is very slow paced but you will not be able to put it down once you start.

Female is very realistic and someone who can see the big picture clearly then act accordingly. This is something that I admire a lot, though there is... more>> not much face slapping, things works in a pretty satifying direction.

Male lead is someone who has wild ambition and smart enough with his plans to reach his goal. Even though he was not type I like at the beginning of novel. He becomes more likeable through the novel.

My favourite character is the male lead's mother. She's cute in her own way and one of the very understanding type of mother in law character.

I would highly recommend trying out this novel. There might be a lot of word definitions on the beginning for those who are reading the translations but things get better once you get the gist of those jargons. <<less
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