To Be A Virtuous Wife


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As a virtuous wife, does it include tolerating his cousin, enduring his concubines, bearing his mother?

If you will not let me live freely, why would I let you live in satisfaction?

Did fate let women time-travel so she could learn the three morals and four virtues?

Rather than act like a coward and live, it would be better to live in satisfaction and die.

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The Lazy Slug
New The Lazy Slug rated it
April 30, 2017
Status: Completed
I agree with the praises sung for this novel. All doubts I had upon reading the summary is anything but! I'm glad I read it in the end.

One thing I really love about this is the temperament of the characters. First, the female MC's views is simple, but logical and realistic given her situation. She knew the big discrepancy of views and roles between men and women in the era she transmigrated, and because of that, became quite understanding and sympathetic with her sex -- why some of them turned... more>> to vicious schemings and the like. So to them, she bore no ill-will. She did not chase after / drive away / scheme against those other women who came before her to the ML's fu. In fact, she was considerate of them and sensitive to their needs, giving them the excess things she had, looking after their clothes and food during winter, etc. To those women who had themselves ruined, they brought upon that cruel fate to themselves.

As said, her principle and aims are simple: she would live her life to the fullest, spoiling herself silly with her privileges and taking advantage of her husband, until the latter would become tired of her. She wasn't afraid of death, so she's going to live her life as if it was the last.

Now, before any of you would jump to the wrong conclusion, when I said spoiled, I did not mean the haughty, unbearable kind of spoilt. In truth, the female MC is docile, but once wronged, she would not hesitate to use her power to punish and correct the wrong. Moreover, when I said take advantage of her husband, well, she's an intelligent woman to begin with. Considering with how men view women in this ancient setting -- treating them as bed warmer, saying things of love but not hesitating to sleep with another -- FL believed her husband would do the same someday. She wasn't very optimistic. So while her husband showed her favour, she won't push him away.

In a way, this kind of view reminded me of FL from Eight Treasures Trousseau, that other gem of a novel. XDD

Going back, well, of course, it takes two to do the tango. Even with FL being so pessimistic in her thoughts and loving outward, ML isn't stupid. In many occasions, especially near end, he expressed how he felt FL doesn't really have him in her heart despite them being together everyday. But then, rather than despising her, he took it upon himself to work extra hard just to show FL how sincere he was with his love, and remembered in his heart what FL said "action speaks louder than words". Yeah, he might've been similar to those normal ancient guys with how they treat women at first (if some of his monologues in the first chapters was any indication) but! He still has my good favours seeing how different he is throughout the story, wanting to set up a good example of a virtuous man and a loving husband.

He didn't really appear overbearing or the stand-offish kind to me. Granted he isn't completely innocent either, but with schemes of his own with regards to the ascension, but his heart was in place. For me, he was still the perfect candidate for Emperor. He doesn't look down on people and lead by actions and example.

Other than the characters, another thing I like about this, and the one thing that amazes me is that, in this novel, those three words were never said and exchanged between leads (despite this being a romance story). Instead, their love was painted by actions alone.

It's cute. It's sweet.

Moreover, the build up of events complemented the character growth, and their love, really well. The characters were well fleshed out. Their emotions delivered well, even without the need for words. The ending was really satisfying too. Overall, it's a novel really worth reading. <<less
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New SkyVinn
April 22, 2017
Status: c123
5 stars since its all relative and 4 stars doesn't do justice to the strong points of the story.

There are many fun transmigration stories with a strong female protagonist out there. But this particular story caught my eye not because of its unique story line or main character that exacts revenge with powerful 'bitch-slaps' that brings out cheers from the audience; rather its quite a standard story with no plot-twist or dramatic climax. Rather its a placid story that flows gently by as you watch the events unfold. Hence, what... more>> captivates is the manner in which the story is written. The author creates a plausible story (given its genre) with sufficient humour, political intrigues and 'hot-bloodedness' to keep a standard reader of such genre entertained but it is in the beauty of the description and the deep-love that builds overtime that binds it strongly. There are of course times when the story seems rather ridiculous or the side-characters attitudes too far-fetched or one-dimensional but on the whole it works well.

