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Links are NOT allowed. Format your description nicely so people can easily read them. Please use proper spacing and paragraphs.They had been together since high school. Together, they faced the cold faces of their parents and the satirical or disdainful eyes of others, started a business and experienced all kinds of ups and downs. When their company was on the right track, He Zhishu was asked to give up his career to stay at home, while Jiang Wenxu gradually changed and began to indulge in merry-making. However, Zhishu chose to forgive him. Zhishu got an incurable disease, while Jiang Wenxu was still indifferent. Zhishu still chose to forgive him. Love had become a kind of habit, which was equal to an incurable disease.
In a peaceful sunny day, Zhishu quietly left Jiang Wenxu and the house in which they had lived for a long time without an advance notice.
Soon he was gone. A man with pure spirit and deep love for Jiang Wenxu disappeared from this world forever…
Sometimes love cannot stand the test of time. Someone will not know how to cherish the love until he loses it…
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One entry per lineThe Ten Years That I Loved You The Most
The Ten Years When I Loved You So
最爱你的那十年
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sadly, He Zishu still died. However! He kind of find someone who really love and treasure him (not Jiang Wenxu) and the happiest thing for me is Jiang Wenxu repent, but got no second chance!!! ((I dont think he deserve it!!!!))
i don't understand how someone willingly stays with a person after they've cheated more than once and been such a selfish, self indulgent *sshole for so long. I don't like the MC nor do I understand the ML, and this isn't a story where the ML grows a backbone or the MC changes for the better. I don't feel sorry for the ML so much as angry that he wasted so much of his life on a slag. I don't understand that kind of love.
[I really want to kill Jiang Wenxu. He betrayed He Zishu in most painful way. Zishu sacrificed everything for him and left with nothing, not even enough money for his coffin. At least, there is Dr Ai to accompany him during his most painful time, Wenxu doesn’t deseve that memory. Let him regret for the rest of his life. Thre is also fanmade video at bilibili, that’s how I found this novel
AH FU*K..... I'VE BEEN BAWLING MY EYES OUT... 1st chapter in and I feel the heartache.. I've been tearing up the while time and... I dunno about your reading pace but I found myself in pain and tears flooding every 5 mins.... I thought my tears would've dried up as I approached the last chapter from all the crying, but there I was, in an even more unbearable grief.... I read this after a light and funny read so the sadness I felt was heightened... ... more>>You must think that I'm a fool
You must think that I'm new to this
But I have seen this all before (This verse is when WJ thought that ZH don't know about his affair) I'm never gonna let you close to me
Even though you mean the most to me Cause every time I open up, it hurts (When WJ ignored ZH even when ZH looks sick) So I'm never gonna get too close to you
Even when I mean the most to you
In case you go and leave me in the dirt (ZH didn't tell WJ about his illness and ZH didn't tell WJ that he knew about his affair cuz he is scared that WJ will leave him) But every time you hurt me, the less that I cry
And every time you leave me, the quicker these tears dry
And every time you walk out, the less I love you (After ZH become used to get hurt the less he cried, every time WJ leave him, the more he didnt cry, and after WJ walk out after they're arguing or WJ find his lovers the less ZH love him) Baby, we don't stand a chance, it's sad but it's true I'm way too good at goodbyes
(cuz you're dying??) I know you're thinking I'm heartless
I know you're thinking I'm cold
I'm just protecting my innocence
I'm just protecting my soul (I think maybe this is when ZH didn't give WJ anymore chance to fix their relationship)
- My Thoughts on the Characters: 1. Jiang Wenxu : I want to talk about him first, because I felt like if this was from his point of view, it would be tittle with “A Cautionary Tale”. A lot of people despised him. And I couldn’t fully do that. Don’t get me wrong, his actions are irredeemable and I do not forgive them. He has done unimaginable stuff that hurts He Zhishu so much, so very much. There were monologues with his train of thoughts. I was really greatly full that the author put that. Because to me it shows, just how flawed of a human he is. Like all of us are. He makes excuses, denies, and is many more. And for some time, I thought don’t we all do that? I feel like the author purposefully put his thoughts because, sometimes we are like that and in hopes we don’t make the same mistakes. But of course, he had mistakes far to deep. And had hurt the person that had loved him the most. In the end, the consequences were his own to bear and he deserved whatever comes after.
- He Zhishu: Quite a lot of people also were confused on why he didn’t just leave him right there and then. And although I haven’t been through that type of relationship, I know that it’s not an easy thing to leave someone so impactful, so carved into your heart. So I didn’t really blame him on that. He had made his choices and that is that. There is no what if’s in life after all. I’m glad that he got to make amends with some of his past wounds although there are still some leftover scars. I’m also glad, that at least until his last breath, he had something that loved him. I hope he can travel through those flowing water.
- Ai Ziyu: To be very honest, I didn’t quite like him in the beginning. It’s rather up to personal choice I think, I didn’t really like rather fast love. But, I’ve grown to respect him and I feel really thankful that he loved He Zhishu. He cared for Zhishu at his lowest and until his dying breath. He’s rather pitiful, his love came fast and ended fast. He was also a doctor, a doctor that specifies in Zhishu’s illness. It mush be a hard impact on him. A cared one’s death is already hard enough. I dare not think of what happens to him next. I feel like both pathways I thought of was rather off putting. I just hope he’s doing alright too.
2. My Final Thoughts and Translation- All in all, I recommend you to read The Decade of Deep Love. And I hope you can read it with an open heart and consciousness. I hope you don’t blame anyone, because it all ends up because we are simply human. Un-perfect, flawed, little humans. All we can do to make it less ever hurtful to us and those around is to be kinder. After all, we don’t know when those around us leaves. I think, even though a little bit, it’ll lessen the regret of the aftermath. As an extra chapter that I particularly like quote “You cannot go back in time. Be nice to people around you. Don't regret until you lose them. This is what I've learned from this story, this is what I'd like to share.”. That was from “Chapter 84: Assistant Song”. I liked it because it rather resonates for the reader, that, are like Assistant Song, an outsider. And ultimately, that is what we both found in this story isn’t it?
- Translation: It wasn’t bad. It was readable and I could finish the book with almost mo confused questions on the meaning. Though there are few words that are missing or wrong or even still has the feel of automatic translate. But I still enjoyed it very much, considering it’s free.
And with so, that is all I can say. If you read the book, congratulations. How do you feel? Yeah, me too probably. And if you... more>>