The author clearly understood the constraints of what can be accomplished in a story of 100+ chapters and manipulates the point of view in which the story is told to effectively delve into various characters and build up the tension/mystery etc. I particularly enjoyed the use of the epilogues. This of course feeds the fans with the 'continuation' after 'happily ever after. More importantly, with the image of a crisp winter day after the snow has fallen, painting the world a pure white; pulls the story to a close with its main theme at the forefront - Astory of deep-abiding love [Do forgive me for the rather long and convoluted sentence]. This comment is not meant to detract from the main story which ends well and fitting given the female protagonist disposition - in fact the last chapter I felt truly brings to wrap the idea of a deep love using the imagery of the "Feng finding its Huang".

I do ramble on this idea of deep love and while it is not what most modern people of our day and age would find accepting in real-life, I enjoyed the author's treatment of it. The author does not attempt to re-create the ancient world to fit our values but rather explores the hope and the possibility that an arranged marriage of such times could result in something deep and true especially when idea of "3 wives and 4 concubines" was the norm. the relationship moves from mere curiousity and generic respect to a deep respect and sexual attraction and finally to the mildly possessive and 'true love' [at least the male's POV]. The female protagonist, as many other reviews state is a wonderful woman that I'm sure we admire even in modern times and her treatment of love slightly differs from the male protagonist. A result of her past experiences as well as her understanding of the 'ancient world' she lives in, but eventually she too finds that there can be such love which is sweet and perhaps a wish of most people - that we find such love ourselves.

A few random points to make: The translation is one of the better ones I have seen and it manages to maintain that imagery and tone that i suspect the author intended. Another story of note to have done so is the 'The Wolf Lord's Lady". Naturally will appreciate anyone who can suggest other stories that captured this.


I ended my reading wondering, will she reincarnate a second time round? What of He Heng? After all the story ends far in the future - would there be a modern Qing Ju who remembers her lifetime in Da Long dynasty and the world before that?

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monaffmona rated it
March 17, 2016
Status: --
Long-ass rambling. If you're lazy, just read the last 3 paragraphs.

I’m so glad I changed my mind and decided to read this! Not what I expected at all.

I used to avoid this book like the plague (despite the fact that I came across it so many times on recommendations) because of its depressing synopsis. What’s with “tolerating his cousin, enduring his concubines, bearing his mother”? Just seeing ‘his concubines’ is enough for me to avoid it. I don’t read those kinda novels. If the heroine is abused, has to endure... more>> too many hardships, has to share her husband (even in ancient setting), etc, I don’t read them. But this book is not like that at all.

(To be honest, I went ahead and read the epilogues before deciding if I should read this novel and that made me very partial to a character I wouldn’t have paid much positive attention to otherwise, ahhhh just thinking about it makes me wanna cry T.T I’m glad I did that, though)

This book is about a woman from modern era transmigrating into the body of a timid, kinda abused, beautiful noble girl who just recently got married to a wang ye (high ranked prince) who has a chance at ascending the throne. So basically she wakes up as a wang fei (princess consort).

The story is very unique in that it just features the everyday life of the female mc eg managing the wangfu, going to banquets, interacting with her husband, doing whatever to amuse herself/pass the time. Sounds boring but the fact that this is the life of the wife of a powerful prince who might one day sit on the throne makes it extremely fun, fancy to read about.

The female mc is very unique and I simply ADORE her. She is very smart, a bit lazy, and just wants to live a free/pleasurable/happy/satisfied life, but she’s also VERY realistic, to the point of being apathetic in some aspects. She wakes up and finds herself in quite a predicament: unfavored wang fei in ancient era where women's quality of life mostly depends on the favor of their husband or their family background. What she does is simply ADAPTS to her current situation to perfection! She does her duties as wang fei flawlessly(sometimes I wonder how on earth she knows the perfect protocol/right things to do), (un?)intentionally attracts her husband with her beauty/charm/elegance, and simply lives a luxurious, pampered life where she can do pretty much whatever she wants (and that’s what she wants) because she’s very very smart in how she conducts herself and how she deals with people (I’d say she’s very good at human psychology). She doesn’t go out of her way to make others miserable, but she won’t let anyone make her miserable and she’s not merciful either. Here's how her husband describes her personality in the novel:


(this is from an epilogue)

How could the world have a woman like this? One who could be dignified, lazy, generous, cruel, and seductive. This kind of woman, any man couldn’t help but look twice


which I think is pretty accurate (when you look from his point of view), though I doubt he ever got to know all of her, because based on her character, she wouldn’t bare her all to him just for the sake of it. She’s smarter than that)


The male lead really makes me believe he’s a powerful wang ye. He has the mentality of a prince in the ancient time – proud, ENTITLED, can be flippant, doesn’t hold many things/people in high regards. He’s also smart, cunning, calculating, ambitious, and becomes very infatuated with the female mc, always doting on her. The intrigue/attraction on his part is instant and the development is quite fast but somehow it’s still realistic and very in character.

regarding his concubines:

The male lead has quite a few concubines (has had them long before he marries the fmc), but they can't really do anything to the female mc at all. He sees these women as amusement/playthings, and he doesn’t care for any of them (ancient era dude mentality). He stops having sex with them after he has sex with the female mc (new soul, after she wakes up) so the couple pretty much have a monogamous relationship. In fact, he doesn't bother with the concubines at all. He only spends time with the female mc.

Anyway, for those who are very sensitive to concubine/mistress/Other Woman elements:


Even after he falls for her, which is practically at first sight(new soul) or sth, male lead doesn't dissolve his harem or see anything wrong with him having concubines and female mc having to deal with them (as per her duty as wang fei). As mentioned earlier, solid ancient era dude mentality. He doesn't sleep with them or bother with them simply because he doesn't want them. Period. Not because he thinks it would be wrong to do so. As the story goes on, the male lead gets more and more open with his affection, but the female mc doesn't believe he can be a 1-woman kinda man or that his love could be everlasting. (she's veryyyyyyy realistic. poor guy. though, she has good reasons and I think that's a smart choice in her situation)

I'd say this book is pretty safe for even fluffballs like me who don't read books with OW elements at all and usually gravitate towards fluff. Though the vibe is blue/bittersweet/realistic (it keeps me on my toes as I don't know which way the story will go/will the male lead's affection lessen with time/ etc), it's still very swoon-worthy and there's not really any OW stuff. Male leads stays faithful and I'd say he's wayyyy more devoted to her than she is to him. = =


In short, the story depicts the everyday life of the smart, calculative, realistic, and lazy female mc from modern time who woke up in the body of a young wang fei (princess consort) in ancient era.

A historical romance with strong slice-of-life elements. The tone is blue, bittersweet, realistic with a dash of fluff, sweetness, indulgence here and there. It sometimes makes me sigh 'ah, such is life...', but mostly just makes me all giddy with how much He Heng pampers his wife >.<

There are calculations and schemes, but not those crazy complex evil plot gong saga. This novel feels weirdly calm and simple, but it's soooo addictive and exciting I just couldn't stop reading. <<less
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Llamia rated it
March 19, 2016
Status: completed
Absolute gem. I love the “no bullshit” attitude. At first I was unhappy with the way the husband was with the previous Qing Yu, but then you realize how cute he is.
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Especially that part where he got drunk and he asked “Why don’t you ever believe me?”.


I read the whole thing in 2-3 days. I was looking for something to appease the slow update of Chu Wang Fei and The Princess Wei

The Epilogues were both sad and fulfilling. The story was not a sad one, but the author lets us see not only the end of the MC and her husband, but a few of the side characters. Epilogue 1 broke my heart and I couldn’t stop thinking about it for a while. <<less
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Ecirteab rated it
July 11, 2016
Status: c123
The summary is sort of misleading and put me off but once I started reading, I couldn't stop.

I very much like the MC. There's no angst about her past and from start to end, her confidence, knowledge of her place, and conviction is something that makes her so very endearing. She is one of the most unique MCs I've read about and the relationship between her and her husband is something I came to love very much.

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Her husband grows to supremely devoted to her and once he falls in love, basically never touches his concubines again. What I really loved, however, was the ambiguity of the MC's own feelings towards him. It is never explicitly stated and her husband is well aware her loves her far more than she loves him. However, as the novel so aptly states, actions prove far more than words and it is the MC's actions which truly reveal the depths of her feelings for him, and him for her. A very well suited couple.


This is a slice of life novel set in a the 'harem' of her husband with the expected politics and stuff. It may sound strange but I found the slice of life style very fitting to the story and the lazy MC. Actually, it's more 'languid' than lazy I feel haha. It felt natural and devoid of unnecessary tension but still capable of intense scenes.

For me, the story really hit it's climax

at the emperor's death scene

. It was truly an intense scene and the events leading and following it were amazingly depicted. The concluding chapters of the novel were (to me) very much poignant and beautiful, the languidness of the imperial past, the fleetingness of life, but also the beauty of love. The writing and translations were well done and didn't diminish from the story.

A very well done historical romance novel with a smart and fascinating MC. <<less
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April 21, 2016
Status: --
This novel is transmigration, NOT reincarnation. Stop changing the tag.

Anyways, might as well leave a review. Reading this is a like a slice of life historical. It’s basically about the MC who is the main wife of a prince and manages his household and harem (other women).

It’s not a bad read, but I had to take a break from it because the translator is in love with pinyin and puts it everywhere. Having to remember vocabulary or refer to a glossary EVERY time a chapter releases is not... more>> enjoyable. (To be honest, I started just skipping over the untranslated words.) I’m not here to learn Chinese, I’m just here to read a story.

Impression so far: Likable heroine. Not too sure about the guy. Meh about the other women (very typical “harem politics”). Oddly calm story. <<less
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Sae rated it
October 19, 2016
Status: Completed
Definitely a great novel of its genre, whichever you would categorize it into.

There is a fine balance between romance and noble/imperial life struggle, though it is more lighthearted and easy on the mind than other disadvantaged female reincarnation stories. The novel is straightforward, laced with humor and subtle philosophy, only 123 chap yet many moments are pure gold, I didn't regret a second of it.

There are no overly, obviously 1D dumb characters that put up a headache of prolonged nonsense verbal arguments. Many characters are realistic and some even... more>> delightful, those who appear simple are not really simple, befitting the era setting. The lead couple are smart people who excel at acting and hiding their true capabilities. Their interactions are thus interesting and spark great chemistry.


The MC is clear-headed, open-minded, charismatic, adapting and knows how to care for herself. She has a firm mindset and not afraid to live as freely as she could because 'the worse is just death'. She manages people skillfully and never goes out of her way to slight more people and create never ending cycle of enmity, nor actively trying to climb the power ladder. That's why she is lowkey, not showing off her might yet still greatly respected and able to enjoy her life though being a member of the imperial family.

The male lead's character can be considered pretty decent for the era and also for someone with the prince position. He is also capable yet even more lowkey, because he is the type that secretly scheming, and he is very good at it. The story being not from his pov also contributes to this. I eventually got to see how he is fitting to be a ruler, a skilled flirt but I never held him highly in the matter of romance and reading the MC's heart. However at c104, I realized that I underestimated him greatly. After that he gets better and better.


The translation quality is thumbs up great, the translator is thoughtful and pleasant. The author leaves a good impression. 5/5 for everything. <<less
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Liri rated it
August 5, 2016
Status: Completed
I love reincarnation/transmigration stories, especially with political struggles, royalty and other similar tags, but every time I came to this story, I had chosen not to in favour of another novel, but I am so eternally glad that I gave it a chance, because this novel is a gem!

It's different than the other transmigration etc. stories that I have read before, such as Chu Wang Fei or Descent of the Phoenix or Duke's Daughter.


The MC is different from the typical MCs. If you put her next to the queen of... more>> assassins (DOP) or calm and ccapable and eloquent previous investigator (CWF), she would definitely take a backseat. Surely, she is capable, intelligent, praised to be beautiful like the others, but she takes no initiative at the game of politics. The path towards empress, she accepted or more like consented to it, instead of pursuing the position. Neither did she grandly scheme for revenge or plot, when it was unnecessary. In the end, all her 'achievements' were a response to the antagonists around her. Yet, even though she made no deliberate part in becoming empress, it is also clear that no one else could have been in her position. In a way, it is fascinating, because despite not actively achieving it, she is worthy, more than any other female characters in the story.

The male lead was dreamy, perhaps too dreamy. Maybe he was not made to seem perfect, his behaviour towards his other wives and his perception of females in general before he met the MC was callous, if not cruel. But in the eyes of the female reader, he was perfect, because in the end he wholeheartedly loved the MC and devoted himself to her her and only her, their whole relationship and their interaction mostly revolved around the MC, so who can complain?

The portrayal of other characters are also worthy to mention. Of course, there are the villains and antagonists and other cliches, but even dislikeable characters had their moments of sympathy and pity, especially women, who met a tragic ending.


I absolutely loved the MC's remark about her mother in law and the Empress. If it were not for the society, making them rely on one man, they could have been great. It's true. The Empress and her mother in law, a concubine, were remarkable, capable and intelligent, but they were wasted on the weak Emperor.

Then we also have strong-willed Jing An princess, a divorcee more or less and an important political figure, especially since she is divorced from her husband.

But it is He Yuan's story, which is most captivating in the last few chapters. I do not want to spoiler too much about him, only warning to watch out for this characters and that, even if I am not sure whether I (should) like him, the epilogue broke my heart.



Is there a real plot? I feel like the story was more about the relationship between the female and the male character rather than what goes on. I am not saying that there is no action, there is plenty.

The plot/ relationship is very slow-paced, which did not bother me at all. A little frustrated, but no complaint, because it made it seem more mature and real. There was no need for the sudden declaration of love. Love, the word itself, was rarely mentioned aside from silly usages from females, who wanted to get into the male lead's good graces or fancied themselves in love. I admired this very much and it is not surprise, because both are level-headed and cautious, especially the female. The fact that you don't read this between them, you can read this between the lines, which makes it so much sweeter.

I love the narration of the story. It also highlight some character's development, but also their complexity and the reader is given a chance to watch certain aspects from side characters, which is just wonderful. Many people say that the novel has a slice of life-element. It is an argument I can understand, because for a royalty, political struggle, revenge story, it has surprisingly less royalty, political struggle and revenge as the focus. These elements are there and yet, I think although they contribute, they are not the key factors that makes it so great.

I also love the take on the female role in society. There was one part in the story, which was beyond amazing and I think is worthy of being quoted.

"The biggest difference between men and women was that men were always best at forgetting the good of women and women was best at remembering the good of men."

"Peaceful days will make people forget the beauty of the past."

"If you forgot yourself, how could somebody else remember you?"


The novel is titled Virtous Wife and although you can find reasons in that, I believe it does not serve it justice. It is so much more and especially the summary is very lacking. If not for the sake of the wonderful and excellent reviews and ratings, I would not have given it a second thought. When I did, I became so addicted. Luckily, the chapters are all already translated, otherwise it would have been torturing.

Overall, it is a wonderful novel, worthy of being read. I can recommend this to every person. At first, I had wanted to give it only four stars, because I was a little critical, there was no overly dramatic event, it does not have the same suspension and high and low like CWF, the MC cannot really complain, but in the end, it would be unfair, because I remember they joy I felt when reading the chapters. Furthermore, even though it is uncharacterstically happy and 'peaceful', there is nothing wrong about it, because sometimes peaceful and happy is a good contrast to the dark and angsty revenge plots. <<less
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pichu rated it
May 10, 2016
Status: --
Lack of sleep for 2 days is worth it.

I enjoyed reading this story. There is no major conflict between the main characters, its more like nourishing love as time passed. Slow paced yet i can't stop reading it. Good job and thank you.
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Selax rated it
September 10, 2016
Status: c123
Awesome story. Couldn't keep it down. So addictive that I had to re-read it immediately. Definitely recommending this story to everyone. You won't be disappointed. Straight forward with no time wasted.

The female lead is amazing. One of the best reincarnation character that I have come across so far.
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Adelicya rated it
June 4, 2016
Status: c123
This is one of the stories I can say that I've truly enjoyed despite my love being action and adventure novels. A great slice of life with no love triangles or heavy politics involved story line which I see a lot of in historical drama.
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alaskame rated it
May 6, 2016
Status: --
The novel is a slow-paced one with not much excitement and one might really forgot that the MC is reincarnated. If you want something drastic, you may feel a little disappointed. However, the story is lovely with a ticklish feeling for some who prefer slice-of-life style.

In my case, this novel made me sleep late at night, keep saying just a few more chaps... Now that I can finish the whole novel I should have a proper nap.
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Iskandria rated it
March 3, 2017
Status: c123
This is an excellent light novel.

With only 123 chapters it is the shortest novel I've read so far, which is also completed, naturally.

Overall idea is a reincarnation of a smart female into the body of a unfortunate one. A classic. The female lead has no overpowered abilities. She simply has brains. Nice! As one might think, the chapters are on point and doesnt get lost in senseless explanations. 123 chapters, youre never getting bored or try to skip parts. A welcoming change. Story is simple, slaps are... more>> there but not as excessive as the classics.

Focus lies on the characters. Sweet, nice, and understandable. MCs have sex. Nice! Villains are not purely villainous but comprehensible and with intelligent reactions and endings. Author puts emphasis on the fate of women in a similar time period as the Ancient chinese dynasties. Bittersweet, not always fulfilling, but intelligent and realistic. Do not fret, though, happy ending for MCs.

Low chapters mean not always satisfying appearences of side characters. Which is sad, since they are well made and likeable. Doesnt negatively influence the Story, though.
Had some good laughs along the way, so Humor is there. Nice!

Overall: Read this, its good. <<less
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KKristen rated it
February 12, 2017
Status: Completed
This is a slice-of-life story with a realistic depiction of life as a woman of ancient Chinese nobility. The romance, character development, and plot moves slowly but steadily. There are no plot-holes and the ending will leave you satisfied.

5/5 for good, realistic writing.
Highly recommended -- but only if you are patient and interested in politics, a very slow-burning romance, and ancient Chinese culture (with no magic or martial arts). You also should enjoy scandals and seeing noble women throw a lot of shade.

It may sound a... more>> bit boring because it lacks battles and wild main characters, but I thought it was intriguing and really enjoyed it!

To Be a Virtuous Wife is a slow and steady historical fiction about a modern woman who is reincarnated in the body of an girl who has recently married a royal prince. She navigates his harem, deals with other noble women, manages his household, wins him over, and supports him as his brothers fight to become emperor.

The reincarnation aspect is more of an explanation for her personality and understanding of people, rather than a crutch, source of power, or major plot point.

This novel really feels like a slice-of-life: slow and consistent most of the time, occasionally exciting, occasionally emotional. It really is about how the main character lives day-to-day (though there is also a real plot that advances steadily). The tone is good-humored, rational, and intelligent, just like our main character.

Also... in case you're worried about the romance... even though the actual love develops slowly, the flirting and interactions are constant and really enjoyable!


Qu Qing Ju - She was a skilled manager in the modern entertainment industry, so she understands a lot about the tricks and temperament of people. When she is reincarnated she rationally chooses to live her new life fully and to the best of her abilities. She is intelligent, mature, knows how to behave, and has no disillusions about love between men and women. Her character development from a friendly but distant reincarnatee, to a wife more invested in her new family, is subtle and well done. Although she is extremely skilled with people, overall she is a very realistic MC.

He Heng - The noble wangye husband. He's a very smart man who knows how to stay out of political trouble and knows how to treat his wife (even if there is no real love between them). He is familiar with the lies of nobility and the wiles of women. He becomes more and more likeable as a character as he learns to respect and rely on his wife and his affection for her slowly grows. (He also becomes somewhat of a masochist without realizing it, which is very enjoyable to read.)

Other nobility - They are very present characters and you understand their weak and strong points. He Heng's three brothers each have distinct personalities and schemes. His mother and sister are amazing women. Some of the antagonistic women are a little too arrogant and obvious, but it's done in a realistic way. The women constantly throw shade at each other (in a very sneaky and elegant way, haha).

Other side characters (such as servants) - They aren't bad but they aren't as fleshed-out as the nobility. I didn't mind.

The translation quality is very high, especially when it comes to poems and thinly-veiled insults. The translators are very good at expressing the right feeling.

However, there is a steep learning curve with lots of Chinese words and titles that can make getting through the first few chapters difficult. I think this is a common occurrence with Dreams of Jianghu's translations. But as always, they are really great at choosing really smart and well-written stories (these are the same folks who translate World of Cultivation). <<less
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JoAnna rated it
January 28, 2017
Status: Completed
There is only one word that can describe this story perfectly - SUGAR.
And, like the sugar that it was, it was addictive.

This whole novel was too sweet that I thought I was getting diabetes!
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svyatoslav rated it
January 21, 2017
Status: Completed
From start to finish, one of the most enjoyable novels I've read that you'd find on this site. If I were to describe it in one sentence it'd be: a realistic take on the unrealistic concept of true love. The premise is ironic and self-contradictory but the execution is near flawless so it works. Actually, not just the main premise but the whole nature of the novel is very self-contradictory yet somehow seemingly realistic. For example, there is an easy-going feeling to the novel where the female lead mainly wants... more>> a comfortable life and thus never really actively seeks revenge, yet all the characters who have acted against her and didn't repent end up more miserable than the villains of most revenge novels. It is not like the MC is cruel and lacks compassion, quite the opposite, however, she knows that sometimes you have to be firm. It is very refreshing as usually you get either one extreme or the other in these types of novels.

Another strength of the novel is that both main leads are not perfect and each have their flaws. In fact they are aware of their limitations and stick to their strengths. In general you have a good range of characters whose actions stay true to themselves throughout the novel (another refreshing quality). The level of the work is at a steadily high level throughout. Political intrigue is not overly complex (since it is not the main idea of the novel) and yet doesn't insult your intelligence, a very good balance.

If I had to find one flaw of the work, it is that the relationship of the 2 main leads never really encounters any truly difficult challenges which would require some sort of sacrifice on the part of either one. It gives it a bit of a fairy tail feel though I understand that the author never meant for this novel to be anything overly serious.


For example, she gives birth to a healthy male heir right off the bat. Imagine the pressure He Heng would have to face to have children with other wives if she is not able to produce an heir for even a few years! I doubt he would be able to stay completely faithful to her in such a case.


Anyway, I think of myself as one who is highly critical so to get 5 stars for an entire completed work is quite the feat. <<less
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Anastrisha rated it
November 8, 2016
Status: --
It's a nice and wonderful story.

The Female lead wasn't OP or anything and handled the situation in a somehow realistic way. It's just it's somehow depressing yet it's the truth as it felt like until the end there was only that deep trust within them, perhaps the male lead shown to have been fallen in love but the female's feeling for him even now is still unknown. And they even somehow silently accept that feeling's always change and just as love hence they might not know for their next lifetime,... more>> but in that lifetime they'll be together -which is why I like the female lead's character, even at the end she still knows her place and knows there's limit. <<less
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chibiheaven rated it
November 3, 2016
Status: Completed
This was a beautiful story.

I can't quite describe how I felt.

This story was an attempt to realistically depict the life of a reincarnated modern women in a historical setting. There is no nonsense wugong and overpowered female main characters in this novel.

... more>> You'll fall in love with the female protagonist in this sweet slice of life historical romance. She is realistic, witty, and charming.

Please don't be turned off by the summary and give it a chance. <<less
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Saiyademon22 rated it
July 26, 2016
Status: Completed
Okay all I could say so far will be very short for my type of reviews

-A bit two dimensional, not that you'll hate it or love it but good enough that you can follow their character and learn to know and like them as the story goes. Not much a fan of the male MC, because his to arrogant for my taste as the story starts bu latter on he becomes too stand offish later on. the female MC is not that heart-warming character but rather the cool type... more>> that most people would like in a female MC, not too fierce and not too gentle.
-a linear plot, imperial politics, but mostly the battle is at the female yuan (palaces) most of the story follows the general flow of the romance masses, with a mature characters to make it more realistic.
-can't write much cause i had read the translated version. but it has a nice flow and an average used of wording, not too deep or too simple.
-The setting is very amiable well portraited, but not much on the details..(better watch more chine historical dramas to be able to completely visualized the setting)
-one of the best story with female romance protagonist, so far aside from Empress with no Virtue,Chu Wang Fei these has one of the best historical drama/romance. <<less
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July 9, 2016
Status: --
To Be a Virtuous Wife is one of the top stories of the "I woke up in ancient China as a disadvantaged noblewoman" type, alongside the Mistaken Marriage Match series. The story has a sense of ease and flow made from a well-thought out progression and keen editing.

The MC's maturity and self-confidence make her truly virtuous; unlike most MCs in this genre, she isn't embroiled in some terrible life-or-death intrigue, and thus lives a normal life. She makes everything seem effortless, though the reader can obviously tell that a... more>> lesser woman would crumble in her position (as had the original owner of her body). The MC's careful handling of every situation defuses most potential drama sites before they can start, making for a beautiful slice of life void of the hair-tearing and contrived events that you come to expect in these kinds of stories.

When I first started reading, I dropped the story after spending a chapter with the male lead because he felt absolutely, dreadfully boring. I'm extremely glad that I picked this back up, though - the male lead's personality only shows later, when the MC actually spends time with him. What I like most about the male lead is his subtle intelligence and unstated court manipulations, as well as how his love for the MC develops as he learns her personality. I think this kind of romance is much more touching than the typical 'fell in love because she's pretty and maybe did some weird things' which I had come to expect.

All in all, this story is a must if you enjoy romance, Ancient China, and/or transmigration. It's also an excellent pick if you're looking for an intelligent and capable female lead. <<less
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lf rated it
March 27, 2017
Status: Completed
Sweet and heartwarming. I really appreciate the main character's attitude, "I am also a woman, so I don't want to make things hard for other women". The novel is a good length, I didn't feel like the author was running out of ideas and trying to pad character count.

Things I really like about this: the male lead is not devilishly handsome or forceful, the female lead is not automatically skilled at everything. We don't have to see her in a situation where "luckily she picked up this random ancient hobby... more>> in her past life so she can perform better than anyone who has spent their whole life on it". I love that even women who start out as enemies can stop being enemies without dying. I love that the female lead can forgive and help someone who insulted her.

I feel that the female lead is actually OP, but only in certain areas. It's acceptable because it makes sense that she should be at least pretty good at these areas, and she is also pretty bad in areas that she should have no advantage in.

One point that's been brought up by the translator is that she's an adult competing with teenagers. With this in mind, even if the schemes against the female lead are clumsy, well, they're just kids.

I won't comment on the translation since these reviews are supposed to be strictly about the novel and not the translation. <<less
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letswait rated it
March 22, 2017
Status: c123
I simply loved it. The setting/"world" is somewhat similar to Chu Wang Fei but they're far from the same.

Someone said "Additionally the translation was extremely poor, with many words deliberately left untranslated, leaving us trying to remember or guess what ce fei, fu, wangfei, and so many more words mean.".

Many words don't seem to have an equal in the english language, so the translator left an explanation in the notes instead of explaining the same thing hundreds/thousands of times in-line. I would prefer it like it currently is, instead of... more>> doing the latter.

This novel have rather long chapters. <<less
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